It’s been four years since I was diagnosed HIV positive. Everything came to a standstill, I felt lost , hurt and angry. He had cheated on me over and over again, but I chose to turn a blind eye, after all. I wanted marriage, children and cultural respect. Yes, I wanted to experience that ululation of being welcomed as a muroora (daughter in law) ,I wanted my people to receive that sacred cow, (mombe yechimanda) which showed that I …