Sorry for the long break o guys! I’ve gone back to school and I’m miles away from my boyfriend so I have not been having any sex to blog about lately! Lol.
So, has your teacher hit on you before? In high school, we had a tutor, let’s call him ‘Mr’. Mr was very hot, charming and an actor in a popular series on GTV (Ghana Television) in the early 2000s. I’m sure you can guess that when the lights went out in our dormitories,we girls were all fantasizing about Mr! But we knew that despite our fantasies,Mr wasn’t going to date us or anything. I mean, we all knew that Mr wasn’t into little girls. In fact, he hardly talked to any girl in the school except one girl but she was his cousin so that was why. Or was that why? We came back from one midterm to find our school ripped by a scandal. Turns out that the girl wasn’t Mr’s relative after all. Indeed, the only relationship they had was a sexual one. Yup, he had been screwing her all this time and the ‘cousin thing’ was a cover-up to enable him hang out with her. Our school authorities never said anything about it but Mr was quietly sacked. The girl continued in our school where the other students treated her like a leper. ‘Ugh’, we said, she screwed her teacher can you imagine that? Now, I get sad when I think about all this because she was only 16.
Avon Global Center (headquarters at Cornell University) has launched a report which states:
“…in Zambia, many girls are raped, sexually abused, harassed and assaulted by teachers and male classmates… the prevalence of physical and sexual abuse against women and girls in Zambia is extremely high …girls encounter sexual abuse in all areas of life in Zambia“.
In conducting this study, the researchers traveled to Zambia twice and spoke to girls in 3 schools.The report has received mixed reviews. Some people have lauded it as revealing the true situation in all African countries. Others have said that it makes a lot of generalizations and reinforces the stereotype of Africans being barbaric. What do YOU think? Fab report or stereotype gone bad? Did your teachers sexually harass you or your classmates in school?