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Published on: 17 October 2014 by in Lesbian

It was night, and the fan was whirring loudly against the sound of insects outside my window. I groaned and rolled in my bed, pressing my hand between my thighs. My night dress was pushed up to my hips, and I was horny as hell. Abena was in town. That's all I could think about. She was in town, and I wasn't fucking her. Sure, her flight had just arrived an hour ago, and she would be spending the night at her mother's house. ... 

Published on: 13 October 2014 by in General Issues
How to Measure A Man’s Dick Before Committing Yourself

  There’s a popular saying that goes: ’Women say they love the little things in life till you hand them a small penis’’ Hahaha Have you ever met a man and fallen head over heels, gone through the chat and the tickles and the sweet nothings and ended up falling so in love with him and then on the day the relationship finally gets intimate, the size of his dick simply breaks your heart so bad you do not ever ... 

Published on: 13 October 2014 by in Fiction
Ping, ping: Micro-fiction

  Ping, ping.   Hey you. Gr8 meeting 2day. Wish we coulda gone on to somewhere less noisy.  Thinking of ur lips, kiss. Shouldn't have said lips. Makn me hard just thinking bout u. Aching for u. Loved sucking ur cock. Kinda hoped you'd suck me off too but it's cool. Def should meet up like you said. Want a repeat! Somewhere quiet. Wanna see my dick? :) That 7 inches of pre-cuming ... 

Published on: 03 October 2014 by in Relationships
What Lengths Would You Go To To Please Your Man?

Perhaps this is a question for the Forums, however here we are! At the end of this, I would really like some advice for our sister from the Collective. Leave your comments o, abeg! I recently had an Adventurer ask me for advice about how to improve her sex life. She said she didn’t know who else to turn to. I was flattered that a 24 year old singleton would ask me anything about sex sensuality at all. After all, isn’t ... 

Published on: 01 October 2014 by in General Issues
‘The Mouth is For Eating’ by Guest Contributor Okwevulgar

Every heterosexual man should love to eat pussy, even His Excellency Yoweri Kaguta Museveni, though nobody wants that image in their head, so I apologise and promise never to bring it up again. Every heterosexual man should love to eat pussy. Not all of you do, unfortunately, perhaps because you grew up being told that girls are dirty, or in very religious household, or both (probably both). Maybe you are inexperienced and ... 

Published on: 30 September 2014 by in Creative Non Fiction
‘The Perfect Night’ by Guest Contributor Grace

I had been toying with the idea of inviting Mudiwa on one of my many business trips but I was so scared. The fear emanated from a deep sense of knowing that I wanted him so badly but was not sure whether it would be a worthwhile risk or one of those “damn I wasted my time and it gets awkward” kind of moments. So one day as we were doing our usual back and forth chatting I asked him to come through so we could travel ... 

Published on: 30 September 2014 by in Creative Non Fiction
‘This cougar life’

Have you ever been called a cougar? How do you feel about it? I shared my thoughts on this over on the This is Africa site "...Recently, as I was walking toward one of my friends at an arts festival, another guy said in reference to me, “She looks like a cougar. Is she one?” I wonder what gave him that impression. Was it my slightly too short denim skirt? Or was it a certain ‘je ne sais quoi’? The word cougar in ... 

Published on: 30 September 2014 by in Fiction
‘Rated X’ by Guest Contributor Pamela

Anne stood staring at the view from she and her husband's room, with a contented smile on her face. It had been a good year. Apparently married life agreed with her much more than she had thought. It wasn't boring or dull or tedious. And just last week she had caught herself at work smiling just at the thought of coming home. She was growing soft, she chuckled softly. “Why are we laughing babe?” Myron slipped his left ... 

Published on: 26 September 2014 by in Creative Non Fiction
Sleeping Dicks Lie.

My first taste of dick was salty. It was my cousin’s friend and I was in a hurry. I had told my cousin I needed to use the toilet and he was waiting for me in the car, just outside the gates. I am not sure what made me attempt to suck my first dick under these conditions – call it naivety – but the minute that dick slipped into my mouth I knew I had bitten off more than I could chew, so to speak. He was a big ... 

Published on: 08 September 2014 by in General Issues
Desire: Questions and Answers

One of my friends is a PhD student in a Canadian university and she shared on social media recently some questions that one of her Professors had posed in a recent class. I loved the questions and decided to answer them for myself. Why don’t you do the same in the comments box below? What is desire? Desire is a feeling. It’s what attracts me towards another person. It’s a want. How is desire formed? I don’t ... 

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