Comments on: My Dream Relationship http://adventuresfrom.com/2009/07/26/my-dream-relationship.html We think there is a serious lack of relevant and useful information about the sexuality of African women. This blog is a space for African women to share tips, experiences and more... Tue, 07 Feb 2012 20:09:01 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Nana http://adventuresfrom.com/2009/07/26/my-dream-relationship.html#comment-983 Nana Mon, 03 Aug 2009 18:12:17 +0000 http://adventuresfrom.com/?p=237#comment-983 @ Sankofa - Ouch! That must have hurt. Sorry oooo...Kose, Pele, Ei facebook can be great and not so great at the same time. How did you deal with this? @ Sankofa – Ouch! That must have hurt. Sorry oooo…Kose, Pele, Ei facebook can be great and not so great at the same time. How did you deal with this?

]]> By: Sankofa http://adventuresfrom.com/2009/07/26/my-dream-relationship.html#comment-953 Sankofa Wed, 29 Jul 2009 16:38:18 +0000 http://adventuresfrom.com/?p=237#comment-953 My dream man is somebody who doesn't get another woman pregnant and then doesn't tell me about it until I find out from all the "congratulations" messages on facebook. Do I sound bitter? My dream man is somebody who doesn’t get another woman pregnant and then doesn’t tell me about it until I find out from all the “congratulations” messages on facebook. Do I sound bitter?

]]> By: Nana http://adventuresfrom.com/2009/07/26/my-dream-relationship.html#comment-949 Nana Tue, 28 Jul 2009 10:32:30 +0000 http://adventuresfrom.com/?p=237#comment-949 @Q - Lol, you are sooo right...I titled the post dream relationship and then only spoke about "Dream Man". I was trying not to be hetero-normative (shout out to Ms Cleland) and assume that a dream relationship could only involve a man. By the way, I love your comment...it sounds heartfelt! @Iwalewa - It's boring to settle! and one day you might just be tempted to walk away from the person you have settled with...okay that's a bit rubbish 'cos you might want to walk out of what started as a dream relationship too... @Kwegyirba - Yup! you're right about the source of inspiration :) Mmm, Tyson Beckford and his body...anytime, anywhere... @BrownAngel - I hate people who think I am too known! I am not too known, I actually know! Lol, I am so with you on co-parenting and co-housekeeping. I didn't have the children on my own did I? and we both live in the house, right? @Q – Lol, you are sooo right…I titled the post dream relationship and then only spoke about “Dream Man”. I was trying not to be hetero-normative (shout out to Ms Cleland) and assume that a dream relationship could only involve a man. By the way, I love your comment…it sounds heartfelt!

@Iwalewa – It’s boring to settle! and one day you might just be tempted to walk away from the person you have settled with…okay that’s a bit rubbish ‘cos you might want to walk out of what started as a dream relationship too…

@Kwegyirba – Yup! you’re right about the source of inspiration :) Mmm, Tyson Beckford and his body…anytime, anywhere…

@BrownAngel – I hate people who think I am too known! I am not too known, I actually know! Lol, I am so with you on co-parenting and co-housekeeping. I didn’t have the children on my own did I? and we both live in the house, right?

]]> By: BrownAangel http://adventuresfrom.com/2009/07/26/my-dream-relationship.html#comment-946 BrownAangel Mon, 27 Jul 2009 10:18:52 +0000 http://adventuresfrom.com/?p=237#comment-946 Dream Man: Nana U know i'm with u on the respectful of women and , supportive of my aspirations and most importantly driven to achieve HIS dreams tip. Throw in a few more: He should laugh @ me when I take myself too seriously, tease me when I think when i'm being too known. Be funny, considerate, quirky and smart and not think my tastes in music, literature or entertainment are weird or white ( you know how small minded our people can be). He needs to be Good in Bed. Giving in Bed and Game for anything...in bed. Oh and he needs to talk as well as listen. And the piece de resistance, he should be fante, dark, Tall and skinny as well. Yea still looking :-) My dream relationship/ marriage though: supportive, communicative partnership where we co-parent and co-housekeep according to gender-free norms that we negotiate. Dream Man:
Nana U know i’m with u on the respectful of women and , supportive of my aspirations and most importantly driven to achieve HIS dreams tip.

Throw in a few more: He should laugh @ me when I take myself too seriously, tease me when I think when i’m being too known. Be funny, considerate, quirky and smart and not think my tastes in music, literature or entertainment are weird or white ( you know how small minded our people can be).

He needs to be Good in Bed. Giving in Bed and Game for anything…in bed.

Oh and he needs to talk as well as listen. And the piece de resistance, he should be fante, dark, Tall and skinny as well. Yea still looking :-)

My dream relationship/ marriage though: supportive, communicative partnership where we co-parent and co-housekeep according to gender-free norms that we negotiate.

]]> By: Kwegyirba http://adventuresfrom.com/2009/07/26/my-dream-relationship.html#comment-945 Kwegyirba Sun, 26 Jul 2009 23:52:03 +0000 http://adventuresfrom.com/?p=237#comment-945 I think I know the inspiration for this post! Wink, wink. My dream man, is all you have mentioned plus a Tyson Beckford body and Terrence Howard eyes! Hehehe. I've come to sadly realise he does not exist. So I have settled for the next best thing. But damn, is he close!;-) I think I know the inspiration for this post! Wink, wink. My dream man, is all you have mentioned plus a Tyson Beckford body and Terrence Howard eyes! Hehehe. I’ve come to sadly realise he does not exist. So I have settled for the next best thing. But damn, is he close!;-)

]]> By: Iwalewa http://adventuresfrom.com/2009/07/26/my-dream-relationship.html#comment-944 Iwalewa Sun, 26 Jul 2009 13:47:50 +0000 http://adventuresfrom.com/?p=237#comment-944 this is the description of my dream man but sadly, I think I might have to settle. There are few that fit this description in any race or nationality. this is the description of my dream man but sadly, I think I might have to settle. There are few that fit this description in any race or nationality.

]]> By: Q. http://adventuresfrom.com/2009/07/26/my-dream-relationship.html#comment-942 Q. Sun, 26 Jul 2009 12:17:44 +0000 http://adventuresfrom.com/?p=237#comment-942 I think the title should have been "My Dream Man" Nana cos your dream man may not necessarily give you your dream relationship. Not trying to be smart or nothing but i think my dream relationship allows me to be me in all my quaint,geeky,funny and sometimes overbearing self. Should make rush into her arms after a tired day and feel wanted. Communication? easy. Sex? she tells me verbally and non-verbally what she wants while i let it rip!!!!!! We compliment each other privately and publicly at all times. We argue and shout and scream and kiss and tussle right in the middle of it! She smiles, i know she wants a foot massage right there on the beach and she knows instinctively i'd want a handjob a little after. its not exchange, its a dream. right? I think the title should have been “My Dream Man” Nana cos your dream man may not necessarily give you your dream relationship. Not trying to be smart or nothing but i think my dream relationship allows me to be me in all my quaint,geeky,funny and sometimes overbearing self.

Should make rush into her arms after a tired day and feel wanted. Communication? easy. Sex? she tells me verbally and non-verbally what she wants while i let it rip!!!!!! We compliment each other privately and publicly at all times. We argue and shout and scream and kiss and tussle right in the middle of it! She smiles, i know she wants a foot massage right there on the beach and she knows instinctively i’d want a handjob a little after. its not exchange, its a dream. right?

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