We think there is a serious lack of relevant and useful information about the sexuality of African women. This blog is a space for African women to share tips, experiences and more...
Published on: 12 September 2017 by in General Issues
‘Benevolent patriarchy or why I will never return to Badu Lounge’ by Guest Contributor Ms Afrakomah

This past August, on a cool post-rain Saturday night, I made my way towards Labone for a date night with a new guy. I had met him through the creative circles in Accra and was really excited to get dressed up with my newly installed honey brown Fulani braids, and floral print short halter top […]

Published on: 05 September 2017 by in General Issues
#FutureAfricaSex: Sexbots and SexEd by Guest Contributor Saffron & Lace

I was excited to read on the website that Adventuresfrom was hosting a twitter chat about the future of African Sex – the possibilities of the conversation were boundless. I was unable to join the conversation at the time it occurred but I caught up with the conversation later on Twitter and on the website. […]

Published on: 27 August 2017 by in General Issues
Reproductive health: What’s the worst thing your Dr or healer said to you?

Recently I went to see an alternative Dr. This is a man I have seen previously, and so I decided to return to him as part of my quest to get my body healthy, and particularly because I am looking to start the baby making process. So as we chatted about the reason why I […]

Published on: 21 August 2017 by in General Issues

Okay Adventurers, which of you like music? Raise your hands. Thought so. There’s a whole post from years and years ago to support this. I love music. Always have, always will and I’ve always believed that music can be an integral part of any sex session. It can set the mood, it can say lovey-dovey […]

Published on: 07 August 2017 by in Random
Future Africa (Anal) Sex

“You do know you’re going to have to give up that anal one day.” This question was presented more as a statement of fact, rather than a query posed in earnest. The woman to whom the interrogation was put sat motionless; her lips rounded in a silent scream, her eyes glassy and rounded like the […]

Published on: 06 August 2017 by in General Issues
Catch up on some of the #FutureAfricaSex tweets

Did you miss our Twitter chat last Friday on #FutureAfricaSex? Catch up here on some of the moments… #AfricaFutureSex Thanks to @HOLAAfricafor co-organising this. Let’s keep the conversation going. Share your thoughts on what the future of Africa holds where sexual rights, bodily integrity and health/reproductive rights are concerned. Remember to tag your tweets with […]

Published on: 04 August 2017 by in General Issues
How Can You Be A Pastor’s Wife and Still Write Erotica?

“You are a pastor’s wife. How do you reconcile that with the sort of material you blog about?” It might amaze you frequently I am asked this question; or then again, it probably does not. The idea of the model Christian woman – a woman who is betrothed to the frock, particularly – is that […]

Published on: 30 July 2017 by in General Issues
Coitus and conversation: Join our Twitter chat

“What is the future of sex? Perhaps you’re seeing visions of artificial intelligence, vibrators that steal your data, four-square based fornication. Or something like deleted R-rated scenes of I, Robot, the dystopian Hollywood film starring Will Smith, with highly intelligent robots conspiring to enslave the human race? The digital realm is monopolising how we see […]

Published on: 29 July 2017 by in General Issues
Join our #FutureAfricaSex chat on Twitter

What does the future hold for Africa where sex, sexuality and bodily integrity are concerned? Will we be having pleasurable sex assisted by robots? Will we have left behind the world of homophobia and slut shaming? What will our future sexual selves look like? The time to chat about #FutureAfricaSex is now. Join us, and […]

Published on: 23 July 2017 by in Relationships

The sun had just come up,  its rays filtering through the latticework of our bedroom window, settling on the face of the man I’ve been married to for eleven years now. I watched him through eyes slit just a hair, steadying my breathing as I feigned sleep. He was watching me and I didn’t want […]