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Published on: 23 June 2016 by in General Issues
Jeju Ever Consider The Power of Public Nudity?

*When my kids were younger, they would mash their words together when they spoke. Two of the casualties of those frequent oratory crashes were the words ‘did + ‘you’ = ‘dzidju’….or Jeju. I couldn’t resist putting it in my title. Leave me alone. LOL!   At the end of May, the executives of the Ghanaian […]

Published on: 20 June 2016 by in Random
Could ‘FIN Drink’ Be the Key to Unlocking the Fire in Your Libido?

Female in Nigeria (FIN) is a closed group on Facebook, accessible by invitation only. The group has nearly 180K members, and it’s no surprise why. The revelations, testimonies and comments are hilarious, heartbreaking and always thought provoking. There isn’t a day that goes by wherein a status doesn’t cause your jaw to drop. FIN has […]

Published on: 18 June 2016 by in Orgasms
Does Squirting Mean the Sex Was Better?

“I was hitting my girl from the back – and by that I mean I was totally drilling into her ass hole…she loves that…and then she comes and squirts all over me. I was like, ‘Mate! Do that again!’ I think a woman squirting is the loveliest thing I’ve ever seen.” – Real conversation with […]

Published on: 21 May 2016 by in Relationships
Guest Post from Eleanor T.K. – What if Mama had talked about Sex?

Last week was Mother’s Day and this year marks the closest mama and I have ever been. Whatsapp has definitely contributed to building communication between us. Yet while we talk more, we still don’t talk about it (sex) all. We have never gotten around to talking about my experiences with the drunk uncle who tried […]

Published on: 19 May 2016 by in Random
Ananse, Anansewa.

I found this thing I wrote to Nana last year and did not put up, can’t remember why. Figured, now was as good a time as any! For those who don’t know, I keep teasing Nana with these little meetings where I hold my breath and try to see if she recognises me. She still […]

Published on: 16 May 2016 by in General Issues
‘Why body count?’ by Guest Contributor Efua

I woke up one day and men and women had begun asking questions that had the underlying expression ‘body count’. Apparently, the virgin question didn’t matter anymore. What mattered recently was how many bodies you had encountered sexually. I know lol, the sound of ‘bodies’ sound super morbid but interestingly enough, I lack a better […]

Published on: 07 May 2016 by in General Issues
International Masturbation Day: Yippee I touched myself today

I just realised that it’s #InternationalMasturbationDay and for a moment I was like, “Whoa! Is that how come I felt like touching myself this morning for the first time in months?” I woke up just before 5am because I needed to pee, and when I came back to bed I made the mistake of checking […]

Published on: 26 April 2016 by in General Issues
My contraceptive story

“I don’t need the pill. I only had sex once”   “What do you mean you don’t need the pill? You only need to have sex once to fall pregnant”.   And that is how I started on the combined pill 2 months short of my 23rd birthday after going to see the General Practioner […]

Published on: 22 April 2016 by in General Issues
‘Monologue sur le Matriarcat/Monologue on Matriarcat’ by Guest Contributor Fatime Faye

Je dédis ce monologue à ma sœur Tokossel qui est atrocement mutilée et à ma sœur Seynabou qui est morte l’année dernière, à 40 ans, laissant ses jumeaux et 6 autres enfants. I recant this monologue to my sister Tokossel who is horribly mutilated and to my sister Seynabou who died last year, just after […]

Published on: 20 April 2016 by in General Issues
‘Living with Fibroids’ by Guest Contributor Dede

Since being diagnosed with fibroids 5 years ago, I have seen a total of 16 doctors. 16 being the number of every individual medical practitioner to have examined me whether for follow-up visits or surgery or ultrasounds. 16 doctors with probably half of them having touched my vagina at some point. I joke that my […]