I really need your advice. I've been seeing this guy for 6months now, he's cute, nice , caring, and very generous. The main problem is the sex is so crappy, sometimes I end up crying. We have foreplay and as soon as his penis goes in he goes flaccid within 2mins. This happens all the time. Even when he manages to stay hard he never comes. In the 6 months I have been with him he has never come. I'm confused as I believe I will cheat on him ...  [Read more]

Recently, one of our readers (Naa) mentioned in a comment that she has been enduring what I consider a HORRIBLE ordeal for the last 11 years. Her husband, who I assume she has been committed and faithful to (she didn't indicate that she has cheated on him), performs very poorly in the sack. Specifically, he is prone to premature ejaculation and has been for the duration of their marriage. Now, what one person deems as "premature" ejaculation ...  [Read more]

Now what in the world does banku have to do with anybody's bedroom? Only two things: It takes time to finish and there is generally a sense of satisfaction once you're done "chopping".  I don't have to time to be witty or clever this morning, so I'll just get straight to the point. This post is about premature ejaculation. There is not a man on the planet that is consistent every time he hits the sack. Like any athlete, he may have his ...  [Read more]