This post was conceived during an unexpected and novel situation I found myself in yesterday. There I was, lying on my back in a public place with other people within earshot with my legs akimbo whilst an attractive female I had never met got to work servicing my vagina. No, this wasn’t my first foray into dogging, swinging or lesbian sex even. I was getting a Brazilian!
As my toes curled for the umpteenth time in response to the excruciating, unrivalled pain, I got to wondering…why would a sane woman with no masochistic tendencies put herself through such torture? I know I’m not alone in dispensing with most of my pubic hair. So, People, why do we women do it? Is it because we like things to look neat and tidy down there, because we perceive it to be more hygienic, because we perceive that our partners will appreciate it , be turned on by it, or more likely to perform oral sex if we do?
Conversely, why do others leave their pubic hair untamed as nature intended? Equally to some, that is a turn on and a reminder to partners that they’re actually having sex with a grown ass woman and not someone who’s infantalised herself to resemble a pre pubescent girl.
As a bisexual woman I have a view from two perspectives. Personally I had a Brazilian for appearances sake. Because I am going to see my lover after a long absence and wanted to look well kempt and take the same pride in my vulval appearance as I do with my more visible external appearance. That said, I’ve never asked him his opinion and rather than make assumptions, I’ll have to ask him when next we meet. From the other side, I’ve never slept with a woman who had a mass of pubic hair but I think I find well kempt hair more of a turn on and more hygienic. Personally, I’m not sure I’d really want go delving into the depths of a really overgrown bush. That said, when you really like someone all these preconceived ideas go out of the window.
So, I’m opening up the floor to you’ Adventures’ readers. What do women think? What do men think and is there an interface?