We think there is a serious lack of relevant and useful information about the sexuality of African women. This blog is a space for African women to share tips, experiences and more...
Finding the prostrate Gland?

Yesterday this Italian Ni**ga was telling me how he spent a lot of money on designer jeans and shoes because I made a comment about how his jeans and sneakers looked ruggedly. Why can’t men get it into their heads that putting money in a woman’s pocket or wardrobe will score you more points than […]

Published on: 06 July 2015 by in Erotica, Fiction
An Ode to Aunty Nana by Guest Contributor Spiritual

It has been a hectic day as usual for you. A lot of deadlines to be met. The stress is taking its toll on you. But I have the perfect remedy for you Cunnilingus Gently I pull your tired body out of your clothes. I start at your neck and work my way down your body […]

Published on: 03 July 2015 by in Creative Non Fiction, Erotica

“It’s NOT a relationship, we don’t relate. WE FUCK. Call it a fuckship if you want.” Marissa said as she tipped the glass to her lips and took a sip. “Girl, that’s a relation-ship, a fuck-ship… It’s a ship, I have no idea where its headed but Honey, you are in it.” Akisha said, and […]

Published on: 02 July 2015 by in Erotica, Lesbian
Peek-a-boo: The pull of watching others have sex by Guest Contributor Kagure Mugo

  Voyeurism (n.) the practice of obtaining sexual gratification by looking at sexual objects of acts, especially secretively. Being a grown up means you learn things about the world and over the last few years I have learned a few things I am (and am not) into. I have always been into cream, whipped and […]

Published on: 30 June 2015 by in Relationships
‘New Lover’ on Agelessness – A Response to Nana Darkoa

( This is in response to Nana Darkoa ‘s previous post) I appreciate your honesty. I really do. Today, I was thinking about agelessness. About midday. You must have been above the clouds at the time. But my thoughts are not pragmatic. I exist in a place where there are no relatives, no society, just I. […]

Published on: 29 June 2015 by in Relationships
Letter to my new lover

I hear what you are trying to express to me…even though you say it cannot be expressed in text or voice notes, except in actions and in person. I have known you for only a short time yet I have a huge amount of admiration for you. For your vision, passion, and commitment. I feel […]

Published on: 26 June 2015 by in Creative Non Fiction
Loveless Love by Guest Contributor OT_Ug

I can’t point to one specific moment and claim that everything started then. Maybe if I tell you, it will be easy for both of us to find the exact moment. Maybe it does not matter. There was the day she told me that she cheated on me with someone else. There was the day […]

Published on: 21 June 2015 by in Erotica, Fiction, General Issues, Heterosexual, Relationships
All I Want by Guest Contributor Spiritual

He  stepped into the room; she stood there in a short, black silk dress that clung to her like a suggestion, accentuating every captivating curve. He stood for a moment and simply watched her, taking in her stunning beauty. The thin straps of her dress had already fallen from her delicate shoulders, leaving them bare… […]

Published on: 20 June 2015 by in Abstinence, Fiction, General Issues, Heterosexual, Relationships
How Do I? by Guest Contributor UgandanChic

“…that’s why I can’t date a girl who doesn’t blow.” I looked up from my phone, I had zoned out as soon as we had said ‘hullo’ and gotten lost on my twitter. This was the fourth official date Ben and I had been on and the second time our friends had all met in […]

Published on: 14 June 2015 by in General Issues
Twitter chat: 5pm GMT today on ‘Dating/Sleeping with Younger Men’

I don’t know why the good people behind #AdultSexEd and #SexTalkNaija asked me to lead a twitter chat today on dating/sleeping with younger men. *scratches head*. Okay, okay, I confess I have some expertise on the subject 😛 So yes, I am here to ask you all to join me on Twitter at 5pm GMT […]

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