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		<title>By: Corey Gilkes</title>
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		<dc:creator>Corey Gilkes</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 23 Mar 2011 11:49:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I understand that women entrepreneurs were once highly valued in Nigeria, Senegal and many other West African countries, perhaps that could be a springboard for your career ;-)

Kamla Persad-Bessessar is not the first female Prime Minister in the Caribbean; Eugenia Charles rose to prominence in Dominica years before as did Janet Jagan, the widow of the late Guyanese president Cheddi Jagan. 

But while their election to political office is certainly a milestone, the real hurdle is changing the politics itself to something less patriarchal. Let&#039;s look at Condoleeza Rice, Madeline Albright and even Margaret Thatcher in England: women who occupied powerful political positions that nevertheless reflected and upheld patricentric interests. They all ultimately made decisions that impacted devastatingly on millions of faceless women who happen to be the ones responsible for gathering and processing food and water in their respective societies. It has been pointed out by people like Vandana Shiva in India that the new colonialism and imperialism is the privatisation of water, indigenous medicines, seeds and food production all of which were traditionally the primary concerns of women. What is needed is a new approach to politics which in my opinion involves the re-visiting of certain political institutions that existed in many parts of Africa but never in Europe so far as I have been able to research. And whether a woman is sexually active and active in ways well outside the confines of closed monogamy should not have much bearing (I wonder how many people are aware that some of the major historical figures of the 20th century alone who kept to rigid &quot;traditional&quot; Western values were some of the most vicious abusers of human rights this world has ever seen)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I understand that women entrepreneurs were once highly valued in Nigeria, Senegal and many other West African countries, perhaps that could be a springboard for your career <img src='http://adventuresfrom.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>Kamla Persad-Bessessar is not the first female Prime Minister in the Caribbean; Eugenia Charles rose to prominence in Dominica years before as did Janet Jagan, the widow of the late Guyanese president Cheddi Jagan. </p>
<p>But while their election to political office is certainly a milestone, the real hurdle is changing the politics itself to something less patriarchal. Let&#8217;s look at Condoleeza Rice, Madeline Albright and even Margaret Thatcher in England: women who occupied powerful political positions that nevertheless reflected and upheld patricentric interests. They all ultimately made decisions that impacted devastatingly on millions of faceless women who happen to be the ones responsible for gathering and processing food and water in their respective societies. It has been pointed out by people like Vandana Shiva in India that the new colonialism and imperialism is the privatisation of water, indigenous medicines, seeds and food production all of which were traditionally the primary concerns of women. What is needed is a new approach to politics which in my opinion involves the re-visiting of certain political institutions that existed in many parts of Africa but never in Europe so far as I have been able to research. And whether a woman is sexually active and active in ways well outside the confines of closed monogamy should not have much bearing (I wonder how many people are aware that some of the major historical figures of the 20th century alone who kept to rigid &#8220;traditional&#8221; Western values were some of the most vicious abusers of human rights this world has ever seen)</p>
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		<title>By: Nana Darkoa</title>
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		<dc:creator>Nana Darkoa</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 22 Mar 2011 14:08:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thank you so much Corey. I really appreciate the feedback. You have also reminded me of my political ambitions which at the moment I have decided to shelf for entrepreneurship but who knows what the future holds :) 

Its interesting to hear about Trinidad&#039;s new Prime Minister and good news to hear about a woman rising to that position in Trinidad. Thank you so much for sharing. I am inspired :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thank you so much Corey. I really appreciate the feedback. You have also reminded me of my political ambitions which at the moment I have decided to shelf for entrepreneurship but who knows what the future holds <img src='http://adventuresfrom.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' />  </p>
<p>Its interesting to hear about Trinidad&#8217;s new Prime Minister and good news to hear about a woman rising to that position in Trinidad. Thank you so much for sharing. I am inspired <img src='http://adventuresfrom.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Corey Gilkes</title>
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		<dc:creator>Corey Gilkes</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 22 Mar 2011 09:53:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I must say that I had some respect and admiration for you before, but I have doubly that now!!
 
And for the record I too would like to see you in the political arena. It&#039;s sobering though how alike our societies are in terms of how your sexual self would &quot;disqualify&quot; you from standing for office. Only last year we made history in electing a Prime Minister who is not only a woman but also, being of East Indian descent, belonged to a predominantly Hindu-oriented party that had very entrenched Hindu patriarchal values. Even then, there are still disparaging whispers about her (allegedly) nonmonogamous sexual life as if that has anything to do with how she and the coalition party she leads runs the country.
 
But who knows, perhaps there is time yet particularly if more young people (the future voters) were educated to approach politics in ways different from the old male chauvinist styles we have been saddled with. All the best to you, whatever you do.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I must say that I had some respect and admiration for you before, but I have doubly that now!!</p>
<p>And for the record I too would like to see you in the political arena. It&#8217;s sobering though how alike our societies are in terms of how your sexual self would &#8220;disqualify&#8221; you from standing for office. Only last year we made history in electing a Prime Minister who is not only a woman but also, being of East Indian descent, belonged to a predominantly Hindu-oriented party that had very entrenched Hindu patriarchal values. Even then, there are still disparaging whispers about her (allegedly) nonmonogamous sexual life as if that has anything to do with how she and the coalition party she leads runs the country.</p>
<p>But who knows, perhaps there is time yet particularly if more young people (the future voters) were educated to approach politics in ways different from the old male chauvinist styles we have been saddled with. All the best to you, whatever you do.</p>
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		<title>By: africaschoiceradio</title>
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		<dc:creator>africaschoiceradio</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 20 Aug 2010 22:49:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>i am enjoyed reading the article and comments that follow. I am an African male who is very open to a woman having equal rights to her male counterpart.I have come to learn one thing that we cannot dismiss. We cannot forget that African as a continent suffers in all areas due to lack of education. Be it management of Aids and its repercussions, natural resources, respect for other beings! Before we can break our problems down to itsy-bitsy pieces we have to recognize that mass education is number one! If  I was not  taught in my youth to be an independent thinker to appreciate different cultures as an extenstion of who i am  I would never respect anyone&#039;s rights in general let alone those of women! Let us approach our issues as Africans first then men/women second!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>i am enjoyed reading the article and comments that follow. I am an African male who is very open to a woman having equal rights to her male counterpart.I have come to learn one thing that we cannot dismiss. We cannot forget that African as a continent suffers in all areas due to lack of education. Be it management of Aids and its repercussions, natural resources, respect for other beings! Before we can break our problems down to itsy-bitsy pieces we have to recognize that mass education is number one! If  I was not  taught in my youth to be an independent thinker to appreciate different cultures as an extenstion of who i am  I would never respect anyone&#8217;s rights in general let alone those of women! Let us approach our issues as Africans first then men/women second!</p>
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		<title>By: ely</title>
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		<dc:creator>ely</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 28 Jul 2010 18:46:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Interesting. Got me wondering where I&#039;ve been during the heat of the argument? Ok, my point: The issue in our part of the world is that it&#039;s ok, personality strenghtening even, when a man sleeps around but an abomination when a woman does not marry her first boyfriend. The scale of measurement is not even the same!! In my opinion, the way forward is for female politicians not to indulge in dirty politiking and stick to the issues, make your male opponents feel and look stupid for swimming in the mad by being above average, effecient.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Interesting. Got me wondering where I&#8217;ve been during the heat of the argument? Ok, my point: The issue in our part of the world is that it&#8217;s ok, personality strenghtening even, when a man sleeps around but an abomination when a woman does not marry her first boyfriend. The scale of measurement is not even the same!! In my opinion, the way forward is for female politicians not to indulge in dirty politiking and stick to the issues, make your male opponents feel and look stupid for swimming in the mad by being above average, effecient.</p>
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		<title>By: kinkidi</title>
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		<dc:creator>kinkidi</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 01 Jul 2010 20:53:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I really don&#039;t get this whole Ghanaian thing about &quot;It&#039;s ok if a man does it but it isn&#039;t if a woman does it&quot;. It just doesn&#039;t make sense; yet I see a lot of Ghanaian mothers raising their children like that. Girls have curfew boys don&#039;t.  Boys can have sex, girls can&#039;t. Girls go to the kitchen boys don&#039;t and the list of rubbish principles is endless.

Nana, by starting this blog, you already have chosen the unpleasant responsibility of having to lead. Don&#039;t tell me you&#039;re that sensitive? Who says a little slander can&#039;t go a long way to make you Ghana&#039;s first properly liberated female politician? 

Remember, if a dream doesn&#039;t scare you, it&#039;s not worth pursuing.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I really don&#8217;t get this whole Ghanaian thing about &#8220;It&#8217;s ok if a man does it but it isn&#8217;t if a woman does it&#8221;. It just doesn&#8217;t make sense; yet I see a lot of Ghanaian mothers raising their children like that. Girls have curfew boys don&#8217;t.  Boys can have sex, girls can&#8217;t. Girls go to the kitchen boys don&#8217;t and the list of rubbish principles is endless.</p>
<p>Nana, by starting this blog, you already have chosen the unpleasant responsibility of having to lead. Don&#8217;t tell me you&#8217;re that sensitive? Who says a little slander can&#8217;t go a long way to make you Ghana&#8217;s first properly liberated female politician? </p>
<p>Remember, if a dream doesn&#8217;t scare you, it&#8217;s not worth pursuing.</p>
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		<title>By: Kojo Amaning</title>
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		<dc:creator>Kojo Amaning</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 01 Jul 2010 01:44:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Nana Darkoa, i am a first time reader to this blog and I am not exactly sure what your thoughts are about a number of issues so i cannot begin to promise a vote. That being said, i am going to preface with you must be kidding me. 
You are a young lady who is airing her dirty laundry herself, i get the impression you have talked about a few things on radio which we Ghanaians find controversial. As long as you have owned it and embraced who you are, nobody can &quot;smear&quot; your name, especially because we are a lot dirtier as a group of people than you can imagine. 
As long as you have great ideas and you are willing to put it into play, please follow through. I am not going to pretend people will not have adverse things to say about you, but that is simply politics. If you believe in something, other people will believe in you so please, do consider following through with your political ambitions because you will be amazed at how much acceptance and embrace will come from people in the face of not so positive words about you. 
All I ask is, let the thought roam around in your mind a little longer.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Nana Darkoa, i am a first time reader to this blog and I am not exactly sure what your thoughts are about a number of issues so i cannot begin to promise a vote. That being said, i am going to preface with you must be kidding me.<br />
You are a young lady who is airing her dirty laundry herself, i get the impression you have talked about a few things on radio which we Ghanaians find controversial. As long as you have owned it and embraced who you are, nobody can &#8220;smear&#8221; your name, especially because we are a lot dirtier as a group of people than you can imagine.<br />
As long as you have great ideas and you are willing to put it into play, please follow through. I am not going to pretend people will not have adverse things to say about you, but that is simply politics. If you believe in something, other people will believe in you so please, do consider following through with your political ambitions because you will be amazed at how much acceptance and embrace will come from people in the face of not so positive words about you.<br />
All I ask is, let the thought roam around in your mind a little longer.</p>
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		<title>By: Omanba Forum</title>
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		<dc:creator>Omanba Forum</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 26 Jun 2010 14:02:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;m sorry to say that Ghana does not appear to be ready to separate one&#039;s morals from one&#039;s politics and what one stands for. And it&#039;s definitely going to take the entrance of our modern generation into politics in order to do away with the culture of dirty politicking. 
Unfortunately, it appears that even the young ones who are on the political scene at the moment are beginning to apply the same dirty political tricks of their elders! Is there some kind of training school or what? 
Visit us at Omanbaforum dot com</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m sorry to say that Ghana does not appear to be ready to separate one&#8217;s morals from one&#8217;s politics and what one stands for. And it&#8217;s definitely going to take the entrance of our modern generation into politics in order to do away with the culture of dirty politicking.<br />
Unfortunately, it appears that even the young ones who are on the political scene at the moment are beginning to apply the same dirty political tricks of their elders! Is there some kind of training school or what?<br />
Visit us at Omanbaforum dot com</p>
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		<title>By: Nana</title>
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		<dc:creator>Nana</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 24 Jun 2010 14:02:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Clean politics with just issues can be done and I think people on this forum(Nana D, Nsoromma) will be excellent to take the lead.  I was also on the staff of Deval Patrick, the governor of Massachusetts.  He was above personal attacks and focused on the issues.  Its excruciating not to trade jabs with an inept opponent but it feels better after you win.  I am applying for my dual citizenship and you will have my vote.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Clean politics with just issues can be done and I think people on this forum(Nana D, Nsoromma) will be excellent to take the lead.  I was also on the staff of Deval Patrick, the governor of Massachusetts.  He was above personal attacks and focused on the issues.  Its excruciating not to trade jabs with an inept opponent but it feels better after you win.  I am applying for my dual citizenship and you will have my vote.</p>
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		<title>By: Mike</title>
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		<dc:creator>Mike</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 20 Jun 2010 19:33:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I personally have a problem with people who resort to insults and get loud during discussions. It bugs me even more when educated people do that. It is soooo &quot;nkurasisem&quot; (ghetto, uncouth). 
But people like that can&#039;t suppress that characteristic for long. It eventually comes out. 
Nana Darkoa, I think your blog will be a good addendum to your resume if you should run for public office. Yes, it will open you up for negative criticism but as long as you are focused and don&#039;t get caught up in the mud-slinging game, it can serve as an advantage. 
It is a record of your mindset and that is documented history/information that is currently not available on people holding public office now.... e.g Mr Jinapor.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I personally have a problem with people who resort to insults and get loud during discussions. It bugs me even more when educated people do that. It is soooo &#8220;nkurasisem&#8221; (ghetto, uncouth).<br />
But people like that can&#8217;t suppress that characteristic for long. It eventually comes out.<br />
Nana Darkoa, I think your blog will be a good addendum to your resume if you should run for public office. Yes, it will open you up for negative criticism but as long as you are focused and don&#8217;t get caught up in the mud-slinging game, it can serve as an advantage.<br />
It is a record of your mindset and that is documented history/information that is currently not available on people holding public office now&#8230;. e.g Mr Jinapor.</p>
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