Earlier today I was filling a form about my sex life. One of the questions was, ‘how many times a week do you have sex?’
I redirected the question to my partner.
‘How many times a week do we have sex hun?’.
His reply: “Twice a week, on Wednesdays and Sundays”.
I laughed at the specificity of the response. “Noooo. It’s not that bad. I think its 2-3 times a week”. So that’s what I wrote on the form. Because saying I have sex 2-3 times a week definitely sounds way better to me that a miserly 2 times a week. Come on! I’m a sex blogger. I should be having sex every other day, or maybe even several times a day in different positions, and all the rooms of my house. But who has time for all of that? Am I the only one who increasingly feels like I don’t have enough time for sex? The kind of downtime where you can linger in bed, laze around, and have slow indulgent sex (hence the regular Sunday nooky). I have to confess that other than Sundays sex for me has to be a quickie – short, orgasmic and to the point. I think this is perhaps also a challenge when you have a regular partner. You know what works for the person. A little nibble here, a little lick there, a rub here, and voila!
I’m curious about other peoples sex lives. Are you regularly having sex? How many times do you tend to have sex a week?
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