A friend cracked me up some time ago when she said to me, ‘Nana I don’t want to fall in love with X. Tell me what to do’. Yes, falling in love with the man you’re shagging is a bad idea. A very bad idea, especially when the relationship revolves purely or mainly around sex. Quite a few women I have spoken to tell me that the longer they sleep with someone, the more they begin to connect with them …