On Thursday afternoon you have a get together with old friends from boarding school. Girls to women, you’ve grown. They’re at your apartment. You tried to catch up. It’s been at least 4 years since you’ve met either one though you still send the occasional message on WhatsApp. As has been the case lately, conversations turn to relationships; they envy you your independence but not so much the work and lonely lifestyle required to maintain it, ensure that you can …