Comments on: My husband’s third leg http://adventuresfrom.com/2009/07/08/my-husband%e2%80%99s-third-leg.html We think there is a serious lack of relevant and useful information about the sexuality of African women. This blog is a space for African women to share tips, experiences and more... Tue, 07 Feb 2012 20:09:01 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Sugabelly http://adventuresfrom.com/2009/07/08/my-husband%e2%80%99s-third-leg.html#comment-963 Sugabelly Fri, 31 Jul 2009 00:20:07 +0000 http://adventuresfrom.com/2009/07/08/my-husband%e2%80%99s-third-leg.html#comment-963 Poor child. The trauma. Luckily she won't remember it by the time she's twenty... hopefully. I'm caught in the middle when it comes to my ideas about parenting. I definitely want to have a close and open relationship with my children, but at the same time, I don't want to stop being a person just because I have kids. It's like all those Nigerian women that have one child and suddenly they turn into this dowdy depressing sparkless disgusting mess because they are "mothers" now. Just the word 'mother' is full of dusty blankets and layers of fat and boredom'. So, what shall I do when I have children and need to have sex? I'll just do what I've always done anyway. Have sex on the boardroom table at his office. That way we can use the bed at home for more family friendly activities like cuddling and colouring and watching sappy movies. Poor child. The trauma. Luckily she won’t remember it by the time she’s twenty… hopefully.

I’m caught in the middle when it comes to my ideas about parenting. I definitely want to have a close and open relationship with my children, but at the same time, I don’t want to stop being a person just because I have kids.

It’s like all those Nigerian women that have one child and suddenly they turn into this dowdy depressing sparkless disgusting mess because they are “mothers” now. Just the word ‘mother’ is full of dusty blankets and layers of fat and boredom’.

So, what shall I do when I have children and need to have sex? I’ll just do what I’ve always done anyway. Have sex on the boardroom table at his office. That way we can use the bed at home for more family friendly activities like cuddling and colouring and watching sappy movies.

]]> By: Abena Gyekye http://adventuresfrom.com/2009/07/08/my-husband%e2%80%99s-third-leg.html#comment-866 Abena Gyekye Thu, 09 Jul 2009 23:13:53 +0000 http://adventuresfrom.com/2009/07/08/my-husband%e2%80%99s-third-leg.html#comment-866 LOL! Mr Jones, your wisdom is simple, yet profound. We've already started locking doors when we plan on 'knocking boots'. LOL! Mr Jones, your wisdom is simple, yet profound. We’ve already started locking doors when we plan on ‘knocking boots’.

]]> By: Mr Jones http://adventuresfrom.com/2009/07/08/my-husband%e2%80%99s-third-leg.html#comment-862 Mr Jones Thu, 09 Jul 2009 18:18:20 +0000 http://adventuresfrom.com/2009/07/08/my-husband%e2%80%99s-third-leg.html#comment-862 :D Sorry for the rude interruption. Doors have locks for a reason. :D Sorry for the rude interruption. Doors have locks for a reason.

]]> By: novisi http://adventuresfrom.com/2009/07/08/my-husband%e2%80%99s-third-leg.html#comment-856 novisi Wed, 08 Jul 2009 17:39:06 +0000 http://adventuresfrom.com/2009/07/08/my-husband%e2%80%99s-third-leg.html#comment-856 o no! what a miss! that was a perfect 'teachable moment' for sex-education! it's said something like: teach the children so when they grow they would not depart from it! i beseech you! o no!
what a miss!

that was a perfect ‘teachable moment’ for sex-education!

it’s said something like: teach the children so when they grow they would not depart from it!

i beseech you!

]]> By: Nana http://adventuresfrom.com/2009/07/08/my-husband%e2%80%99s-third-leg.html#comment-855 Nana Wed, 08 Jul 2009 16:37:00 +0000 http://adventuresfrom.com/2009/07/08/my-husband%e2%80%99s-third-leg.html#comment-855 Lol at the idea of parents watching "blue films". Your daughter has also given me "major jokes", so how did you explain things to her? Lol at the idea of parents watching “blue films”. Your daughter has also given me “major jokes”, so how did you explain things to her?

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