Ghana, 2009. There’s a church or mosque on every other corner. Our national image is still one of conservatism, good behaviour and high moral standing. Sex is strictly the preserve of married couples, and only for procreation, if you please.
Imagine mine and Nana’s surprise then, when we discovered a couple of sex shops in Accra. One Monday afternoon, we cleared our diaries to check out one of these shops. Called Pleasures, it stands out proud along the busy Spintex Road. Surely, they’ll only sell sexy undies and glass heeled stilettos, we thought to ourselves. Sure enough when we entered that’s all that met our gaze. Very kinky undies, cheap looking padded bras and tacky heels.
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It is undeniable that sex is one of the most pleasurable activities in life. Over time, humanity has devised means of maximising the pleasure derived from the act of sex. In today’s electronic world, recording video clips of sexual activities is one of the most common means by which people take their fun to greater heights. With the wide spread availability of high-tech phones that can record quality video, the culture of sexual video recording is becoming even more common.
Various people record for varying reasons. A young man who was interviewed on Ghana’s Joy FM’s Evening News last week conceded that he records himself having sex to boost his performance. The mere fact that he …

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Just saw a Gillette video which demonstrates how men should shave their balls and it got me thinking about my own relationship with pubic hair. Seriously, it’s constantly (okay, maybe not that constantly) on my mind. At the moment I favour trimming my pubes with scissors and a small comb (I have locs so if you see a comb on my dresser you know what it’s used for. I keep having to tell people, erm you may not want to use that comb…) followed by an application of Veet for the bikini line. I do not feel like it is the best “hair-reducing” solution though…
I remember a friend was chatting to a potential “buddy” and …

It’s the week before my period and I am so freakin’ horny. It is not even funny!
I think about sex all of the bloody time (and Nana reading your blog is not helping at all).Everything I see a hot looking guy I wonder what he will be like in the sack. Have you ever wondered what it will be like to do one of those hot looking, muscular fishermen on the beach? We don’t need to have a conversation just some hot steamy sex…Who says only men have sex on the brain?

I’m taking inspiration from Anti Rhythm and posing my own not so Random Questions…

Is there always a “certain level” of sexual attraction between male and female friends?
Is it possible to sleep with a friend and retain your friendship?
F**k Buddies, for or against?
What’s your favourite sexual act?
Where’s the best place to have sex?
What is your favourite sexual position?

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I am no fan of abstinence although I completely understand the reasons why so many of my sisters (yes I am excluding the brothers) strive to abstain from sex. I have heard the arguments in favour of abstinence and I think they are all entirely valid except when it comes to yours truly. A male friend once told me about the value of abstinence and I so got him. Yes, you take time to know the girl, your relationship is not clouded by sex, by the time you have sex it doesn’t matter what your penis size is…all very valid arguments. From the perspective of my women friend it’s usually about the milk and …

Okay, where are the Ghanaian sex shops? A friend and I will be doing our Ghanaian sex shop review next week and I just realised I have absolutely no idea where exactly the shops are. I have heard one is on the Spintex Road, and the other is on Oxford Street. Any precise directions please? Behind the plantain seller who sits opposite the MTN building may not be that helpful.
Any recommendations as to what I should buy?

I have a fear of childbirth. I have a fear of getting pregnant; feeling like my body has been taken over by a foreign being and labouring for hours to get this foreign being out of my body.
I am fearful that I live in a part of the world where there is a very strong probability of dying in childbirth.
I am scared that after labouring for hours to have this child I will have the sole responsibility of caring for the child. I am scared that I will be the only one who will wake up in the night when my child cries, that I will be the only one who feeds this child, …