Brag that you are the other woman and you will incur the wrath of a long list of people including married women, divorced women, people from broken homes. They will all get in line ready to cut you!
If we lived in a fair world, The Other Woman would be highly revered for her constructive & positive contribution to a peaceful world.
Sadly, life is not fair and because some people have taken a very good thing and abused it, The Other Woman will forever be seen as the evil one.
If being everything a man wants in a woman was easy, a man wouldn’t be out with The Other Woman, doing things he should otherwise be doing with The Woman.
A lot of stress comes with taking a relationship into exclusive status. That stage where you are each other’s rock. Things you previously did with 6 other close friends, you now do with just one person because you are supposed to have that tight partnership. That is a lot for one person to bear long term. One might need a breather every now and then.
As humans, we favor those who please us more.
We do not hesitate when called upon by someone that brings us joy.
We often tend to give freely, without over-thinking it, to those we know give more to us.
Wonder why The Woman is at home on saturday evening and The Other Woman is at the jazz concert with The Man?
Still wondering why The Other Woman gets flowers more often?
Watch The Man & The Woman meet after being apart for 2 days. Gentle kisses on the lips.
Watch The Man & The Other Woman kiss after being apart for 2 hours. You’d think it were the wheels of a loaded 777 kissing the tarmac on landing. High octane passion!
Oh yes, The Woman & The Man used to be that way once upon a time. Somewhere along the line, that passion disappeared.
That’s when The Other Woman was brought into the picture. The Man usually hangs around waiting for The Woman to bring the passion back. That heat.
He knows he’s still got it because it shows when he is with The Other Woman.
In his mind, until she brings it back, he’s keeping his flame alive with The Other Woman’s help. A heck of a job she has “in” her hands.
I would be wrong comparing The Other Woman to The Woman. Difficult not to, but I will try & desist from doing so.
The Woman is the entire package. She is everything The Man wants and needs. They are together because they had zero doubt at one point in time that they are the ideal life partner for each other.
The Other Woman however, is what The Woman used to be. She is in the mix, doing all the things The Woman used to do. She lights that fire in The Man that The Woman is fully capable of lighting but doesn’t anymore.
Those things that for some reason, are now a distant memory.
The very frequent spontaneous scandalous rendezvous. The thrilling capers. The stress-free hours together.
Thank you, The Other Woman! for creating harmony is numerous homes. You are there for The Man so he doesnt go home & through life cranky and depressed anymore. He goes about with the smile you put on his face and everyone is happy Well, except the one that knows she didn’t put that smile on his face. Just gwaaan! Enjoy the ride. It might be a short one. It could be end up being a long one too.
Hold tight Woman, hold tight.
When you suspect The Man is having an affair, he probably is. He is not thinking of leaving you though. You have everything he needs. For now, The Other Woman has something he wants. You have time to handle the situation. Do some failure analysis and figure out what set him on the path he’s on. That is what you address and correct.
Let it linger, and they will start catching feelings for each other.
You dont want that to happen. You chose each other for all the right reasons, and you are the smarter one.