Comments on: My Secret Garden: African women’s sexual fantasies http://adventuresfrom.com/2009/03/21/my-secret-garden-african-womens-sexual-fantasies.html We think there is a serious lack of relevant and useful information about the sexuality of African women. This blog is a space for African women to share tips, experiences and more... Wed, 16 May 2012 19:14:43 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.2 By: Kofi Ametewee http://adventuresfrom.com/2009/03/21/my-secret-garden-african-womens-sexual-fantasies.html#comment-1627 Kofi Ametewee Sat, 20 Feb 2010 08:23:39 +0000 http://adventuresfrom.com/2009/03/21/my-secret-garden-african-womens-sexual-fantasies.html#comment-1627 @Nina, I think this is in the category of fantasy... making the object of fantasy relevant. I think it'd be wrong to censor this. Or, moderate this out of existence. If it were masquerading as reportage, that would be a different matter. That is the distinction I see. @Nina, I think this is in the category of fantasy… making the object of fantasy relevant. I think it’d be wrong to censor this. Or, moderate this out of existence. If it were masquerading as reportage, that would be a different matter. That is the distinction I see.

]]> By: Nana Darkoa http://adventuresfrom.com/2009/03/21/my-secret-garden-african-womens-sexual-fantasies.html#comment-1625 Nana Darkoa Sat, 20 Feb 2010 01:52:45 +0000 http://adventuresfrom.com/2009/03/21/my-secret-garden-african-womens-sexual-fantasies.html#comment-1625 @Nina - Hi and thanks for reading the blog. I hear your concerns about the personalities mentioned in Novisi's comments. Its a tough one. On the one hand I do moderate the comments but its very 'light' moderation - I try to provide space for people to express themselves although I do not always agree with their choice of expression. Maybe as this blog grows I will need to come up with some 'blog etiquette for Adventures' and your feedback will definitely be borne in mind @Nina – Hi and thanks for reading the blog. I hear your concerns about the personalities mentioned in Novisi’s comments. Its a tough one. On the one hand I do moderate the comments but its very ‘light’ moderation – I try to provide space for people to express themselves although I do not always agree with their choice of expression. Maybe as this blog grows I will need to come up with some ‘blog etiquette for Adventures’ and your feedback will definitely be borne in mind

]]> By: Nina http://adventuresfrom.com/2009/03/21/my-secret-garden-african-womens-sexual-fantasies.html#comment-1616 Nina Fri, 19 Feb 2010 13:49:19 +0000 http://adventuresfrom.com/2009/03/21/my-secret-garden-african-womens-sexual-fantasies.html#comment-1616 I thank you for this post, but I think we should also introduce the "report" feature. Novisi´s idea could have been good, but it is so sickening and very disrespectful to name people´s names. Why does she or he not give in her / her own name. I think the Owner of this blog should erase this comment, or ban this user this forum. Let us present our afican sexuality with respect. No matter some times Afrian sexuality is termed perverse!! I would be grateful to Nana if she reacted to this cause. I thank you for this post, but I think we should also introduce the “report” feature.
Novisi´s idea could have been good, but it is so sickening and very disrespectful to name people´s names. Why does she or he not give in her / her own name. I think the Owner of this blog should erase this comment, or ban this user this forum.
Let us present our afican sexuality with respect. No matter some times Afrian sexuality is termed perverse!!

I would be grateful to Nana if she reacted to this cause.

]]> By: novisi http://adventuresfrom.com/2009/03/21/my-secret-garden-african-womens-sexual-fantasies.html#comment-556 novisi Sun, 05 Apr 2009 09:18:00 +0000 http://adventuresfrom.com/2009/03/21/my-secret-garden-african-womens-sexual-fantasies.html#comment-556 male here!<br/>what about Michele 'heading' cute under Obama's oval office desk while he attempts to pay attention to a visiting Mugabe for a bailout!<br/><br/>i bet this would be a sellout!<br/><br/>@shane! don't wonder what i stand to gain from what someone else stands to gain from giving another pleasure! it's all in the mind! hehe! male here!
what about Michele ‘heading’ cute under Obama’s oval office desk while he attempts to pay attention to a visiting Mugabe for a bailout!

i bet this would be a sellout!

@shane! don’t wonder what i stand to gain from what someone else stands to gain from giving another pleasure! it’s all in the mind! hehe!

]]> By: BrownAangel http://adventuresfrom.com/2009/03/21/my-secret-garden-african-womens-sexual-fantasies.html#comment-532 BrownAangel Mon, 30 Mar 2009 09:48:00 +0000 http://adventuresfrom.com/2009/03/21/my-secret-garden-african-womens-sexual-fantasies.html#comment-532 Oh Shane...there is intense pleasure in giving someone else pleasure. I really enjoy giving blow jobs but I discriminate a lot with who I give them to. Needless to say, if I see you enjoying it... i'm on such a high.... Oh Shane…there is intense pleasure in giving someone else pleasure. I really enjoy giving blow jobs but I discriminate a lot with who I give them to. Needless to say, if I see you enjoying it… i’m on such a high….

]]> By: Shane http://adventuresfrom.com/2009/03/21/my-secret-garden-african-womens-sexual-fantasies.html#comment-529 Shane Sun, 29 Mar 2009 18:52:00 +0000 http://adventuresfrom.com/2009/03/21/my-secret-garden-african-womens-sexual-fantasies.html#comment-529 I find it interesting that bijou's fantasy centers around someone else's pleasure and not her own. What's in it for her? I find it interesting that bijou’s fantasy centers around someone else’s pleasure and not her own. What’s in it for her?

]]> By: Nana http://adventuresfrom.com/2009/03/21/my-secret-garden-african-womens-sexual-fantasies.html#comment-527 Nana Sun, 29 Mar 2009 10:13:00 +0000 http://adventuresfrom.com/2009/03/21/my-secret-garden-african-womens-sexual-fantasies.html#comment-527 Bijou, people like you make writing this blog totally worthwhile. Needless to say you are not the only African woman who needs to speak frankly about sex with other African women. Welcome to the family Bijou, people like you make writing this blog totally worthwhile. Needless to say you are not the only African woman who needs to speak frankly about sex with other African women. Welcome to the family

]]> By: bijou http://adventuresfrom.com/2009/03/21/my-secret-garden-african-womens-sexual-fantasies.html#comment-526 bijou Sat, 28 Mar 2009 22:58:00 +0000 http://adventuresfrom.com/2009/03/21/my-secret-garden-african-womens-sexual-fantasies.html#comment-526 Gosh Nana, I've been searching for this blog all my life! I was wondering whether I was the only African woman who needed to speak frankly about sex issue with other African women.<br/><br/>Thank you for the good work you are doing here (I'm jumping up and down). :-)<br/><br/>My fantasy is pretty simple. I'm in his office under the desk, between his legs... he's interviewing someone and trying to keep a straight face while I give him great head. Gosh Nana, I’ve been searching for this blog all my life! I was wondering whether I was the only African woman who needed to speak frankly about sex issue with other African women.

Thank you for the good work you are doing here (I’m jumping up and down). :-)

My fantasy is pretty simple. I’m in his office under the desk, between his legs… he’s interviewing someone and trying to keep a straight face while I give him great head.

]]> By: Nana http://adventuresfrom.com/2009/03/21/my-secret-garden-african-womens-sexual-fantasies.html#comment-517 Nana Tue, 24 Mar 2009 22:29:00 +0000 http://adventuresfrom.com/2009/03/21/my-secret-garden-african-womens-sexual-fantasies.html#comment-517 Hey Shane, thanks for sharing. It's interesting the responses we give when the question is posed by a male lover... Hey Shane, thanks for sharing. It’s interesting the responses we give when the question is posed by a male lover…

]]> By: Shane http://adventuresfrom.com/2009/03/21/my-secret-garden-african-womens-sexual-fantasies.html#comment-510 Shane Sat, 21 Mar 2009 17:21:00 +0000 http://adventuresfrom.com/2009/03/21/my-secret-garden-african-womens-sexual-fantasies.html#comment-510 One of my recent fantasies is the standard professor-student seduction but with a twist, I'm female and so is she (the professor in question). - Office hours ends with her hands/face between my legs or...<br/>- After a nice professor-student dinner (and a few glasses of wine and intelligent conversation) I end up at her place, on her couch... you know the rest :)<br/><br/>Somehow I don't think these would be well received responses if the question were posed by a male lover. One of my recent fantasies is the standard professor-student seduction but with a twist, I’m female and so is she (the professor in question). – Office hours ends with her hands/face between my legs or…
- After a nice professor-student dinner (and a few glasses of wine and intelligent conversation) I end up at her place, on her couch… you know the rest :)

Somehow I don’t think these would be well received responses if the question were posed by a male lover.

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