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Adventures From the Bedrooms of African Women

Adventures From the Bedrooms of African Women.

Tag: celibacy

You will remain single forever

In AbstinencePublish DateJune 20, 20251 Comment Guest

Written by T.O. When I decided to become celibate, it was simply because my PCOS had been driving me crazy in my relationship at the time. I had just been diagnosed, and I would have crazy symptoms accompanied by intermittent bleeding episodes that showed up like bad weather with no warning. And when my period finally came, she would take her precious time and could sometimes last as long as three months.  Imagine trying to be intimate or sexual with …

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Secondary Virginity

Secondary Virginity

In Abstinence, General IssuesPublish DateMay 5, 201332 Comments Ekuba

  When I woke up this morning, I knew that I was going to give celibacy another try. That’s how I make all my major decisions you know- I mull over it for weeks, months even. …

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The Reluctant Celibate

The Reluctant Celibate

In AbstinencePublish DateJune 25, 20095 Comments Nana Darkoa

I am no fan of abstinence although I completely understand the reasons why so many of my sisters (yes I am excluding the brothers) strive to abstain from sex. I have heard the arguments in favour …

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Guest Contributor Ms A on Celibacy, Temptation and Sex

Guest Contributor Ms A on Celibacy, Temptation and Sex

In AbstinencePublish DateMay 14, 20097 Comments Nana Darkoa

It’s been four months, one week and two days. I’ve been craving, having vivid dreams, praying, begging God to make the months move a little faster. God, has it only been four months, one week and …

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Adventures From The Bedrooms Of African Women Adventures from the Bedrooms of African Women began as a popular blog for African women to speak openly about their sex lives. The podcast, hosted by Ghanaian founders Nana Darkoa Sekyiamah and Malaka Grant, carries on in this tradition, exploring African women’s experiences of sex, sexuality and pleasure.

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    Just seeing this two years later! Damn, I'm good! ?

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