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Published on: 21 January 2018 by in Fiction, Lesbian
‘The Dominatrix’ by Guest Contributor Enyonyoozi

I had nothing against Mathematics, and had done pretty well in secondary school. For some reason, combining Mathematics and words in this subject called Accounts was proving to be a nightmare. I always sat at the front, watching the lecturer’s every movement, taking notes furiously. I could not risk missing a single entry, because the […]

Published on: 01 January 2018 by in General Issues
Visual Prompt: Body Goals

I don’t have a particularly fat ass and my tits are small. I don’t fill out a bathing suit without the aid of padding. On a good day, I might be able to fill out a B cup. Those good days are usually accompanied with bloating and cramps, but I relish the discomfort. For six […]

Published on: 29 December 2017 by in Lesbian

(Read part 1 of Letters to the woman I loved)   29 December 2016   Hello stranger, How are you? I think about you often, but not as often as before. This is a good thing for both of us, I’m sure you’ll agree. You look so beautiful in the photos you share. They make […]

Published on: 25 December 2017 by in Fiction
Visual Prompt: Self-Control

I looked around the kitchen and surveyed my handiwork. The onions were finely minced. The pepper ground into a smooth, ochre paste. The flowers on the dining room table had plenty of water in that expensive crystal vase that Ma only brought out during the holidays or when ‘important’ guests were over to visit. There […]

Published on: 24 December 2017 by in Lesbian

For reasons, reason knows nothing of I have taken a strong liking to you. I swoon over you with reckless abandon. Hypnotic thoughts of you are a torment. Your friends, your family, Your hobbies, your sexual prowess, Ravaging kisses that rush lust though me, Oh my! My mind does ponder upon a lot. Tell me […]

Published on: 22 December 2017 by in Lesbian
‘Letters to the woman I loved’ by Guest Contributor Omo Osun

1. 25 September 2016 Dear K., I made many mistakes with you, I realise that now. Chief of them was assuming that you were exactly like me, just because you were happy to leave with me that night, because music moves you the same way it moves me, because you decided after all that it […]

Published on: 19 December 2017 by in Creative Non Fiction
Visual Prompt: The Situation is All Tied Up

Hey there, Adventurers! You’ve been wondering all week what we’ve had up our sleeves, and your patience has been rewarded. See? Good things DO come to those who wait. 😉 The next stop on our sexy, visual odyssey features kinks and knots. We’re going full rodeo here and you can be the cowgirl, reverse and […]

Published on: 13 December 2017 by in General Issues
‘Sexy African Visuals’ by Adventures from the Bedrooms of African Women & HOLAA!

Over the past few months, Malaka, I and our friends at HOLAA! have been working with a talented artist (spoiler: my partner) to create an amazing set of illustrations depicting African women’s diverse sexualities. We are so excited to share this with the world, and I for one am super excited that we can stop […]

Published on: 10 December 2017 by in Creative Non Fiction
What kind of porn do you watch? By guest contributor Proudly Ugandan

I am sexually sad. I have watched so much porn recently that at one point I genuinely contemplated the idea that someone had bewitched me. I had my suspicions too. Not too long ago an angry young woman found some correspondence between myself and her boyfriend about an AirBnB arrangement. She contacted me of course. […]

Published on: 03 December 2017 by in Lesbian
‘That night!’ by Guest Contributor Mama Mkenya

I was deep in thought wondering how the people in this village in Ndaragwa, Nyahururu felt about having a castle rudely thrust onto them by their wealthy neighbour, when I saw her walk towards me. “May I join you for your walk”, she asks.  And I know it’s happening today. I don’t know exactly what […]