We think there is a serious lack of relevant and useful information about the sexuality of African women. This blog is a space for African women to share tips, experiences and more...
Published on: 10 February 2017 by in Creative Non Fiction
Catching my ‘squirt’ by Cosmic Yoruba

Do you remember your first orgasm? What emotions did you feel? Mine was fear but I’m getting ahead of myself here. I was recently reminded of my very first orgasm and I’d like to share two stories. I started masturbating in my late teens, while I was at university. I can be a very technical […]

Published on: 02 February 2017 by in General Issues
The #LoveFest

Hey Adventurers, Super excited to invite you all to this #LoveFest event I am organising with my friends from the Love Mic, Drama Queens and so many of my fav talented poets, writers and songstress including Jessica Horn (our fab MC), Poetra Asantewa, Nana Akosua Hanson, Nana Nyarko Boateng, Famia Nkansa, Suga and yours truly. […]

Published on: 30 January 2017 by in General Issues
Who should speak for LGBTQI people?

On a number of occasions, various researchers or journalists have asked me if I can introduce them to LGBTQI activists or organisations. I always struggle with requests like these. What are they looking for exactly I wonder? Someone who has LGBTQI in their Twitter bio? An out lesbian? Or could it be someone who speaks […]

Published on: 25 January 2017 by in General Issues
Unfiltered: The ‘Let’s talk about sex’ edition

You all know that I love to talk about sex right? And sexual rights, and the rights of every woman to have orgasms. Well the lovely Nana Ama gave Famia Nkansah, one of my fav (anonymous) Adventures contributors, and I the chance to talk about everything S.E.X on her podcast Unfiltered. We had the best time […]

Published on: 26 December 2016 by in Creative Non Fiction
Who Are You When You’re Fucking?

So I have this question I like to ask people: “Who are you with when you like yourself the most?” It always gets a raised eyebrow and then people’s brows furrow and they pinch their chin and purse their lips. It takes them a few minutes to mention one or two people and they usually […]

Published on: 23 December 2016 by in Creative Non Fiction
‘Sex be adventure: mic check one two one two’ by guest contributor VV

Okay, Adventurers, the year is almost over. Here is something I think you should do. It might take a while so you don’t have to do it all at once. Take a break, eat some kenkey, rub one out, go to church, come back to it whenever you feel you want to, even if it […]

Published on: 11 December 2016 by in Creative Non Fiction, General Issues
Confessions of A Squirter by Guest Contributor Voluptuous Voltarian

Okay, so this is something I don’t mention much. Which is weird because I talk about everything sexual. But when people start talking about squirting around me I usually start finding the walls really fascinating. Why? Cos I’m a squirter. And this might just be what I’ve seen, but once you say that to people, […]

Published on: 06 December 2016 by in General Issues, Heterosexual
‘Working for the d’ by Guest Contributor Efua

Before I broke my hymen, I used to think I did not have a vagina. I would gaze down my lady parts with a magnifying face mirror and conclude I had no tunnel. Then the thin stretch of skin tore. It was over almost immediately and I wondered if that was it. Was this all […]

Published on: 01 December 2016 by in Creative Non Fiction
‘The reluctant celibate’ by guest contributor Cosmic Yoruba

Have you ever been irritated when sex wastes time coming through? I’ve been celibate, willingly and not-so-willingly, for about a year now. My last memories of sex are of my ex repeatedly turning down my advances and of a blip that I’m going to pretend never happened. I’ve been sweeping up the cobwebs between my […]

Published on: 25 November 2016 by in General Issues
‘This Pain…’ by Guest Contributor Tendai Garwe aka Sokostina

[Today marks the start of the #16Days of activism against gender based violence. Share your blog posts on the subject with us]   Am in bliss; total relief; loving every moment in disbelief. Will the pain return or am I in final freedom like a flying leaf.   What is this, its sharp pain and […]