I have always been intensely curious about sex and sexuality. Over the course of my life I have read more things about sex than I count. I have heard all the sex stories. Watched all the porn I could access. Read all the academic theories and the feminist writings I can get my hands on. All of them have a lot of useful information in teaching young women how to see sex as something that is healthy, enjoyable, shame-free and most importantly as ...  [Read more]

If she could talk,   Heeeeei! I’ve been deaf, dumb, and blind for a long time But now that I have been visited by Jesus, and healed of silence disease I will go tell it on Mt.Kilimanjaro, over the hills and everywhere All I want is a cobra, a BIG BLACK cobra Mandigo warrior style No small, ting need apply Also colorless meat is out of bounds Learn to decipher between preference and racism Before, you jump to ...  [Read more]

gmail.com This is what my vagina would say if it could talk...]   Can you hear me? Listen to me. Pay attention to me Ignore everybody else and give me one to one attention And I don’t mean that you should touch me Or rush to get Mr V In fact sometimes I hate Mr V Mr V makes you ignore me You only think about what you want and ignore what I want Put Mr V aside and listen to me In fact put all the ...  [Read more]

So roots4life’s piece on moaning appeared right after an interesting experience I had a few weekends ago. I wanted to spice things up a bit, so my boyfriend and I spent the weekend in a hotel. We had already had sex twice before we left to go check in. He had come over for a visit and I wanted his opinion on something I was going to wear out with friends that night. As soon as I put the outfit on he ordered me to leave it exactly as it was and ...  [Read more]

  Do not hold me back I have waited and waited For you For this moment I have stopped myself countless times Denied myself from letting go From falling over the abyss Only because I want to fall with you I did not let him touch me Even though my body craved a touch Any He did not kiss me Or Make love to my screaming body Because I kept this all tucked away Someway Somehow To unleash ...  [Read more]

I would first of all like to say that this was inspired after I read Darian’s post on her sexuality and Christianity. (I know, it’s from way back in 2009) This post is very much a personal one, and I’m in no way trying to judge the sexual climate in Ghana … I’m just talking about my experiences. Anyway. I remember when Nana Sekyiamah visited my high school. I was probably in my second year, somewhat naïve about life and in the ...  [Read more]

Sometimes I really want to let myself go. Sometimes I want a partner who brings out my inner freak. I want to touch myself, record myself cumming and send the voice note to my partner. I want someone who will dominate me in the bedroom, encourage me to push my sexual boundaries yet know what my limits are. I want someone who will touch me all over. Kiss me all over. Run his fingers over my body. Play with my public hair. Touch me all the way ...  [Read more]

How does one cultivate a coticulturist? Are they born or created? I am not sure. I didn’t become a coticulturist because I was thinking about this stuff. You might say I started thinking about this stuff because  I was trying to understand my coticulturism. When I think back on it I do realize that I was never taught to think of dicks as something scary that would bite me. I was never taught to think of them as this thing that wanted ...  [Read more]

I just listened to the late Kodjo Acquaye’s track with all that moaning by a woman in it, and thought of seeking opinions on this issue. Well, it is almost inevitable for a young growing boy to take sneak peeks of porn with friends. Most teenagers are initiated into the world of sex via porn. As such, most young males would live their lives expecting that everything about sex should be just as it appears in porn flicks. For a bout of sex ...  [Read more]

The design team at Early Childhood Education sent me the graphic below. What are your thoughts? Do we think enough about how much children cost before deciding when and how many children to have? Have you ever worked out how much you need to put aside for your child's education? Is this graphic relevant to those of us on the continent? Share your thoughts... Created by: ...  [Read more]