We think there is a serious lack of relevant and useful information about the sexuality of African women. This blog is a space for African women to share tips, experiences and more...
Published on: 22 June 2017 by in General Issues
Nana Darkoa: Come to my WPG reading on 28th June

Hey Adventurers, I’m super excited to be the Writer’s Project of Ghana’s featured writer this month. This event takes place on Wednesday 28th June at 7pm prompt. Earlier today I was planning what I am going to read, and at the moment it’s looking like a selection of fiction, and non-fiction, some published stuff like […]

When I first started dating my last boyfriend we were sitting in his car one day discussing our sexual do’s and don’ts. I told him I didn’t like rough blow jobs; I didn’t find anything sexy about gagging and choking and I didn’t want to vomit all over someone’s junk which would surely happen if […]

Published on: 05 June 2017 by in General Issues
To lube or not to lube

My boyfriend is in abrokyire for like two nights, and the one thing we agreed he needs to prioritise going shopping for was some delectable edible lube. When I started having sex eighteen years ago, lube wasn’t a thing for me. I just had no concept of how good quality lube can enhance sex. I […]

So I’ve been thinking a lot about threesomes lately. Some of my closest friends swear by them. Another friend was so insulted when one of her besties asked her to join a threesome with her and her boyfriend that she didn’t speak to the girl again until the day she went to the girl’s funeral […]

Published on: 05 May 2017 by in General Issues
Call for submissions: Erotica anthology by African queer women

Erotica is a real thing, sexual sensual writing that makes you squirm in your seat; scenes that turn a cold lonely night into something steamy; maybe something to keep you company and give you that secret smile whilst waiting for a friend in a restaurant.   Mostly we want things that will turn people on. […]

Published on: 27 April 2017 by in Creative Non Fiction
‘A Married Man’s Penis Between My Lips’ by Guest Contributor Proudly Ugandan

I had made up my mind to add some structure to my life. I would wake up at 5.30 every morning, do squats and thigh firming routines for half an hour. I would then spend another hour writing the book I have been chipping away at for the last year. I would also drink more […]

Published on: 21 April 2017 by in General Issues
Even The Very Suggestion That My Pussy Might Not Be Wet Is Offensive

I have very excitable children; four of them. And last night, after watching Hair Spray for the fifth time, my very excitable son dashed towards the kitchen when “dinner!” was yelled. Unfortunately, he didn’t make it that far. He smacked headfirst (I assume) into the giant blue yoga ball that the kids left in the […]

Published on: 07 April 2017 by in Heterosexual
‘Love in public spaces’ by Guest Contributor Wolverine

I grew up knowing public affection as holding hands, short hugs and then later pecks on the cheek. And when in a high density location or a rural area, these are things the general public do not expect to see. It makes the community question your morals, your background and it is far worse for […]

Published on: 02 April 2017 by in Heterosexual
‘Forbidden fruit’ by Guest Contributor Indo-Afrikan Queen

It’s a little corny and predictable. The thought of crushing on the most enigmatic man at work.  But I can’t help it.  It’s been a month now of intense one-sided chemistry – butterflies around him, and flashes of his face popping into my head at odd hours. See, this is the thing. I am in […]

Published on: 27 March 2017 by in Creative Non Fiction
‘My vagina is letting me down’ by Guest Contributor Proudly Ugandan

“Is my vagina wide?” “What?” I had to change tactics. “On a scale of wide, average and tight; how would you rate my vagina?” This was seconds after he had orgasmed in his palm. We had both taken E. My only drug of choice and one that he sometimes indulged in (often preferring the more […]