Comments on: Sex and your parents http://adventuresfrom.com/2009/03/30/sex-and-your-parents.html We think there is a serious lack of relevant and useful information about the sexuality of African women. This blog is a space for African women to share tips, experiences and more... Fri, 10 Sep 2010 01:52:38 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0.1 By: Nana http://adventuresfrom.com/2009/03/30/sex-and-your-parents.html#comment-561 Nana Sun, 05 Apr 2009 22:30:00 +0000 http://adventuresfrom.com/2009/03/30/sex-and-your-parents.html#comment-561 Novisi - that is so interesting that you actually wrote to your mum to ask how to deal with wet dreams. Wow!It sounds like you just want to embarass your Mum. Am I correct? Novisi – that is so interesting that you actually wrote to your mum to ask how to deal with wet dreams. Wow!It sounds like you just want to embarass your Mum. Am I correct?

]]> By: novisi http://adventuresfrom.com/2009/03/30/sex-and-your-parents.html#comment-559 novisi Sun, 05 Apr 2009 10:53:00 +0000 http://adventuresfrom.com/2009/03/30/sex-and-your-parents.html#comment-559 i've always wanted to know! i'm too curious about anything not to want to know!<br/><br/>especially, i'd ask them how many times they 'screwed' it and the how (the positions - who looked into the other's eyes the most?) before i was conceived of the most 'holy' act!!!<br/><br/>i've once asked my mum (both actually) about sex but it was through snail mail when i was in secondary school. my mum warned off sex! but i wrote to ask her that as a young kid i was experiencing 'wet-dreams' and wanted to know how to deal with it!!!<br/><br/>she wrote back with a long talk that just avoided the topic. <br/><br/>but i've heard my mum talk 'dirty' with her sis before so i would definitely just mark my time to get back at her soonest as i can!<br/><br/>i'd love the moment! heeehe! i’ve always wanted to know! i’m too curious about anything not to want to know!

especially, i’d ask them how many times they ‘screwed’ it and the how (the positions – who looked into the other’s eyes the most?) before i was conceived of the most ‘holy’ act!!!

i’ve once asked my mum (both actually) about sex but it was through snail mail when i was in secondary school. my mum warned off sex! but i wrote to ask her that as a young kid i was experiencing ‘wet-dreams’ and wanted to know how to deal with it!!!

she wrote back with a long talk that just avoided the topic.

but i’ve heard my mum talk ‘dirty’ with her sis before so i would definitely just mark my time to get back at her soonest as i can!

i’d love the moment! heeehe!

]]> By: Nana http://adventuresfrom.com/2009/03/30/sex-and-your-parents.html#comment-548 Nana Wed, 01 Apr 2009 20:04:00 +0000 http://adventuresfrom.com/2009/03/30/sex-and-your-parents.html#comment-548 Hey Bijou, it sounds more than the "just don't do it" talk which is great. Condoms getting lost? Oh dear, I can't imagine ever having that conversation with my parents :)<br/><br/>Awansona - I like your reverse sex education for the parent! Lol, what was your mum's reaction to your advice?<br/><br/>Nana Yaw - Don't worry - the Ghanaian stork dropped you off. True, it can happen, ask Annie<br/><br/>Annie - lol. I am laughing too hard. Maybe it was a Guinea Fowl instead of a stork. Thanks for sharing<br/><br/>Pen Powder - Hmm, you may be assuming their sex life was boring...maybe it was explosive! I know what you mean though...thinking about sex and your parents is like eugh but why?<br/><br/>Nana Darkoa Hey Bijou, it sounds more than the “just don’t do it” talk which is great. Condoms getting lost? Oh dear, I can’t imagine ever having that conversation with my parents :)

Awansona – I like your reverse sex education for the parent! Lol, what was your mum’s reaction to your advice?

Nana Yaw – Don’t worry – the Ghanaian stork dropped you off. True, it can happen, ask Annie

Annie – lol. I am laughing too hard. Maybe it was a Guinea Fowl instead of a stork. Thanks for sharing

Pen Powder – Hmm, you may be assuming their sex life was boring…maybe it was explosive! I know what you mean though…thinking about sex and your parents is like eugh but why?

Nana Darkoa

]]> By: Pen Powder http://adventuresfrom.com/2009/03/30/sex-and-your-parents.html#comment-547 Pen Powder Wed, 01 Apr 2009 19:10:00 +0000 http://adventuresfrom.com/2009/03/30/sex-and-your-parents.html#comment-547 I would be curious to know the sex life of my parents [which I think was boring (My dad is late)], but as soon as I begin to explore that line of thought, I get struck by some disgusting feeling so much that I must end my comment here! I would be curious to know the sex life of my parents [which I think was boring (My dad is late)], but as soon as I begin to explore that line of thought, I get struck by some disgusting feeling so much that I must end my comment here!

]]> By: Annie http://adventuresfrom.com/2009/03/30/sex-and-your-parents.html#comment-545 Annie Tue, 31 Mar 2009 20:13:00 +0000 http://adventuresfrom.com/2009/03/30/sex-and-your-parents.html#comment-545 Talk about sex with my parents? Wait, my parents have sex? They told me the stork dropped me off at the door (it never occurred to me that we don't have storks in Ghana...or do we?). As you can tell, any sex-related conversations with my parents have left me a highly confused young woman. Talk about sex with my parents? Wait, my parents have sex? They told me the stork dropped me off at the door (it never occurred to me that we don’t have storks in Ghana…or do we?). As you can tell, any sex-related conversations with my parents have left me a highly confused young woman.

]]> By: Nana Yaw Asiedu http://adventuresfrom.com/2009/03/30/sex-and-your-parents.html#comment-541 Nana Yaw Asiedu Tue, 31 Mar 2009 15:44:00 +0000 http://adventuresfrom.com/2009/03/30/sex-and-your-parents.html#comment-541 Could/would never (want to) speak to my parents about sex. Don't wanna know anything about that part of their lives too. It's painful enough to know that I'm a product of such an "unthinkable" act between my parents. :-) Could/would never (want to) speak to my parents about sex. Don’t wanna know anything about that part of their lives too. It’s painful enough to know that I’m a product of such an “unthinkable” act between my parents. :-)

]]> By: Awansona http://adventuresfrom.com/2009/03/30/sex-and-your-parents.html#comment-540 Awansona Tue, 31 Mar 2009 14:34:00 +0000 http://adventuresfrom.com/2009/03/30/sex-and-your-parents.html#comment-540 The closest I got to talking about sex with my mom was when I told her to be careful not to get pregnant with her boyfriend.<br/>The closest with my dad was before he sent me off to boarding school when he told me to be careful with girls since I could get someone pregnant.<br/>Quite sad... The closest I got to talking about sex with my mom was when I told her to be careful not to get pregnant with her boyfriend.
The closest with my dad was before he sent me off to boarding school when he told me to be careful with girls since I could get someone pregnant.
Quite sad…

]]> By: bijou http://adventuresfrom.com/2009/03/30/sex-and-your-parents.html#comment-534 bijou Mon, 30 Mar 2009 20:31:00 +0000 http://adventuresfrom.com/2009/03/30/sex-and-your-parents.html#comment-534 Hi Nana.<br/><br/>I'm able to speak with my parents about sex - my mom bought me condoms when I had my first serious boyfriend! We don't talk about the act itself, but when I've had pregnancy scares (condom getting lost inside etc.) I've been able to speak with her and my dad as well. They know I'm sexually active, but I can't (or don't have the guts to) ask them about their sex life and don't think I would want to.<br/><br/>African parents are African parents :-) <br/><br/>But I know they get busy... Hi Nana.

I’m able to speak with my parents about sex – my mom bought me condoms when I had my first serious boyfriend! We don’t talk about the act itself, but when I’ve had pregnancy scares (condom getting lost inside etc.) I’ve been able to speak with her and my dad as well. They know I’m sexually active, but I can’t (or don’t have the guts to) ask them about their sex life and don’t think I would want to.

African parents are African parents :-)

But I know they get busy…

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