In January 2009, Malaka and I began blogging about sex and sexualities. For me the inspiration had been going on a girls holiday with a group of women from different African countries, and having the most open, non judgemental conversations about sex that I had ever had (at the time). I knew that I wanted to continue talking to other African women about sex, and when I rang Malaka up and told her about my eureka idea, she told me …