Here’s the thing: polar hierarchies in sex don’t interest me. At all. I find nothing remotely desirable about being dominated or dominating someone else, mimicking rape or coercion, being hit or whipped. It’s not because I am boring, vanilla, or that I don’t get the politics of consent and why BDSM “isn’t violence”. (My) truth is, it mimics the violence around us and I am not convinced that by simply mirroring what we don’t like, we subvert it and take …
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I had nothing against Mathematics, and had done pretty well in secondary school. For some reason, combining Mathematics and words in this subject called Accounts was proving to be a nightmare. I always sat at the …
I have always loved sex, apart from an unfortunate first time incident, and vowed to always have satisfying sex; I have been known to hop off a dick halfway through if the man’s moves were not …