I was interviewed by Joy Fm (a private radio station in Ghana) on the 14th of January on the existence of the G Spot. The actual segment which was broadcast on air included a sampling of the public on the subject. What came across to me very clearly, when the opinions of members of the public was sampled, was the amount of misconception that exists about the G spot and women’s orgasms. In this post I would like to clear some misconceptions and state some personal thoughts:
When a woman has an orgasm it does not necessarily mean her G Spot has been hit. The G Spot refers to a zone (rather than a mere spot) …

I’m quite judgemental, I make up my mind about people fairly early on. I know almost from the minute I meet a guy whether I’m attracted to him or not. There are some people that you become attracted to the more you hang out with them. Of course there are also other people that you become less attracted to the more you hang out with them.
I have a weakness for guys who do their own thing – men who are entrepreneurial, the kind that you know will make it some day – I don’t think those type of men are attracted to me. I think they prefer more “homely” and traditional women, women who will …

As usual the conversation revolved around the men in their lives:
“Charle, as for me, I have had it with boys, they are lying, cheating scumbags. I think I shall just remain single – after all I get better orgasms from my vibrator”.
“I have never used a vibrator before”.
“Oh come on Kukua! In this day and age, we need to fix this situation now”
Aba stands slowly, gives Kukua a mischievous smile and heads for her bedroom, re-appearing with what appears to be a vanity case.
“Okay, Kukua your re-education starts now. So, this pink dildo with what appears to be rabbit ears on the side is the famous Rampant Rabbit. These on the other hand are anal …

New Year, New Adventures … for some time now I have been thinking about writing erotic fiction. In my opinion, there isn’t much good quality erotic fiction on the internet (yes, I have been searching) and so for 2010 I am going to turn my hand to writing erotic fiction. I will also use the relative safety of fiction to write on those subjects that my readers are keen to know more about, but contributors are reluctant to write on…as usual, no topic is off limit. Enjoy the story below and let me know your thoughts:
“A relationship with a woman should not be drama”, Kukua thought. She had been hooking up with her friend Aba …

So, does anyone have any sexy stories to share involving Christmas, Santa Claus or anything remotely yuletide?

So I’m one of those that who has chosen to try hard to practice the no premarital sex clause. As I have gotten older though, it has become increasingly difficult to get men to be down with this. My relationships are either long distance – so the sex thing doesn’t have to come up too often – or rather short lived. I made peace with this a long time ago – and accept the need for others to live out their own value systems.
I have to be upfront though and say that the kind of virginity I practice is the “everything, but” kind. Well not exactly – because my but …

The worst part of any date for me is when the bill arrives. Who pays? The man? The woman? The one who initiated the date? Should you always offer to go dutch? Should you make a half-hearted attempt to reach for your purse? Should you insist on paying half? Should he (or she) pay for one date and you pay for the next? Does it matter who pays?
Three date “payment” issues stick in my mind.
Once upon a time I decided to explore internet dating. Truth be told, I wanted to write a book which was going to be titled “Finding Mr Right on the Internet”. My research involved going on numerous dates courtesy …

On Friday the 4th of December I will be participating in a blog reading at Expressions which takes place in Smoothys, Oxford Street. In the 11 months that this blog has been active I have had numerous guest contributions which in my opinion is a major factor in the success of the blog.
Can you imagine Adventures without Anthony’s chart topping “How to eat pussy…from the Givers Perspective”, or Darian’s “Good Christian Girls Don’t Have Sex” or or Esi Cleland’s “Two things you learn about Ghanaian men by walking the streets”.
It will be great if I could get a small team to read for “Adventures”, if you have ever guest contributed for this blog, live …

So you are in the sack with this guy (or girl) and he (she) says something and you’re thinking “what the ….”.
A couple of the funniest things I have heard or been told about include:
“It will be nice if you could fake an orgasm”
“Where’s your g spot” as Mr X frantically digs about Ms X’s vagina
“Make it tight, make it tight, make it tight” followed shortly by “Aaarghhh, it was too big before”
“Geddit, geddit, geddit”
What are some of the funniest things you have heard, overheard or been told about…

I have never worn a bikini in my life and unless I have a miraculous bodily transformation in the next few months I doubt if I ever will. As I write this, I am sitting on a beautiful beach in the Gambia, dressed in black trousers and a short sleeved shirt, whilst all around me are women and men of all ages dressed in little scraps of nothing. I am here for a conference, they are here for a holiday – and from what I hear, perhaps some sex tourism.
There is an old lady sitting not too far away from me, she is wearing a hot pink bikini, she saunters casually from her sun bed …