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	<title>Adventures from the bedrooms of African women &#187; sex as a tool</title>
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	<description>We think there is a serious lack of relevant and useful information about the sexuality of African women. This blog is a space for African women to share tips, experiences and more...</description>
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		<title>Why do people use sex as a tool in marriage?</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 19 Nov 2009 16:04:42 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Nana Darkoa</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Last Saturday I was invited to be a guest commentator on Joy Fm’s “Home Affairs” programme, hosted by Araba Koomson. The topic was “why do people use sex as a tool in marriage?”
One of my opening gambits was that for the majority of women, sex is not enjoyable; research such as that documented in the Shere Hite Report has indicated that 70% of women generally do not orgasm during sex. If you follow that logic this means a lot of women are having sex purely to please their husbands/partners/lovers so if for any reason your husband/partner/lover upsets you then your reaction is “No sex, until you have done x, y, or z”. If women were ...]]></description>
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