Brag that you are the other woman and you will incur the wrath of a long list of people including married women, divorced women, people from broken homes. They will all get in line ready to cut you!
If we lived in a fair world, The Other Woman would be highly revered for her constructive & positive contribution to a peaceful world.
Sadly, life is not fair and because some people have taken a very good thing and abused it, The Other Woman will forever be seen as the evil one.
If being everything a man wants in a woman was easy, a man wouldn’t be out with The Other Woman, doing things he …

Dentyne is launching a “Safe Breath” campaign in the US of A. At first, I scoffed at the idea, but then I realized that they are doing to public, and more importantly, couples, a huge service. In the video link below, Marlon Wayans implores a ubiquitous audience to practice safe breath every day.
safe breath
Nowhere is this more advisable than first thing in the morning.
Morning sex is tremendously enjoyable, but it comes with an even more tremendous risk – the risk of turning your partner off with waga (bad breath).
 I will raise my hand and play myself on the altar of sacrifice by sharing first-hand knowledge of the detrimental experience of bad breath.
Our family has been …

I turned 33 two days ago and spent the day with my friend [who happens to be a Doctor - her profession is very relevant to this post ] So Dr and I natter about everything. We have a lot in common. Especially when it comes to the subject of children. We are not overjoyed at the thought of having children. In a previous post I wrote about my fear of childbirth so I won’t go into that here but there have been some developments in my views on childbirth. I have decided that it would be ‘safer’ to have one child as an insurance policy against future regret. A few years ago …

Wow! In a few days time it will be Adventures’s 2nd anniversary and what an exciting two years this has been. I have had so many positive experiences with Adventures -  which has included meeting new people, growing more confident in my own sexuality and writing for the likes of Dust Magazine and Dream Weddings. Its been a wonderful 2 year journey and I thank all of you for being on this journey with us. I especially want to thank all our contributors – those I know and those who are complete strangers to me.  I want to thank you for your honesty, your openness and your generosity in sharing your stories without fear. I …

One of my friends totally cracked me up a few minutes ago. We have a pre-birthday dinner date arranged (I’ll be turning 33 in a few days time) and I texted him to re-schedule because another friend has decided to treat me to an overnight stay in a resort outside Accra. So of course he jumps to assumptions and sends me this text back:
“Hmmm. Weekend in x sounds like a Sugar Daddy to me…”
My response:
“Hahahaha. It’s not a Sugar Daddy kraa. I don’t have one o…”
His response:
“ Every beautiful young lady deserves at least one Sugar Daddy to run circles around. Soon it will no longer be an option, so enjoy before you are forced …

Ok d first girl i ever did was my ex boyfriends cousin….. She used to come to his house a lot to keep me company wenever I was at his place….. So there was dis period he installed a Jacuzzi, So after d guyz who brought it left, d both of us started strugglin for who’ll use it first, this girl is hot, very slim, tiny waist, big boobs n hips that r just right, I wasn’t really into her, matter of fact I wasn’t even into girls….. So in the end we ended up in d jacuzzi together. somhow we started talkin bout sex, then she asked if I’d ever been with a girl …

I spent a lot of time last week thinking about orgasms. Specifically I found myself thinking, ‘what does it take to have a “mind blowing orgasm”.
I love that phrase, “mind blowing orgasm”. It reminds me of a dear friend who one described sex between herself and a boyfriend as ‘mind blowing’. My mind was blown at that description. Wow! Sex could be mind-blowing? I guess I wasn’t having mind-blowing sex at that time…
So the question that I decided to ask one of my close friends last week was…’What conditions needs to be in place for you to have a mind-blowing orgasm?’ And her response was:

Talking dirty/spanking/porn
Sufficiently aroused (lubricated)
No pressure like I have to validate someone …

bits, 0, 1, 1, 0
and the click-clacking of keys
bytes, 1, 1, 0, 1
and the buckling of knees
… I sit blown to
bits by the you
that comes through in bits and
bytes… or bites
I’m not a fan of long distance relationships, but given my track record, you’d never guess – I was a card-carrying member of the ‘ball and looong chain brigade’ for many years. Monogamy is not in our nature as human beings and while it may be easier for some than for others, I think we can all at least agree that eyes (amongst other things) will sometimes stray. Throw in time differences, butt-stiffening bus rides, expensive plane tickets and a couple of TSA enhanced pat-downs, …

[The following is a fictional BBM conversation between two friends]
Ato: What are you up to?
Hawwa: Not much. You?
Ato: I’m bored, hungry and horny
Hawwa: Wow! That exact combo? Lol
Ato: Yep!
Hawwa: Talking of horny…
Ato: Yes?
Hawwa: My friend and I have been thinking about having a threesome…
Ato: Are you serious?
Hawwa: Yep!
Ato: Another woman or a guy?
Hawwa: Another woman…and I want you to be the guy
Ato: I’m so in! Pun totally intended J
Hawwa: Lol!
Ato: So who is the other chick? Is she hot? Have you done her before?
Hawwa: Yeah she’s totally hot
Ato: And…
Hawwa: Yes I’ve hooked up with her before
Ato: I didn’t know you were into girls
Hawwa: I didn’t know I was into girls until recently
Ato: Wow! So when …

Dear Readers, Commenters and Lurkers,
I apologise that I haven’t blogged in ages. I have been sooo busy and when I have a moment free no creative juices flow (please no puns about juices flowing )
This is an appeal to you (especially my African women readers) to send in guest contributions to adventuresfrom[at]gmail.com so our blog can remain exciting, relevant and a useful cyber learning space.
Wishing you loads of good sex!
Nana D