Comments on: Sex Tips for Men who sleep with Women… http://adventuresfrom.com/2009/01/20/sex-tips-for-men-who-sleep-with-women.html We think there is a serious lack of relevant and useful information about the sexuality of African women. This blog is a space for African women to share tips, experiences and more... Wed, 16 May 2012 19:14:43 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.2 By: Nana http://adventuresfrom.com/2009/01/20/sex-tips-for-men-who-sleep-with-women.html#comment-423 Nana Fri, 23 Jan 2009 12:06:00 +0000 http://adventuresfrom.com/2009/01/20/sex-tips-for-men-who-sleep-with-women.html#comment-423 'Bonti, trust me, women are willing to flip the script if they know they will be having a good time. Try and flip the script to try something the woman will enjoy. Ask her what else she will like to try. Unfortunately our cultural norms have made it difficult for some women to openly express their sexual wants and desires so you may need to be a little patient. Whilst on the subject of flipping the script it can also be very annoying if they guy just wants to perform sexual acrobatics and hold you in all sort of body contorting positions. That's not what I want when we flip the script'. <br/> <br/>'Kayna, watch out for two very special blogs on penis sizes. Thanks for the suggestion!' ‘Bonti, trust me, women are willing to flip the script if they know they will be having a good time. Try and flip the script to try something the woman will enjoy. Ask her what else she will like to try. Unfortunately our cultural norms have made it difficult for some women to openly express their sexual wants and desires so you may need to be a little patient. Whilst on the subject of flipping the script it can also be very annoying if they guy just wants to perform sexual acrobatics and hold you in all sort of body contorting positions. That’s not what I want when we flip the script’.

‘Kayna, watch out for two very special blogs on penis sizes. Thanks for the suggestion!’

]]> By: Oluniyi David Ajao http://adventuresfrom.com/2009/01/20/sex-tips-for-men-who-sleep-with-women.html#comment-420 Oluniyi David Ajao Thu, 22 Jan 2009 12:36:00 +0000 http://adventuresfrom.com/2009/01/20/sex-tips-for-men-who-sleep-with-women.html#comment-420 Ah. Now I see why you guys enjoyed the last meeting. There was a lot to talk about! :) Ah. Now I see why you guys enjoyed the last meeting. There was a lot to talk about! :)

]]> By: Anonymous http://adventuresfrom.com/2009/01/20/sex-tips-for-men-who-sleep-with-women.html#comment-417 Anonymous Wed, 21 Jan 2009 20:00:00 +0000 http://adventuresfrom.com/2009/01/20/sex-tips-for-men-who-sleep-with-women.html#comment-417 Mad Props to you women for starting this frank and informative blog! <br/>*Esi....I totally agree with u on the tongue-in-the-ear thing. If I wanted my ear cleaned than I would prefer a q-tip/cotton bud. It is soooo not sexy! <br/><br/>*I agree with number 7. but some of us are way too self-conscious to enjoy the action anyway. <br/><br/>It seems Ghana guys are not so eager to go down there. I knew a man who never wanted head because he never wanted to feel obligated to go down on any girl. He said the thought made him feel ill. Some years ago I heard a pastor/sex counsellor on a GTV show talk how he could never bring himself to put the mouth that he ate with somewhere that was so dirty...he said it was dangerous and unhygienic. He of course was willing to stick his private bits there though. <br/><br/>Well done for the blog ladies!<br/>*Jane Doe* Mad Props to you women for starting this frank and informative blog!
*Esi….I totally agree with u on the tongue-in-the-ear thing. If I wanted my ear cleaned than I would prefer a q-tip/cotton bud. It is soooo not sexy!

*I agree with number 7. but some of us are way too self-conscious to enjoy the action anyway.

It seems Ghana guys are not so eager to go down there. I knew a man who never wanted head because he never wanted to feel obligated to go down on any girl. He said the thought made him feel ill. Some years ago I heard a pastor/sex counsellor on a GTV show talk how he could never bring himself to put the mouth that he ate with somewhere that was so dirty…he said it was dangerous and unhygienic. He of course was willing to stick his private bits there though.

Well done for the blog ladies!
*Jane Doe*

]]> By: kayna5 http://adventuresfrom.com/2009/01/20/sex-tips-for-men-who-sleep-with-women.html#comment-415 kayna5 Wed, 21 Jan 2009 09:13:00 +0000 http://adventuresfrom.com/2009/01/20/sex-tips-for-men-who-sleep-with-women.html#comment-415 Ok, I have to add, I don't want a guy to go down on me the first time. I have to get in sync with you so wait till I give the hint.<br/><br/>Secondly, foreplay, foreplay, foreplay... Its the anticipation that does it for me. If you rush in, it wont work for me and that will be the last time I will show you my panties!:-) Erotic texts are "da bomb!"<br/><br/>And finally who said the bigger, the better? I personally don't like too big. It hurts. Please write on size and let me see what others think too. Pretty please? Ok, I have to add, I don’t want a guy to go down on me the first time. I have to get in sync with you so wait till I give the hint.

Secondly, foreplay, foreplay, foreplay… Its the anticipation that does it for me. If you rush in, it wont work for me and that will be the last time I will show you my panties!:-) Erotic texts are “da bomb!”

And finally who said the bigger, the better? I personally don’t like too big. It hurts. Please write on size and let me see what others think too. Pretty please?

]]> By: Esi W. Cleland http://adventuresfrom.com/2009/01/20/sex-tips-for-men-who-sleep-with-women.html#comment-414 Esi W. Cleland Wed, 21 Jan 2009 07:20:00 +0000 http://adventuresfrom.com/2009/01/20/sex-tips-for-men-who-sleep-with-women.html#comment-414 @novisi, gentle nibbling is ok but some people want to stick their whole tongue with saliva and everything in there. aba! But i shdn't say never...maybe some women like it. <br/><br/>@B.O.N.T.I, hmm i haven't seen many vaginas in my lifetime but what exactly is a dirty vagina? cleaner and shaved. if it's squeaky clean, it loses the flavor! HAHA! please...some people love the funk and hair. seriously! Okay, i'm tripping. having too much fun with this obviously. On a more serious note, yeah, i agree with you that sisters ought to give brothers an incentive to munch. @novisi, gentle nibbling is ok but some people want to stick their whole tongue with saliva and everything in there. aba! But i shdn’t say never…maybe some women like it.

@B.O.N.T.I, hmm i haven’t seen many vaginas in my lifetime but what exactly is a dirty vagina? cleaner and shaved. if it’s squeaky clean, it loses the flavor! HAHA! please…some people love the funk and hair. seriously! Okay, i’m tripping. having too much fun with this obviously. On a more serious note, yeah, i agree with you that sisters ought to give brothers an incentive to munch.

]]> By: B.O.N.T.I http://adventuresfrom.com/2009/01/20/sex-tips-for-men-who-sleep-with-women.html#comment-413 B.O.N.T.I Wed, 21 Jan 2009 00:38:00 +0000 http://adventuresfrom.com/2009/01/20/sex-tips-for-men-who-sleep-with-women.html#comment-413 hmmmm...interesting peeps...lol<br/><br/>Esi i dont agree with u on 7. i think if he wants to then fine if he doesnt...den he doesnt.. i guess guyz will do 7. if it was cleaner and shaved... this goes both wayz actually...<br/><br/>Penny... men do pay attention...datz how come we have an evaluation form. we lyk to knw how we did each tyme ders an encounter and after dat we brain-storm on how to improve... <br/><br/>Nana abt 3. do u knw how many tymes guyz have tried to flip da script but da ladies are not interested and feel weird abt it. seriously dey are not open to new things.. its da same old thing 4 dem.. either Do**y or Missionary...etc hmmmm…interesting peeps…lol

Esi i dont agree with u on 7. i think if he wants to then fine if he doesnt…den he doesnt.. i guess guyz will do 7. if it was cleaner and shaved… this goes both wayz actually…

Penny… men do pay attention…datz how come we have an evaluation form. we lyk to knw how we did each tyme ders an encounter and after dat we brain-storm on how to improve…

Nana abt 3. do u knw how many tymes guyz have tried to flip da script but da ladies are not interested and feel weird abt it. seriously dey are not open to new things.. its da same old thing 4 dem.. either Do**y or Missionary…etc

]]> By: Nana http://adventuresfrom.com/2009/01/20/sex-tips-for-men-who-sleep-with-women.html#comment-412 Nana Tue, 20 Jan 2009 23:59:00 +0000 http://adventuresfrom.com/2009/01/20/sex-tips-for-men-who-sleep-with-women.html#comment-412 Nana Yaw - I will be awaiting your feedback :)<br/> <br/>Esi - Thanks for adding your tips. I like your stance on Tip number 7. We all need to have our 'non -negotiables'<br/> <br/>Miss Moneypenny - Well put. I am sure the men are taking note<br/> <br/>Enoch - Thanks for the feedback!<br/> <br/>Eyes Only - I totally agree that sex/making love is a two way 'thing'. I just might write a post on 'Tips for women who sleep with men...'<br/><br/>Novisi - I am not sure I understand what you mean by 'just tell me to do what i'm stopping' but thanks for stopping by Nana Yaw – I will be awaiting your feedback :)

Esi – Thanks for adding your tips. I like your stance on Tip number 7. We all need to have our ‘non -negotiables’

Miss Moneypenny – Well put. I am sure the men are taking note

Enoch – Thanks for the feedback!

Eyes Only – I totally agree that sex/making love is a two way ‘thing’. I just might write a post on ‘Tips for women who sleep with men…’

Novisi – I am not sure I understand what you mean by ‘just tell me to do what i’m stopping’ but thanks for stopping by

]]> By: novisi http://adventuresfrom.com/2009/01/20/sex-tips-for-men-who-sleep-with-women.html#comment-411 novisi Tue, 20 Jan 2009 22:42:00 +0000 http://adventuresfrom.com/2009/01/20/sex-tips-for-men-who-sleep-with-women.html#comment-411 wow...<br/><br/>just tell me to do what i'm stopping and i would do it for you... (apart from this and that and this...)<br/><br/>hehehehehehehe...!<br/><br/>@Esi... your ear is too sensitive (hyper???) .... hahahahaha... ok... i'd just take heed!<br/><br/>sweeeeet!!! wow…

just tell me to do what i’m stopping and i would do it for you… (apart from this and that and this…)

hehehehehehehe…!

@Esi… your ear is too sensitive (hyper???) …. hahahahaha… ok… i’d just take heed!

sweeeeet!!!

]]> By: eyes-only http://adventuresfrom.com/2009/01/20/sex-tips-for-men-who-sleep-with-women.html#comment-410 eyes-only Tue, 20 Jan 2009 15:20:00 +0000 http://adventuresfrom.com/2009/01/20/sex-tips-for-men-who-sleep-with-women.html#comment-410 Wow this is of but chain, but please advice our ladies to participate in it.they see the whole show as amanly thing and therefore just lay on their backs and watch their guys cricify them like..............personal advice to the ladies out there, making love or having sex (whichever way you will call it) is a two way affair.The job is not only on the mans shoulders.Sex is ment to be enjoyed by both partners.<br/>thank you. Wow this is of but chain, but please advice our ladies to participate in it.they see the whole show as amanly thing and therefore just lay on their backs and watch their guys cricify them like…………..personal advice to the ladies out there, making love or having sex (whichever way you will call it) is a two way affair.The job is not only on the mans shoulders.Sex is ment to be enjoyed by both partners.
thank you.

]]> By: Enoch Darfah Frimpong http://adventuresfrom.com/2009/01/20/sex-tips-for-men-who-sleep-with-women.html#comment-409 Enoch Darfah Frimpong Tue, 20 Jan 2009 14:57:00 +0000 http://adventuresfrom.com/2009/01/20/sex-tips-for-men-who-sleep-with-women.html#comment-409 Wow!! This is very helpful. Thanks Wow!! This is very helpful. Thanks

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