He was supposed to be a palette cleanser after a short relationship that went horribly wrong. I’d never been in a FwB situation in my 35 years and this fellow had been pursuing me for just that for a number of years and my response had always been “No!” The man is rather good looking, great physique, a fantastic kisser, and it felt to me like he was packing the ideal equipment for the job … yeah, I’d tested that part of things during a make-out session long ago, so I decided that if I was to do this Friends with Benefits thing, then this would be the perfect guy!
How is the sex you ask? Boring! Seriously! It’s unimaginable. I think the myth that good looking guys are horrible in bed is actually true. They turn up and imagine that’s all they need to do! I’ve spoken up about my needs and adjustments have been made but still … I thought that this type of illicit sex would be panty soaking exciting. I don’t even know why he keeps coming for more since he has no problem in the ladies department. Is sex just sex wherever/however it can be found?
Frankly I can’t take it anymore so my question is, how do I get out of this without ruining a friendship (he is an interesting individual outside this situation) Is it possible?
How should I do it? Have a conversation, continuously decline his invites until he gets the hint, ghost?
If I have the conversation should it be in person, before or after a hook-up, facts or general statements?
Help me out guys … what/how would you prefer to be broken up with in a non-relationship
I could possibly be overthinking this but FwB etiquette is something I have no idea about.