I’m not convinced that monogamy works – at least not for me. In my primary relationships there’s always been a point where I’ve felt like, ‘oh my god, I need to sleep with someone else’. And this desire to sleep with someone else has had nothing to do with whichever relationship I was in. I could have felt loved, been having amazing sex, but a year, two, or three down the line I inevitably miss the excitement of sleeping with …