“Invite Mansa to that event you go to regularly,” said my friend Kojo to me via DM (direct message facility on twitter). She’s just moved back and wants to meet some new people. “Sure”, I responded. Ring, ring Nana: Hey how are you doing? Kojo says you’re interested in coming along to x event. Mansa: Is that what he said? I told him I want to meet someone to marry, and he advised me to come to x event with …