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	<title>Adventures from the bedrooms of African women</title>
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	<description>We think there is a serious lack of relevant and useful information about the sexuality of African women. This blog is a space for African women to share tips, experiences and more...</description>
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		<title>Guest Contributor Lolita On Seducing Ms. S</title>
		<link>http://adventuresfrom.com/2010/03/06/guest-contributor-lolita-on-seducing-ms-s.html</link>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 06 Mar 2010 06:38:46 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Nana Darkoa</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I&#8217;ve been going through something of a lezzie phase these days (read &#8216;a while&#8217;): watching girl porn, hooking up with just as inebriated members of our fairer sex, checking out tits and ass on the train, telling random girls at bars how pretty they are (and effectively weirding them out, I&#8217;m sure). Point is, it wasn&#8217;t that much of a surprise (to me at least) how things ended up with Ms. S; I can&#8217;t speak for her  
That&#8217;s not to say I didn&#8217;t have doubts, I&#8217;m not that cocky (or at all, in fact hehe). For one thing &#8211; and this is just for those readers on whom the connotations of &#8216;Lolita&#8217; are lost ...


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		<title>Guest Contributor Ms S On: Being Seduced By a Younger Woman</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 05 Mar 2010 18:31:51 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Nana Darkoa</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[So I got seduced last night by a 23 year old woman and I loved it! In case you&#8217;re wondering, yes I&#8217;m a woman too, and until a few months ago was completely &#8217;straight&#8217;. Well that&#8217;s if you ignore a few dalliances with girls in boarding school (but surely practically everybody who went to a same sex boarding school messed about with the same sex, right?)
So how did this seduction happen? Well, a friend told me that she knew this woman who really wanted to get to know me. Apparently she had seen me out on the town a few times and thought I would be a cool person to get to know. A few ...


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		<title>The Lowdown on Human Papilloma Virus (HPV)</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 25 Feb 2010 18:28:28 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Nana Darkoa</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[So all the recent conversations we&#8217;ve had here on genital warts and HPV motivated me to email a Dr friend to ask her for the lowdown on the virus and this is what she said:
Genital warts are caused by Human Papilloma Virus (HPV) strains 6 and 11.  Cervical cancer is caused mainly by strains 16 and 18.  There are 2 cervical cancer jabs one can take to guard against HPV: Cervirax which protects only against 16 and 18 and Gardesil which protects against all four of those strains. So the first point is if you want to get a vaccination against HPV then you need to make sure you&#8217;re getting the right vaccination.
The ...


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		<title>Disclaimer: The Deletion of &#8216;Nasty Ass Men&#8217;</title>
		<link>http://adventuresfrom.com/2010/02/23/disclaimer-the-deletion-of-nasty-ass-men.html</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 23 Feb 2010 00:00:34 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Nana Darkoa</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[You may notice the last post has been deleted. This is because there is some information in the post that could lead to the person(s) involved being identified. In the interest of being a safe space, we&#8217;ve had to take the decision of deleting the post.
The issue the post dealt with &#8211; that of HPV is a serious one and so in a future post we shall present more information on the subject.


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		<title>Are You A Woman Or A Man?</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 17 Feb 2010 19:56:38 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Nana Darkoa</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[My co-blogger Abena and I were discussing the other day how it appears that a lot of men read our blog, and how men send us emails asking us to blog on particular subjects. Our perspective was ‘…but we started this blog for women’.
I said to Abena:
‘I think the majority of our readers are women but they’re just acting like they are shy’. 
I was reminded of this conversation with Abena when I had a phone call from a girlfriend I haven’t heard from for a while:
Girlfriend: ‘You have no idea what you’ve started with your blog’
Me: ‘Ermm, what?’
Girlfriend: ‘You know that board I told you I had recommended you for?’
Me: [thinking oh no, now ...


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		<title>Why Do People Cheat?</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 07 Feb 2010 15:09:16 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Nana Darkoa</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I was catching up with a long distant friend over Gmail Chat and somehow the conversation turned to cheating. How did we even start on the subject? We were chatting about relationships, he was telling me about how he had learnt from his previous relationship and was asking what I thought about abstaining from sex at the start of a new relationship. I told him my thoughts, that abstinence is not a theory I subscribe to but I can see the rationale&#8230;sometime during this chat, I asked him why he had previously cheated whilst in a relationship (he has not cheated in his current relationship). His response: 
 ‘Cheated occasionally when I was feeling bad ...


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		<title>Sex Mis-Education: Virgin Power, Virgin Pride?</title>
		<link>http://adventuresfrom.com/2010/02/03/sex-mis-education-virgin-power-virgin-pride.html</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 03 Feb 2010 23:58:38 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Nana Darkoa</dc:creator>
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(Photo Credit: Nana Kofi Acquah)
I saw this billboard in Tamale, Northern Ghana and it reminds me of all that I hate about ineffectual sex education and bad messaging around the prevention of HIV/AIDS.
The implication is that if you&#8217;re a virgin you cannot catch HIV/AIDS. Not strictly true, is it? Afterall, sex is not the only way to become infected with HIV. My other issue with this &#8216;Virgin Power&#8217; message is that it ignores one of the biggest risk factors for HIV/AIDS in this country. Married women in Ghana are at a greater risk of contracting HIV/AIDS compared to their single sisters. Why? Simply because a lot of married women do not have autonomy over their ...


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		<title>Lights, Camera, Action!</title>
		<link>http://adventuresfrom.com/2010/01/30/lights-camera-action.html</link>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 30 Jan 2010 14:39:19 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Abena</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[If we were going to play a word association game and I asked you to say the first phrase that comes to mind with the words &#8216;camera&#8217; and &#8216;Africa&#8217;, you&#8217;d probably say &#8216;documentary&#8217; or &#8217;safari&#8217;. Don&#8217;t lie. You know you would.
I don&#8217;t know if it&#8217;s just my crop of friends, or if all Francophone chicks are in fact just freaky&#8230;but I know a ton of freaky girls from French speaking countries! I&#8217;m stalling before getting into this story, because I hardly know where/how to begin. Let me just plainly say I saw my first West African sex tape&#8230;in the raw.
My Togolese friend Michele has been dating a guy from Angola for the last 2+ years. ...


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		<title>Guest Contributor Mike: &#8216;She&#8217;s Just Not That Great In Bed&#8217;</title>
		<link>http://adventuresfrom.com/2010/01/26/guest-contributor-mike-shes-just-not-that-great-in-bed.html</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 26 Jan 2010 23:14:33 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Nana Darkoa</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Dear AbeNana,
I lied to an old friend. Maybe I shouldn’t have, But this was one of the rare situations where I looked in her pretty brown eyes and boldly lied to her. She is a very sweet young lady. Beautiful inside out &#038; intelligent. She’s got that full feminine figure and all woman. The kind of body I like to wake up next to and have on my playground every day &#038; nite. She is a career woman and successful too. Have I painted a perfect picture of her yet? Because I can and it won&#8217;t be lies.
For years, our gears were engaged &#038; locked and we had a helluva relationship. Our friends loved our ...


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		<title>Confidence is the Key to Great Sex</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 21 Jan 2010 17:09:24 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Abena</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I’m fairly willing to bet that if you ask the majority of mature women what makes for great sex, they’d say it all boils down to confidence. I haven’t read any studies on that theory or conducted an extensive poll supported that idea, but in speaking to women my age at least (those in their 30’s), they would say confidence is key to having really good sex.
A woman’s confidence (ideally) comes from what she defines as success. Whether that be in her physique, her social standing, her education, her personal achievements or all of the above, a woman will make a better lover if she feels strong in who she is as an individual. I ...


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