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Published on: 27 April 2017 by in Creative Non Fiction
‘A Married Man’s Penis Between My Lips’ by Guest Contributor Proudly Ugandan

I had made up my mind to add some structure to my life. I would wake up at 5.30 every morning, do squats and thigh firming routines for half an hour. I would then spend another hour writing the book I have been chipping away at for the last year. I would also drink more […]

Published on: 21 April 2017 by in General Issues
Even The Very Suggestion That My Pussy Might Not Be Wet Is Offensive

I have very excitable children; four of them. And last night, after watching Hair Spray for the fifth time, my very excitable son dashed towards the kitchen when “dinner!” was yelled. Unfortunately, he didn’t make it that far. He smacked headfirst (I assume) into the giant blue yoga ball that the kids left in the […]

Published on: 07 April 2017 by in Heterosexual
‘Love in public spaces’ by Guest Contributor Wolverine

I grew up knowing public affection as holding hands, short hugs and then later pecks on the cheek. And when in a high density location or a rural area, these are things the general public do not expect to see. It makes the community question your morals, your background and it is far worse for […]

Published on: 02 April 2017 by in Heterosexual
‘Forbidden fruit’ by Guest Contributor Indo-Afrikan Queen

It’s a little corny and predictable. The thought of crushing on the most enigmatic man at work.  But I can’t help it.  It’s been a month now of intense one-sided chemistry – butterflies around him, and flashes of his face popping into my head at odd hours. See, this is the thing. I am in […]

Published on: 27 March 2017 by in Creative Non Fiction
‘My vagina is letting me down’ by Guest Contributor Proudly Ugandan

“Is my vagina wide?” “What?” I had to change tactics. “On a scale of wide, average and tight; how would you rate my vagina?” This was seconds after he had orgasmed in his palm. We had both taken E. My only drug of choice and one that he sometimes indulged in (often preferring the more […]

Published on: 13 March 2017 by in Heterosexual
‘Loving Him’ by Guest Contributor Grace

He looked up at me – ohhhhhhh my – those sexy eyes, the most angelic and dazzling smile I had ever seen on any face. He was tall, muscular and with features well designed like his body had been sculptured by some higher power unbeknown to me. I asked him for his name and he […]

Published on: 07 March 2017 by in Creative Non Fiction
‘Bebe Can I Get Your Nomba?’ by Guest Contributor VV

Okay, chale here’s the situation. I’ve been sexually active for 10 years now. With the exception of that unsuccessful attempt at anal, where it felt like I was having a stroke, I’ve tried almost everything there is to try. My mother jokes that I have so many miles on my vagina that if they tried […]

Published on: 02 March 2017 by in Creative Non Fiction
‘A Thousand Needles’ by Guest Contributor Nikitta

Most women in the world at some point in their lives have to deal with some kind of sexual and reproductive health issue. Yet, there is not a lot of awareness on the realities of how these issues affect the myriad aspects of a woman’s life.   The film ‘A Thousand Needles’ is set to […]

Published on: 01 March 2017 by in Creative Non Fiction
‘Curious Minds’ by Guest Contributor Under My Skin

His lips lightly brushed mine and I felt the chemistry that had been brewing between us simmer and yet with forced hesitation I pulled away. That was the first time he had ever tried to kiss me although he’d been chasing me for 4months prior to that night. I wanted him. I liked that he […]

Published on: 27 February 2017 by in General Issues
‘Things I wish my period would say to me every month’ by Guest Contributor reps from Curvy Fit Antigua

Last November I joined the Curvy Fit Antigua wellness group led by my good friend and forever bae Amina Doherty . Although the group was initially aimed at fostering wellness amongst women of all sizes in Antigua, myself and a couple of other sisters signed up to be virtual members of the group. And it has […]