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Adventures From the Bedrooms of African Women

Adventures From the Bedrooms of African Women.

Tag: vibrators

Sex Toys: A Journey To Self-Pleasure, Intimacy and Sex

In General Issues, Sex Education, SexualityPublish DateJune 15, 2022Leave a comment Kgothatso Motshele

I was in my first year of university when I owned my first toy. I was always that girl everyone knew to be sex-positive, open and free about sexual health and pleasure. So when a classmate felt ashamed that her friends bought her a vibrator for her birthday, I was the first person she thought to give it to. And of course, I put it to good use! I had been sexually active for two or three years by then …

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Shopping for Sex Toys

Shopping for Sex Toys

In General IssuesPublish DateMay 6, 20094 Comments Nana Darkoa

We walk into “The Love Shack” and we’re welcomed by a be-tattoed “biker looking” woman who wants to know if there is anything in particular we’re looking for. I am with my co-contributor on this blog …

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Things your vibrator will/can never do for/to you

Things your vibrator will/can never do for/to you

In General IssuesPublish DateMay 1, 200910 Comments Malaka

Vibrators (or toys in general) and their use seem to be quite the hot topic on this blog! One viewer’s reaction to my pondering on how my husband would feel if I bought one really struck …

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To Vibrate or not to Vibrate: The merits of Mechanical versus Manual Stimulation

To Vibrate or not to Vibrate: The merits of Mechanical versus Manual Stimulation

In General IssuesPublish DateApril 19, 20097 Comments Nana Darkoa

Shane asked on a post some weeks ago if I could write a post on the merits of Mechanical versus Manual Stimulation so here goes… For me pleasurable sex is all about my clit. Seriously, you …

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Adventures From The Bedrooms Of African Women Adventures from the Bedrooms of African Women began as a popular blog for African women to speak openly about their sex lives. The podcast, hosted by Ghanaian founders Nana Darkoa Sekyiamah and Malaka Grant, carries on in this tradition, exploring African women’s experiences of sex, sexuality and pleasure.

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