Comments on: On Dating, Sex and Relationships: Younger Men versus Married Men

By: Emz

Emz — Fri, 19 Jun 2009 16:04:38 +0000

I say knee the married perverts in the balls and send them on their way. I hate this particular brand of male greed. YOU ARE MARRIED. Deal with it.

By: Nana

Nana — Sun, 07 Jun 2009 22:00:49 +0000

@Laura – Welcome!!!I am glad you can empathise

@Anon 1- Lol, now the phrase "Ghanaian men of a certain age is stuck in my head". So true.

@Oluniyi – Hmmm, I hear you about keeping an open mind. I don't know if I want to deal with the "natural tendencies" of younger men though…

@Jennifer – Yep, I'm with you on picking the younger guy over the married guy

@Esi – Sis, I have completely given up on trying to understand men and their "issues", and they claim we are hard to understand…

@Kajsa – Hahaha, good tip. I shall definitely try that one of these days and perhaps even blog about it. Lol

@chayoma – Mmm, I like the idea of living for those moments that take your breath away…so poetic

@Lady X – Out of curiousity, what would you call it? I'm with you on not having a relationship with a married man though

@Africanweightlossdiva – Thank you! Sha is right

@Novisi – No rules at all? Not a single one?

BSNC – Married women get bored too, right? However, I think women are less likely to stray. Your thoughts?

By: BSNC

BSNC — Sun, 07 Jun 2009 11:38:52 +0000

Married men easily get bored with marriage life these dayz, i guess that is why they look for variety else where to spice up their life( which is wrong by the way).

By: novisi

novisi — Sat, 06 Jun 2009 18:32:30 +0000

don't bother about whatever!

just go for it. married man, young unmarried and inexperienced (give dem some experience), older man, broke man etc.

just choose!

there ain't no rules.

By: african weight loss diva

african weight loss diva — Fri, 05 Jun 2009 14:14:35 +0000

lol. i love ur blog, but i wont do married men sha. maybe younger but not maried

By: Lady X

Lady X — Fri, 05 Jun 2009 13:06:09 +0000

The younger man would win hands down over the married man!I don't even think going out with a married man should be called 'dating'

By: chayoma

chayoma — Fri, 05 Jun 2009 12:34:29 +0000

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younger men, older men, and all in between. too young to stress about that. still trying to live for those moments that take my beaurriful breath away!

Now to the issue at hand, run away from married men oh! plus, you should give a few youngies a chance. u might just be surprised!

By: Kajsa Hallberg Adu

Kajsa Hallberg Adu — Fri, 05 Jun 2009 12:30:44 +0000

Networking is the way to meet new people, in my opinion.

It is probably smart to not get into a discussion when a married man says "call me". But why could you not at some point also say "you know I'm actually looking for an available man, maybe you have an unmarried friend...?"

The unmarried men are out there too.

By: Esi W. Cleland

Esi W. Cleland — Fri, 05 Jun 2009 12:06:37 +0000

Never dated a married man. Never will. I just don't do married men. I tell them that. If they persist, I withdraw.

But i date younger men. I'd date a man 2 years my junior but no younger. I'm 26. lol. Me and older men usually have power struggles:) I say date the younger man.

Why do some men have issues with women who make more money than they do? The way i see it, its all groovy if i make more money than u. It means i can spread you all the time and if we do get married, we'll have more income to work with. What's not to like?

By: Jennifer

Jennifer — Fri, 05 Jun 2009 10:02:17 +0000

Well… Gotta Say ..
We So gotta have these Dialogues …lol
However Re:
Tha Older Married Guy Vs Younger Guy … Mos Def Younger Guy ….lol..I guess it wud Matter How Solid as a Couple People Are ….When having ta deal wit the Family and all the U Kno Who's …Who will Feel They Gotta Add Their…Two Cents ….!Into yr Bizzness!Oops n wait for it ….U Gotta Listen Ta Them….lol