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Published on: 08 September 2014 by in General Issues
Desire: Questions and Answers

One of my friends is a PhD student in a Canadian university and she shared on social media recently some questions that one of her Professors had posed in a recent class. I loved the questions and decided to answer them for myself. Why don’t you do the same in the comments box below? What is desire? Desire is a feeling. It’s what attracts me towards another person. It’s a want. How is desire formed? I don’t ... 

Published on: 07 September 2014 by in Fiction

Dinner was quiet and uncomfortable that night. If it weren’t for the random fits of laughter the twins erupted in. Kodjo set the last two steaks on the table and speared the thickest one and watched with amusement as his two sons squabbled over who would eat the last one. Diane sipped her sweet tea pensively while Khadijah avoided her father’s gaze. Kodjo sawed his meat into cubes and asked his question around the ... 

Published on: 20 August 2014 by in Fiction

Diane held Dijah in a soft embrace and rocked her gently. Her daughter’s contented sigh reminded her of the day she had come from school in tears after being taunted on the playground. All she had wanted was her momma. That was so long ago. It had been ages – years - since Dijah had allowed herself to be vulnerable in Diane’s presence. Somewhere along the way, Kodjo had swooped in and become her hero; her go-to guy. But ... 

Published on: 16 August 2014 by in Fiction

If only there was an algorithm for enjoying the benefits of privilege. It wasn’t that Diane was ungrateful for the wealth and comfort married life to Kodjo had brought her these last 20 years – it was that it didn’t satisfy her. The Adofo clan was blessed; there was no questioning that. They had never known a day of lack. Kodjo provided for the family well. And if she had to choose between the scratching-to-survive life ... 

Published on: 15 August 2014 by in Creative Non Fiction
“God Must Be a Man’ by Guest Contributor Ingrid

She took the long way home. She knew she needed to clear her head and that once she arrived at home all semblance of privacy was out the door. She lived in a one bedroom apartment with her mother and two sisters. As she walked she pondered her predicament. She had always said that God had to be a man because why else would women have to be the ones to bear the burden of having children? Why else would women’s so called ... 

Published on: 12 August 2014 by in Fiction
Koti and Konkonsa Pt II

The scent of bacon grease hung in the air. Diane cracked her eyes open and looked to her right. Kodjo’s side of the bed was unrumpled. Either he had gotten up and folded his sheets over early that morning or he hadn’t slept in the bed at all that night. Diane guessed the latter. Whenever he was feeling particularly distressed about one thing or another, he often slept on the couch. After her manic self-loving display ... 

Published on: 08 August 2014 by in Fiction
Koti and Kokonsa

Diane’s jaw was beginning to fatigue. She had been sucking on Kodjo’s cock for 15 minutes with no progress. He was still as limp as the plate of overcooked asparagus she’d served him that evening. How had she managed to ruin that recipe? She had followed the recipe quite precisely. A little less water might be in order, and more heat. Yes...that would do the trick. No. She had to focus. Kodjo had insisted that he ... 

Published on: 03 August 2014 by in Creative Non Fiction

“You are solid,” he said as he patted my thighs. I smiled and asked if this was a bad thing. I don’t recall his answer. I’ve gained 45 pounds over the past 7 years since I first visited this island in 2007. For those who knew me when I weighed 120lbs, this is a lot. I’ve crossed over from wearing 2s and 4s to 8s. I’ve heard that the only people that matter in this case are me, myself, and I. If I am happy and ok ... 

Published on: 01 August 2014 by in General Issues
‘The Complications of Being A Shrewd Virgin’ by Guest Contributor Eleanor T.K

Certain words flow in vein with the term virgin; naïve, unadulterated, pure, immature, wet-behind-the-ears etc. None of these words would appropriately describe me. I don’t need to be told not to drink in the company of a guy I don’t trust completely, I am not naïve. The unadulterated girl would not have watched her cousins XXL videos in the dark on her cousins’ laptop then wiped previous play history. The pure one, ... 

Hi gang!   What is up with everyone on this fine, fine day?  The air seems cleaner, it's bright and warm and everyone smiles when you meet their eyes on the street. Is it summer? No. It's Global Orgasm Day today! Hurray!   To celebrate, I was going to do a very hot, steamy, short story but I changed my mind. Short stories do nothing for me as a writer. The majority of you guys read them and go away ... 

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