Ah. So here’s the guy you’ve got: he’s up for trying anything. Seems self explanatory right? I don’t think you understand. Your man will try anything! He is willing to explore with you. Congratulations! All those fantasies you have, you can act them out. Just remember that the operative word is ‘try’. If he doesn’t want to or like it, there is no need to push the issue. You’ll only drive him into mouth of someone else.
For this guy, allow your hands to roam all over his body prior to fellatio. If he has any areas that are sensitive, make sure you visit those too; the ‘V’ leading to his trousers (if he doesn’t have a visible one, you want to start from his crotch and fan outwards. Where the V ends under his belly button is the area you should concentrate on.) Don’t neglect the soft skin on his inner thighs.
You can pretty much try anything; cupping his balls while you tease him way before your mouth goes anywhere near his shaft and head, licking along the raphe – that seam of skin that runs on the underside of his penis and balls – and licking or suckling on his perineum – the skin between his dick and arsehole.
You can also try stroking the perineum or pushing into it with a thumb while you suck on his dick. This is the area under his male G-spot (the location of his prostate. More on this next week) so it should feel really good. Give it a few test tries before you get down to the act though, so that you know beforehand how much/little pressure he likes in this area or if he likes it at all. That way, you will not disrupt the flow of good feelings you’re both getting. If he likes it, try applying some pressure on this. Watch for the balls as usual. When they start to rise up, you may tap or push into this area to help his orgasm explode. Maybe try using some music to heek a steady rhythm.
You might also want to suckle on his balls, but be careful. They are not breasts and even those are sensitive. The thin layer of skin holding them means they can be fragile. Gentle suck first one, then if you can manage it, the other into your mouth. Swirl your saliva around it, rinse and repeat. Blow on it afterwards. Run your nails lightly (LIGHTLY) along his flanks, down his inner thighs, culminating around his shaft.
Don’t be afraid to hold on to his hips while you eat him. Such a show of strength can only be a turn on – showing him you want him and are not afraid to eat him up. Try lightly tapping his bottom as well. It might not do anything physically, but the sound of skin slapping skin…well, there’s a reason men do it to us and it’s not because it feels nice!
Enjoy your meal.