Comments on: Guest Contributor Ms S On: Being Seduced By a Younger Woman http://adventuresfrom.com/2010/03/05/guest-contributor-ms-s-on-being-seduced-by-a-younger-woman.html We think there is a serious lack of relevant and useful information about the sexuality of African women. This blog is a space for African women to share tips, experiences and more... Sat, 19 May 2012 23:44:21 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.2 By: Nana Darkoa http://adventuresfrom.com/2010/03/05/guest-contributor-ms-s-on-being-seduced-by-a-younger-woman.html#comment-1687 Nana Darkoa Mon, 15 Mar 2010 17:55:19 +0000 http://adventuresfrom.com/?p=448#comment-1687 @ All - Hmm, I was going through the admin section of this site recently when I noticed that I had named this guest contributor Ms S but there is a previous post by another Ms S who is not the same contributor as this particular Ms S. Oh goodness, the drama of trying to keep anonymity. I thought it was a great idea to give women guest contributors Ms and a random letter of the alphabet but clearly this is not such a good name. I was thinking of changing the name Ms S to Ms Robinson but that will mess up Lolita's piece...oh well, the name stays but please note that this is the first post by this particular Ms S.... @ All – Hmm, I was going through the admin section of this site recently when I noticed that I had named this guest contributor Ms S but there is a previous post by another Ms S who is not the same contributor as this particular Ms S. Oh goodness, the drama of trying to keep anonymity. I thought it was a great idea to give women guest contributors Ms and a random letter of the alphabet but clearly this is not such a good name. I was thinking of changing the name Ms S to Ms Robinson but that will mess up Lolita’s piece…oh well, the name stays but please note that this is the first post by this particular Ms S….

]]> By: Emmanuel.K.Bensah Jr http://adventuresfrom.com/2010/03/05/guest-contributor-ms-s-on-being-seduced-by-a-younger-woman.html#comment-1682 Emmanuel.K.Bensah Jr Fri, 12 Mar 2010 17:08:35 +0000 http://adventuresfrom.com/?p=448#comment-1682 @Ekow please cool it. Find urself a woman, chale! your persistence makes me wonder whether you're not a bit under 18!!;-) If you're not, then you're appearing very desperate. There are more women in Ghana than men; am sure you can find one!!:-)) @Ekow please cool it. Find urself a woman, chale! your persistence makes me wonder whether you’re not a bit under 18!!;-) If you’re not, then you’re appearing very desperate. There are more women in Ghana than men; am sure you can find one!!:-))

]]> By: ekow http://adventuresfrom.com/2010/03/05/guest-contributor-ms-s-on-being-seduced-by-a-younger-woman.html#comment-1674 ekow Mon, 08 Mar 2010 19:18:18 +0000 http://adventuresfrom.com/?p=448#comment-1674 im not try to hook up wit gals please im jst express my views im not try to hook up wit gals please im jst express my views

]]> By: Ms S http://adventuresfrom.com/2010/03/05/guest-contributor-ms-s-on-being-seduced-by-a-younger-woman.html#comment-1671 Ms S Mon, 08 Mar 2010 00:28:20 +0000 http://adventuresfrom.com/?p=448#comment-1671 @eccentricyoruba - No this didn't happen in an African country although we are Lolita and I are both African. She currently works abroad and I happened to be visiting when this occured...so its probably going to be a short lived affair unless we go the long distance route. @yinkuslolo - I don't think so....i agree that we shouldn't try to box our sexualities so rigidly. I do think its our socialisation that makes us define ourselves predominantly as heterosexual. For the longest time I considered myself completely straight but in the last few months I have found out that I'm attracted to girls too....I still find men very attractive though @Maria - Lol, we'll see...if I get inspired I will send Nana another email with the juicy details @Shane - You do? if I decide to share some more goss, it will be on this site @Ekow - Yep, it sounds like you are trying to hook up with some girls. @eccentricyoruba – No this didn’t happen in an African country although we are Lolita and I are both African. She currently works abroad and I happened to be visiting when this occured…so its probably going to be a short lived affair unless we go the long distance route.

@yinkuslolo – I don’t think so….i agree that we shouldn’t try to box our sexualities so rigidly. I do think its our socialisation that makes us define ourselves predominantly as heterosexual. For the longest time I considered myself completely straight but in the last few months I have found out that I’m attracted to girls too….I still find men very attractive though

@Maria – Lol, we’ll see…if I get inspired I will send Nana another email with the juicy details

@Shane – You do? if I decide to share some more goss, it will be on this site

@Ekow – Yep, it sounds like you are trying to hook up with some girls.

]]> By: Nana Darkoa http://adventuresfrom.com/2010/03/05/guest-contributor-ms-s-on-being-seduced-by-a-younger-woman.html#comment-1670 Nana Darkoa Mon, 08 Mar 2010 00:05:35 +0000 http://adventuresfrom.com/?p=448#comment-1670 @eccentricyoruba - Actually I think we're of the same opinion. I also agree that sexuality is more fluid than we tend to think @eccentricyoruba – Actually I think we’re of the same opinion. I also agree that sexuality is more fluid than we tend to think

]]> By: ekow http://adventuresfrom.com/2010/03/05/guest-contributor-ms-s-on-being-seduced-by-a-younger-woman.html#comment-1667 ekow Sat, 06 Mar 2010 17:28:24 +0000 http://adventuresfrom.com/?p=448#comment-1667 @nana im not try to date on dis i jst wanna get to know u lol @nana im not try to date on dis i jst wanna get to know u lol

]]> By: Shane http://adventuresfrom.com/2010/03/05/guest-contributor-ms-s-on-being-seduced-by-a-younger-woman.html#comment-1665 Shane Sat, 06 Mar 2010 14:36:10 +0000 http://adventuresfrom.com/?p=448#comment-1665 @ eccentricyoruba: well said re the fluid nature of sexuality. even the label 'bisexual' discretizes something which, in my opinion, is a continuous spectrum. @ ekow: this is not a dating website... lol @ Ms. S: i think like maria, some of us want to hear more :) @ eccentricyoruba: well said re the fluid nature of sexuality. even the label ‘bisexual’ discretizes something which, in my opinion, is a continuous spectrum.

@ ekow: this is not a dating website… lol

@ Ms. S: i think like maria, some of us want to hear more :)

]]> By: ekow http://adventuresfrom.com/2010/03/05/guest-contributor-ms-s-on-being-seduced-by-a-younger-woman.html#comment-1664 ekow Sat, 06 Mar 2010 13:48:44 +0000 http://adventuresfrom.com/?p=448#comment-1664 @Nana wat are u doing tonite can we hang out or let find a day n get together @Nana wat are u doing tonite can we hang out or let find a day n get together

]]> By: ekow http://adventuresfrom.com/2010/03/05/guest-contributor-ms-s-on-being-seduced-by-a-younger-woman.html#comment-1663 ekow Sat, 06 Mar 2010 11:31:28 +0000 http://adventuresfrom.com/?p=448#comment-1663 @maria wat do u say we get to hang out sometym @maria wat do u say we get to hang out sometym

]]> By: eccentricyoruba http://adventuresfrom.com/2010/03/05/guest-contributor-ms-s-on-being-seduced-by-a-younger-woman.html#comment-1661 eccentricyoruba Sat, 06 Mar 2010 08:00:15 +0000 http://adventuresfrom.com/?p=448#comment-1661 @yinkuslolo, i second Nana...sort of but not completely. while i believe that 'dalliance with girls' in boarding school does not translate into bisexuality, i do believe that such dalliances prove that human sexuality is not as rigid as society says it is. i'm not sure if this is controversial but i don't think human sexuality is as easy to put into neat boxes labelled 'gay', 'straight' or 'bisexual' as we today seem to believe it is. throughout history there have been people who would be labelled bisexual in today's world even though they didn't think of themselves as such. the first people that come to mind are the Spartans and Japanese samurai who both practiced institutionalised homosexuality as part of their military schools. as i read a whole book on Japanese homosexuality in history, i know that in the past it was considered normal for a young man to have an older lover but this same man was expected to get married when he got older. in other words the first half of a man's life was spent loving other men while the second half was spent loving women. those people knew what they were doing... @yinkuslolo, i second Nana…sort of but not completely. while i believe that ‘dalliance with girls’ in boarding school does not translate into bisexuality, i do believe that such dalliances prove that human sexuality is not as rigid as society says it is. i’m not sure if this is controversial but i don’t think human sexuality is as easy to put into neat boxes labelled ‘gay’, ‘straight’ or ‘bisexual’ as we today seem to believe it is.

throughout history there have been people who would be labelled bisexual in today’s world even though they didn’t think of themselves as such. the first people that come to mind are the Spartans and Japanese samurai who both practiced institutionalised homosexuality as part of their military schools. as i read a whole book on Japanese homosexuality in history, i know that in the past it was considered normal for a young man to have an older lover but this same man was expected to get married when he got older. in other words the first half of a man’s life was spent loving other men while the second half was spent loving women. those people knew what they were doing…

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