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Published on: 31 August 2015 by in Creative Non Fiction
Guest Contributor Dginia: ‘A Mind Fuck’

It begins with a chat. A stranger contacts you through a private message on social media. He tells you that he saw your work and that it touched him. You’re wary of unsolicited messages from men. They usually send you monosyllabic greetings or tell you to smile more. Some resort to blunt aggression when you […]

Published on: 19 August 2015 by in Sex education

I happened upon #WeMustKunyaza today in Twitter, and I don’t think my life will be the same from today forward. If you are one of the millions of unfortunate women for whom ultimate pleasure has eluded for so long – or if you want to experience a new type of climax –  I hope this […]

Published on: 19 August 2015 by in General Issues
Vlog: My 20 day period

Yes. 20 days. As in 1,2, 3…all the way to 20. It may even have been 21. At some point in time I got tired of counting. And I even forgot to talk about how one day I couldn’t find my tampon. It was meant to be inside me, and it was around midnight so […]

Published on: 12 August 2015 by in General Issues
Chalewote 2015 Festival and Queer Vibrations: Stories About African Women’s Diverse Sexualities

Ghana people and all lovers of the Chalewote festival. I am excited to inform you that ‘Adventures’ is taking part in this year’s edition of what has fast become one of the continent’s most exciting artistic event. On the 20th of August at 6pm prompt we will be holding a reading at Nubuke Foundation on […]

Published on: 03 August 2015 by in General Issues
VLOG: When Men Say They Are Tired of ‘Sexy’ Women, What Does That Even Mean??

Hey Adventurers! In my vlog for this month, I question the veracity of the claim that certain “conscious men” are tired of sexy Black women. This is a sentiment I see quite frequently on my social media outlets, with men condemning women for an inability to cook, especially. It’s said, with clicking tongues and shaking […]

Published on: 31 July 2015 by in General Issues

Marisa rolled over and felt the warmth of his body next to hers. She took a deep inhalation and the smell of half worn cologne and dried sweat filled her nostrils. Through the night their bodies became untangled from their embrace. The only thing that remained was his hand firmly gripping her buttocks. The thought […]

Published on: 25 July 2015 by in General Issues

Music has the power to get us in the right mood, be it working, cooking, a night out with friends and most especially SEX!.  Play me the whole Album of Miguel’s Kaleidoscope Dream and you can unlock emotions that even I never thought existed. His voice has that velvet feel that literally melts my core. […]

Published on: 24 July 2015 by in General Issues

Marissa clicked through the channels on the TV.  She did not settle on any one channel long enough to  find out what was happening. This behavior was more of a nervous habit she formed through the years. She glanced over at her phone, the missed calls and texts could wait. She was living in this […]

Published on: 20 July 2015 by in Erotica, Fiction, Relationships
Sacred Romance (Part 3) – By Guest Contributor – Spiritual

(Read Part 1 here, and Part 2 here)    If they had not been kissing, she would have yelled. He slowly started maneuvering down her body. This time, he wasn’t teasing her. He took her left boob in his mouth, grabbed the right with one hand while his other hand explored her depths in search of her G-spot. […]

Published on: 20 July 2015 by in Erotica, Fiction, Relationships
Sacred Romance (Part 2) – By Guest Contributor – Spiritual

(Read Part 1 here)    They managed to walk to her bedroom with their clothes still intact. ”Dan, are you sure about this”  Sally asked, not that she care what his reply would be. He didn’t answer, he just grabbed her face and planted a wet kiss on her lips. A sensual, soul rattling lip lock ensued. Their tongues […]