I just listened to the late Kodjo Acquaye’s track with all that moaning by a woman in it, and thought of seeking opinions on this issue.
Well, it is almost inevitable for a young growing boy to take sneak peeks of porn with friends. Most teenagers are initiated into the world of sex via porn. As such, most young males would live their lives expecting that everything about sex should be just as it appears in porn flicks. For a bout of sex the young male would expect multiple changes in position, sometimes to the chagrin of the female partner. One bit of sex that even into adulthood men remain confused about relates to the sounds made by either partner during the experience. The porn flick tells us that by even the slightest stroke of the skin, a woman should go ‘oooh’ or ‘hmmmm’ or ‘aaaah’. Some women fake enjoyment and orgasms to ‘satisfy’ the ego of the guy, who feels at the end of it all, quite macho about his performance.
Recently, I’ve been reading books authored by women about sex and some claimed that the ‘oooh’ and ‘aaah’ factor is not really true. Sexual ecstasy does not necessarily result in these dramatic sounds as portrayed in porn. The sounds are deemed to be a bequest by the porn industry which feed into the psyche of hungry warm blooded men. Some of these men would feel unloved/unsatisfied without these sounds of lovemaking. Yet some other books claim that in reaching climax the senses are so activated and that it is involuntary for a woman to exclaim in ecstasy. Thus indeed, the ‘ooh’ and ‘aaah’, ‘OMG’, ‘Yeeesssss’, ‘uuuuuuuuh uh uh uhhhhhhh’ are supposed to be present to determine fulfillment in a woman.
Please help educate this man. To the girls out there; do you make sounds when making out? Were they real or fake? When real what are they and what does it feel like then? If fake, why did you do it, and when? What is your view of nookie sounds?