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Adventures From the Bedrooms of African Women

Adventures From the Bedrooms of African Women.

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‘How shall I break up with my buddy’ asks Guest Contributor ThatGirlQ

In General IssuesPublish DateMarch 2, 20164 Comments Guest

He was supposed to be a palette cleanser after a short relationship that went horribly wrong. I’d never been in a FwB situation in my 35 years and this fellow had been pursuing me for just that for a number of years and my response had always been “No!” The man is rather good looking, great physique, a fantastic kisser, and it felt to me like he was packing the ideal equipment for the job … yeah, I’d tested that part …

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Relationships and Exes

Relationships and Exes

In General IssuesPublish DateNovember 2, 20158 Comments Nana Darkoa

In the past 8 or so years I have dated 3 people. In thinking about what sentence to write next I realize that most of these relationships were long distance ones. A and I were in …

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Guest Contributor Voluptous Voltarian: Where Do Broken Beds Go When They Can’t Find Their Way Home?

Guest Contributor Voluptous Voltarian: Where Do Broken Beds Go When They Can’t Find Their Way Home?

In HeterosexualPublish DateAugust 3, 201215 Comments Guest

My boyfriend and I have broken up. We broke my bed before we broke up. So now every time I sleep on it, and turn on my side in a particular direction, I get this vocal …

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How Not To Fall in Love with Your Shag Buddy

How Not To Fall in Love with Your Shag Buddy

In General IssuesPublish DateJune 6, 201029 Comments Nana Darkoa

A friend cracked me up some time ago when she said to me, ‘Nana I don’t want to fall in love with X. Tell me what to do’. Yes, falling in love with the man you’re …

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Guest Contributor Ms A: Can a ‘buddy’ be just that?

Guest Contributor Ms A: Can a ‘buddy’ be just that?

In RelationshipsPublish DateJuly 28, 20098 Comments Nana Darkoa

Lately I’ve been experiencing miscommunication. My mind and my body are tuned into different channels. I’ve made up my mind that I do not want a relationship. I’ve just left one. It’s been painful and heartbreaking, …

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Adventures From The Bedrooms Of African Women Adventures from the Bedrooms of African Women began as a popular blog for African women to speak openly about their sex lives. The podcast, hosted by Ghanaian founders Nana Darkoa Sekyiamah and Malaka Grant, carries on in this tradition, exploring African women’s experiences of sex, sexuality and pleasure.

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