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The Sex Interviews Questionnaire

In a previous post I blogged about my desire to start the “Sex Interviews“. The way I see it, the sex interviews will ask everyday people (including the readers of this blog) a variety of sex related questions. BrownAngel and Kofi think the Kinsey Report is a good format to follow…my thoughts? Wow, that will only happen if I decide to do a PhD in Sexology or some related field. My current thought is to administer a questionnaire via Survey Monkey and also face to face. Kwegyirba has already agreed to conduct interviews with sex workers which I am thrilled about. Below are a list of my suggested questions for the Sex Interviews.

What gender are you?
How old are you?
Which country do you originate from?
What do you do for a living?
At what age did you have your first sexual experience?
At what age did you first have sex?
How often do you have sex?
How often would you like to have sex?
Do you enjoy having sex?
Do you orgasm when you have sex?
Do you experience multiple orgasms?
Do your prefer foreplay to intercourse?
Have you ever had sex or participated in any sexual activities without your full consent?
Do you have any fantasies?
What are your fantasies?
Are you homosexual, heterosexual, bisexual…?
Have you ever sought the services of a sex worker?
Do you use sex toys?
Do you enjoy pornography?

If you had a 20th question what would you ask? Why stop at 20, what else would you want to ask? Your thoughts?

P.S: My thanks goes to Kofi who wanted to know why we are “slacking”. In his words “…have African women finally attained a state of sexual nirvana“. The answer? No but we are getting there.

Posted on August 12, 2009. by Nana Darkoa.
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Aug 18, 2009
11:15 pm

Barima Kwaku Osei Kwakye has this to say,

1. Male
2.18-28
3.Ghana
4.Research Assistant
5.16yrs
6.16yrs
7.not so frequently
8. 7 is okay
9.YES

12. not really

14. Lots

16. Hetrosexual

19 Yes

Aug 19, 2009
10:27 am

Nana has this to say,

@Barima – Thank you for being the first one to answer the questionnaire. I am really interested in why you chose not to answer some of the questions. Are you happy to share your thoughts? My intention is to re-do the questionnaire in survey monkey so the answers are easily aggregated

Jan 14, 2010
10:41 pm

Ranv has this to say,

Can u email the questionnaires to me so i can answer?

Jan 15, 2010
5:22 pm

Nana Darkoa has this to say,

@ Ranv – You can answer the questions in a similar way to Barima. Just post your responses in the comment box. I hope that’s helpful

Jan 21, 2010
5:11 pm

sugar has this to say,

1. Male
2.18-28
3.Ghana
4.Engineer
5.18yrs
6.18yrs
7.at least trice a month
8. 7 is okay
9.YES
10.yes
11.yes
12. no
14. Lots
16. Hetrosexual
19 Yes

Feb 19, 2010
1:57 pm

Yves Pouplard has this to say,

1. male
2. 53 yo
3. France
4. computers
5. at 20, perhaps a little more
6. same answer
7. not enough often — twice a year? or less
8. twice a day, with the right woman
9. sometimes (poor lover, probably)
10. sometimes
11. no — never
12. YES
13. no, as far as I remember
14. LOTS!!!
15. dominant women and around
16. heterosexual a little curious about TG/TS but not that much
17. sometimes, when younger
18. I might, if the partner agrees; usually not
19. sometimes (grin)

Feb 23, 2010
2:47 pm

Afua has this to say,

1. I am a woman
2. I am 25 years old
3. I’m originally from the U.S.
4. I work in health care
5. I was 16 when I had my 1st sexual experience
6. I was 17 when I first had sex
7. I have sex at a minimum of twice a week
8. I would you like to have sex once every other day (3-4 times a week)
9. Yes, I LOVE sex.
10. Yes, I orgasm when oral sex is performed on me
11. Yes, it is possible for me to experience multiple orgasms from oral sex
12. Hmmm I need both. No I do not prefer foreplay to intercourse
13. No, I have never engaged sex or participated in any sexual activities without your full consent
14. Yes I do have fantasies
15. My fantasies include male domination w/ him worshiping me
16. I am heterosexual
17. I have never sought the services of a sex worker
18. No, I do you use sex toys. Boy(s) are my toys!
19. Yes, I enjoy pornography. Sometimes in my own experienced I feel like a star.

Feb 24, 2010
6:32 pm

Kofi Ametewee has this to say,

What gender are you? Male
How old are you? 49
Which country do you originate from? Ghana
What do you do for a living? Write
At what age did you have your first sexual experience? 6-7, maybe earlier, hid under a cloth on a veranda showed and touched, might have attempted some genital contact.
At what age did you first have sex? Full-blown intercourse? 15-16.
How often do you have sex? As often as I want…about four times a week
How often would you like to have sex? I’d like to have some form of sexual experience each day. Full-blown intercourse to sexy touching or just erotic banter
Do you enjoy having sex? Yes, but only when I can concentrate on it.
Do you orgasm when you have sex? As a matter of fact, yes, but on occasion I lose my train of thought.
Do you experience multiple orgasms? No, apparently only a few men do. But I can remain hard after I have an orgasm and that is also very pleasurable.
Do your prefer foreplay to intercourse? Depends on who with
Have you ever had sex or participated in any sexual activities without your full consent? Not sure…
Do you have any fantasies? Not really, I’m curious about having anal sex because I once had a lover who thought it was absolutely great. But I have not really been gung-ho to try it.
What are your fantasies? I don’t have any, but I do have a fetish.
Are you homosexual, heterosexual, bisexual…? Hetero
Have you ever sought the services of a sex worker? Yes, but then a goodly number of relationships with women in Ghana are based on exchange of sex for some material consideration.
Do you use sex toys? No, I’d be distracted by the buzzing or the theatricality of it all.
Do you enjoy pornography? Occasionally, but find most of it boring.

Mar 6, 2010
10:44 pm

LIA has this to say,

Female
33
Does where you are born count?
Trainer
17
19
Everyday
Yes
Yes
Yes
Yes both intercourse is always needed
# Do you have any fantasies? Yes
# What are your fantasies?
# Are you homosexual, heterosexual, bisexual…? Straight
# Have you ever sought the services of a sex worker? hehehehe No
# Do you use sex toys? Yes but get bored easily
# Do you enjoy pornography? sometimes but find it irritating i keep focusing on the acting skills or lack of should i say

Mar 13, 2010
1:24 pm

Ladyish has this to say,

What gender are you? Female
How old are you? 25
Which country do you originate from? Ghana
What do you do for a living? In healthcare
At what age did you have your first sexual experience? 5 or 6
At what age did you first have sex? 21
How often do you have sex? Umm… of late more often, like 3 times a month.
How often would you like to have sex? With the right person – every day or every other at least!
Do you enjoy having sex? Yes, but only when I can concentrate on it.
Do you orgasm when you have sex? Not always
Do you experience multiple orgasms? Occasionally
Do your prefer foreplay to intercourse? I love a lot of foreplay before sex but never in place of sex.
Have you ever had sex or participated in any sexual activities without your full consent? Yes
Do you have any fantasies? Hardly ever
What are your fantasies? My partner making love to me
Are you homosexual, heterosexual, bisexual…? Hetero
Have you ever sought the services of a sex worker? No
Do you use sex toys? Not in sex but occasionally when masturbating
Do you enjoy pornography? yes, but i only watch it alone.

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