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Published on: 13 March 2017 by in Heterosexual
‘Loving Him’ by Guest Contributor Grace

He looked up at me – ohhhhhhh my – those sexy eyes, the most angelic and dazzling smile I had ever seen on any face. He was tall, muscular and with features well designed like his body had been sculptured by some higher power unbeknown to me. I asked him for his name and he […]

Published on: 07 March 2017 by in Creative Non Fiction
‘Bebe Can I Get Your Nomba?’ by Guest Contributor VV

Okay, chale here’s the situation. I’ve been sexually active for 10 years now. With the exception of that unsuccessful attempt at anal, where it felt like I was having a stroke, I’ve tried almost everything there is to try. My mother jokes that I have so many miles on my vagina that if they tried […]

Published on: 02 March 2017 by in Creative Non Fiction
‘A Thousand Needles’ by Guest Contributor Nikitta

Most women in the world at some point in their lives have to deal with some kind of sexual and reproductive health issue. Yet, there is not a lot of awareness on the realities of how these issues affect the myriad aspects of a woman’s life.   The film ‘A Thousand Needles’ is set to […]

Published on: 01 March 2017 by in Creative Non Fiction
‘Curious Minds’ by Guest Contributor Under My Skin

His lips lightly brushed mine and I felt the chemistry that had been brewing between us simmer and yet with forced hesitation I pulled away. That was the first time he had ever tried to kiss me although he’d been chasing me for 4months prior to that night. I wanted him. I liked that he […]

Published on: 27 February 2017 by in General Issues
‘Things I wish my period would say to me every month’ by Guest Contributor reps from Curvy Fit Antigua

Last November I joined the Curvy Fit Antigua wellness group led by my good friend and forever bae Amina Doherty . Although the group was initially aimed at fostering wellness amongst women of all sizes in Antigua, myself and a couple of other sisters signed up to be virtual members of the group. And it has […]

Published on: 22 February 2017 by in General Issues
Morning sex versus nighttime nooky

I’ve just come out of the shower. I scrubbed my body with black soap, brushed my teeth, and now I feel fresh and clean. Plus I had a good night’s rest and so I feel energised. It’s 8am and so I have a couple of options. I can either make myself a hot cup of […]

Published on: 10 February 2017 by in Creative Non Fiction
Catching my ‘squirt’ by Cosmic Yoruba

Do you remember your first orgasm? What emotions did you feel? Mine was fear but I’m getting ahead of myself here. I was recently reminded of my very first orgasm and I’d like to share two stories. I started masturbating in my late teens, while I was at university. I can be a very technical […]

Published on: 02 February 2017 by in General Issues
The #LoveFest

Hey Adventurers, Super excited to invite you all to this #LoveFest event I am organising with my friends from the Love Mic, Drama Queens and so many of my fav talented poets, writers and songstress including Jessica Horn (our fab MC), Poetra Asantewa, Nana Akosua Hanson, Nana Nyarko Boateng, Famia Nkansa, Suga and yours truly. […]

Published on: 30 January 2017 by in General Issues
Who should speak for LGBTQI people?

On a number of occasions, various researchers or journalists have asked me if I can introduce them to LGBTQI activists or organisations. I always struggle with requests like these. What are they looking for exactly I wonder? Someone who has LGBTQI in their Twitter bio? An out lesbian? Or could it be someone who speaks […]

Published on: 25 January 2017 by in General Issues
Unfiltered: The ‘Let’s talk about sex’ edition

You all know that I love to talk about sex right? And sexual rights, and the rights of every woman to have orgasms. Well the lovely Nana Ama gave Famia Nkansah, one of my fav (anonymous) Adventures contributors, and I the chance to talk about everything S.E.X on her podcast Unfiltered. We had the best time […]