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Published on: 25 January 2015 by in Relationships
Video blog: My shitty sex life update

Hi All, So yesterday morning I did another video blog update on my shitty sex life inspired by an ask from Malaka a couple of comments ago, and queries from one or two of you. Here’s the link: Watch: My shitty sex life update For those who for any reason can’t watch video, here’s the […]


Did any of you read the recent Kenyan story about the wife who reported her husband to her village men for being uncircumcised?  There was a video to boot. We women can be dangerous when crossed eh? No lie about that. I am practically a scorpion when crossed so I could understand her. But the […]

Published on: 20 January 2015 by in Creative Non Fiction, Lesbian, Relationships, Sex Research
When I Need to Feel Sexy: A guide to being part of an erotic photo shoot by Guest Contributor Kagure Mugo

Being amazingly beautiful is something that comes to many African women. Being one as well as someone whose work day gets stalled by the beauty of these women I feel I can testify to this. One thing that often does not happen is celebrating our beauty in sensual, dynamic, subtle and ‘non animalistic’ ways. If we […]

Published on: 15 January 2015 by in General Issues

@VugaAfrica on Twitter yesterday called us “the sexiest place on the internet”. We’re so chuffed with that comment. Yes, it’s our 6th birthday today! Thank you so much for being with us and contributing to making this site exciting and informative. So on this day, let us reflect on the past 6 years. How have […]

Published on: 14 January 2015 by in KAKTS

Autumn had come faster than Diane had anticipated. After so many years living in Atlanta, she still wasn’t sure why the bipolar weather in this part of the country still surprised her. There was a common saying among the natives: “Don’t like the weather? Wait a few hours.” Things were so unpredictable in this city. […]

Published on: 06 January 2015 by in Abstinence, General Issues, Heterosexual, Underage
The Playful ‘Cousin’ I by Guest Contributor ASQ

When I was a kid, I was physically more developed at a younger age than most of the kids in my classroom and my year group. By age 10, I was already 5’2″ and had started my menses.  By age 13, I was already a solid B – small C cup in bra size and […]

Published on: 17 December 2014 by in Heterosexual
Oral Sex in 5 Minutes

I can be at yours in 5 minutes and be out just as quickly. All I want to do is give you pleasure. Yaw and I had been chatting for a couple of months now, probably 3, and I knew full well he had a crush on me. He also knew full well his feelings […]

Published on: 15 December 2014 by in Creative Non Fiction
Guest Post from Toksyk – Anaconda

Have you ever clicked on a stranger’s DP on Twitter and just gasp out loud at the greatness of the lord…well that is exactly what happened to me the first time I saw Luqman’s picture over a year ago. I don’t think I ever pressed the follow button as quickly as I did that day […]

Published on: 14 December 2014 by in Creative Non Fiction
Miami:  Say nothing

The announcement came over the cabin, “The local time is 7:35 pm. The current weather is 83 degrees. If you are catching a connecting flight, the gate agent will provide you with the updated gates. If this is your final destination, Welcome to Miami. Thank you flying Delta.” The sound of the announcement woke her […]

Published on: 13 December 2014 by in Fiction

Sitting before his lawyer and mine, I was just a signature away from confirming our divorce. I’ve trusted, respected and loved my husband for the past nine years. He was the man who smiled every time and at everything…it often was difficult to tell when he was serious or not. This is the umpteenth time […]

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