Comments on: Fantasising: Sick or not? http://adventuresfrom.com/2009/03/29/fantasising-sick-or-not.html We think there is a serious lack of relevant and useful information about the sexuality of African women. This blog is a space for African women to share tips, experiences and more... Tue, 07 Feb 2012 20:09:01 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: black http://adventuresfrom.com/2009/03/29/fantasising-sick-or-not.html#comment-2946 black Tue, 20 Sep 2011 19:36:12 +0000 http://adventuresfrom.com/2009/03/29/fantasising-sick-or-not.html#comment-2946 @bijou and piscean really enjoy reading ur posts. i dont know if men are allowed to comment but i do have a lot of interactions with african ladies, and i really encounter much hesitance when i try to get one to speak abt their fantasies. i dont so much think its repression u will be suprised how much an african girl will express herself when she is sure "its allowed" and that she wont be judged or seen as a "shashi wowo" or a spoilt woman. where i will agree with repression is when one hardly employs her imagination when it comes to sex.....one lady "said my fantasy is to have sex with someone i love". i mean thats as sick as it can get. lol. in other instances they do have some cool fantasies but all in all i think averagely most women fantasize abt same sex fucking. i love to talk dirty and plain...and i found it soo difficult getting this girl on my bbm to talk dirty till she all of a sudden lightened up when i told her i had fucked a guy before as well as have been fucked in my ass before. but in all i think given the 'right atmosphere" most ladies may freely talk.... i have a few fantasies myself: 1. to fuck in a public transport whiles travelling at night and all are asleep. so i always pick the seats next to the hottest girl in the bus. lol 2. to have a bj at silverbird during a movie 3. to be chained and fucked by three women. with strapon etc. 4. to have cyber sex with a celebrity, J App. @bijou and piscean really enjoy reading ur posts.

i dont know if men are allowed to comment but i do have a lot of interactions with african ladies, and i really encounter much hesitance when i try to get one to speak abt their fantasies. i dont so much think its repression u will be suprised how much an african girl will express herself when she is sure “its allowed” and that she wont be judged or seen as a “shashi wowo” or a spoilt woman. where i will agree with repression is when one hardly employs her imagination when it comes to sex…..one lady “said my fantasy is to have sex with someone i love”. i mean thats as sick as it can get. lol. in other instances they do have some cool fantasies but all in all i think averagely most women fantasize abt same sex fucking. i love to talk dirty and plain…and i found it soo difficult getting this girl on my bbm to talk dirty till she all of a sudden lightened up when i told her i had fucked a guy before as well as have been fucked in my ass before. but in all i think given the ‘right atmosphere” most ladies may freely talk….

i have a few fantasies myself:
1. to fuck in a public transport whiles travelling at night and all are asleep. so i always pick the seats next to the hottest girl in the bus. lol

2. to have a bj at silverbird during a movie

3. to be chained and fucked by three women. with strapon etc.

4. to have cyber sex with a celebrity, J App.

]]> By: RandyB http://adventuresfrom.com/2009/03/29/fantasising-sick-or-not.html#comment-2275 RandyB Mon, 25 Oct 2010 13:19:49 +0000 http://adventuresfrom.com/2009/03/29/fantasising-sick-or-not.html#comment-2275 I get confused. I thought fantasies were just that. Fantasies may not nessarily have anything to do with actual desire. It is simply a mental stimulation. To tread lightly, wanting to show no disrespect to anyone here, some women will actually fantasize about rape. Yet I doubt that this is something which a woman would sort after. The translation is not having control or being dominated. maybe being with a stranger. But the fantasy is not an intended goal. I'm not sure what the correct categorizing is, but the use of the word fantasy to describe an actual objective is wrong (in my opinion). If a fantasy was an actual objective, then once it was accomplished the fantasy would no longer exist. I have had some discussions with some women and they have told me that they have no fantasies. They have done everything they have ever fantasized about. Isn't this sad? One should have fantasies. metal stimulation. I'm not sure they should be shared because people tend to judge others based on their fantasies. I'm not sure I have expressed myself properly. I get confused. I thought fantasies were just that. Fantasies may not nessarily have anything to do with actual desire. It is simply a mental stimulation. To tread lightly, wanting to show no disrespect to anyone here, some women will actually fantasize about rape. Yet I doubt that this is something which a woman would sort after. The translation is not having control or being dominated. maybe being with a stranger. But the fantasy is not an intended goal.

I’m not sure what the correct categorizing is, but the use of the word fantasy to describe an actual objective is wrong (in my opinion). If a fantasy was an actual objective, then once it was accomplished the fantasy would no longer exist.

I have had some discussions with some women and they have told me that they have no fantasies. They have done everything they have ever fantasized about. Isn’t this sad? One should have fantasies. metal stimulation. I’m not sure they should be shared because people tend to judge others based on their fantasies.

I’m not sure I have expressed myself properly.

]]> By: Emmanuel.K.Bensah Jr http://adventuresfrom.com/2009/03/29/fantasising-sick-or-not.html#comment-2249 Emmanuel.K.Bensah Jr Tue, 19 Oct 2010 11:30:31 +0000 http://adventuresfrom.com/2009/03/29/fantasising-sick-or-not.html#comment-2249 @Abby C--Ofcourse Angelina Jolie, but after watching "Mr and Mrs.Smith" a while back, don't like my chances toying with Brad Pitt's ever-so-hot wife!;-)) Oh yeah: ASHLEY JUDD!! Drop-dead babe...I got over her in 2003 though. @Abby C–Ofcourse Angelina Jolie, but after watching “Mr and Mrs.Smith” a while back, don’t like my chances toying with Brad Pitt’s ever-so-hot wife!;-)) Oh yeah: ASHLEY JUDD!! Drop-dead babe…I got over her in 2003 though.

]]> By: Abby C http://adventuresfrom.com/2009/03/29/fantasising-sick-or-not.html#comment-2248 Abby C Tue, 19 Oct 2010 09:44:26 +0000 http://adventuresfrom.com/2009/03/29/fantasising-sick-or-not.html#comment-2248 We 've all had our fair share of fantasies....some are wild others are not. i believe some fantasies are best left as fantasies, cos once they become real, we might get disappointed. @EKB Jr...... you didn't add Angela Jolie or you still afraid of Brad Pitt. We ‘ve all had our fair share of fantasies….some are wild others are not. i believe some fantasies are best left as fantasies, cos once they become real, we might get disappointed.
@EKB Jr…… you didn’t add Angela Jolie or you still afraid of Brad Pitt.

]]> By: Shane http://adventuresfrom.com/2009/03/29/fantasising-sick-or-not.html#comment-2171 Shane Wed, 08 Sep 2010 01:54:15 +0000 http://adventuresfrom.com/2009/03/29/fantasising-sick-or-not.html#comment-2171 @ drkhnykrm - isn't the point of fantasies that there is no line? in your mind you are free to explore and do things you wouldn't even dare speak of @ drkhnykrm – isn’t the point of fantasies that there is no line? in your mind you are free to explore and do things you wouldn’t even dare speak of

]]> By: drkhnykrm http://adventuresfrom.com/2009/03/29/fantasising-sick-or-not.html#comment-2170 drkhnykrm Tue, 07 Sep 2010 23:01:57 +0000 http://adventuresfrom.com/2009/03/29/fantasising-sick-or-not.html#comment-2170 I love fantasies and always want to act them out. However, I do agree with most that animals, children, most extreme BDSM crosses the line I love fantasies and always want to act them out. However, I do agree with most that animals, children, most extreme BDSM crosses the line

]]> By: africaschoiceradio http://adventuresfrom.com/2009/03/29/fantasising-sick-or-not.html#comment-2127 africaschoiceradio Fri, 20 Aug 2010 23:43:24 +0000 http://adventuresfrom.com/2009/03/29/fantasising-sick-or-not.html#comment-2127 I am loving this! I must say miss Bijou is the girl of my dream ,, I am very open sexually and my mind is my own limit.I enjoy a woman who is not worried about going the distance as in they are almost open to anything! And to an extent women some women are repressed to a point that they feel like they are being watched,,,i have dated some women who fear doing certain things cause they feel like they are being seen by unseen being,,, my girl friend does fantasize about the strangest things and that turns me one we do share our fantasies so we both freaks i guess but our sex lifre in my opinion is the best cause it open! i would love to have u Nana as a guest on my show ,,,, u wud be a great source of controversy!! Mui perfecto!! lol I am loving this! I must say miss Bijou is the girl of my dream ,, I am very open sexually and my mind is my own limit.I enjoy a woman who is not worried about going the distance as in they are almost open to anything! And to an extent women some women are repressed to a point that they feel like they are being watched,,,i have dated some women who fear doing certain things cause they feel like they are being seen by unseen being,,, my girl friend does fantasize about the strangest things and that turns me one we do share our fantasies so we both freaks i guess but our sex lifre in my opinion is the best cause it open! i would love to have u Nana as a guest on my show ,,,, u wud be a great source of controversy!! Mui perfecto!! lol

]]> By: Nana Darkoa http://adventuresfrom.com/2009/03/29/fantasising-sick-or-not.html#comment-2049 Nana Darkoa Thu, 22 Jul 2010 18:19:20 +0000 http://adventuresfrom.com/2009/03/29/fantasising-sick-or-not.html#comment-2049 Oh did I say most African women are repressed? I think some are definitely repressed - but some are the freakiest people I know. I think its interesting which fantasies we choose to share with our partners and yes I think most people feel more comfortable sharing the 'safe' fantasties. I also got that impression from Nancy Friday's 'My Secret Garden'...let me know how your threesome fantasy turned reality (if it ever becomes reality) works out. I accept and totally appreciate guest contributions. Oh did I say most African women are repressed? I think some are definitely repressed – but some are the freakiest people I know. I think its interesting which fantasies we choose to share with our partners and yes I think most people feel more comfortable sharing the ‘safe’ fantasties. I also got that impression from Nancy Friday’s ‘My Secret Garden’…let me know how your threesome fantasy turned reality (if it ever becomes reality) works out. I accept and totally appreciate guest contributions.

]]> By: Adjoa http://adventuresfrom.com/2009/03/29/fantasising-sick-or-not.html#comment-2046 Adjoa Thu, 22 Jul 2010 14:49:30 +0000 http://adventuresfrom.com/2009/03/29/fantasising-sick-or-not.html#comment-2046 hi Nana, I love this blog... i don't know if i agree that most African women are repressed. I think we are all just good pretenders. I love to fantasize, done it since i was very young and i have fantasized about everything from animals to girl on girl action to shemales...I don't normally talk about the really crazy fantasies to my partner...just the normal ones like threesomes etc. Are there sick fantasies? I dont think so; anything goes in fantasy land. Should fantasies come true? ...a few of mine have, outdoor sex, girl-on-girl, i'm currently working to get the threesome done, then i can marry...lol hi Nana, I love this blog…
i don’t know if i agree that most African women are repressed. I think we are all just good pretenders.
I love to fantasize, done it since i was very young and i have fantasized about everything from animals to girl on girl action to shemales…I don’t normally talk about the really crazy fantasies to my partner…just the normal ones like threesomes etc.
Are there sick fantasies? I dont think so; anything goes in fantasy land.
Should fantasies come true? …a few of mine have, outdoor sex, girl-on-girl, i’m currently working to get the threesome done, then i can marry…lol

]]> By: Piscean http://adventuresfrom.com/2009/03/29/fantasising-sick-or-not.html#comment-1777 Piscean Sun, 25 Apr 2010 03:28:07 +0000 http://adventuresfrom.com/2009/03/29/fantasising-sick-or-not.html#comment-1777 Lol @ Shane.. I appreciate your open-mindedness! i just wanted to tell it like I really see it ;) Lol @ Shane.. I appreciate your open-mindedness! i just wanted to tell it like I really see it ;)

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