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Category: Polyamory

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Relationship Anarchy

In General Issues, PolyamoryPublish DateDecember 26, 2022Leave a comment Kgothatso Motshele

We’ve spent a considerable amount of time in the previous pieces unpacking non-monogamy and discussing how to navigate jealousy, envy and compersion in these dynamics. The idea of managing multiple relationships or seeing yourself share your partner’s time and affections with another will not resonate with everyone. Besides sharing these thoughts and ideas from my personal experiences and journey, I think non-monogamous relationships and dynamics have taken the forefront in many conversations because of how society is set up. While …

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<strong>My Polyamory, My humanness</strong>

My Polyamory, My humanness

In General Issues, Polyamory, RelationshipsPublish DateDecember 16, 2022Leave a comment Kgothatso Motshele

Very often, when people hear about polyamory, their first reaction is to ask how it is possible to love and live like this with all that we come with as humans. While it hasn’t always been …

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Jealousy and Envy in Non-monogamy Pt. 2: Communication and Compersion

Jealousy and Envy in Non-monogamy Pt. 2: Communication and Compersion

In General Issues, Polyamory, RelationshipsPublish DateDecember 14, 2022Leave a comment Kgothatso Motshele

In the first part of this series, we discussed differentiating between envy and jealousy, and how it’s possible to view these emotions as opportunities to identify what you may be lacking or desiring in your relationship. …

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<strong>Jealousy, envy in non-monogamy Pt 1: Are they the same?</strong>

Jealousy, envy in non-monogamy Pt 1: Are they the same?

In General Issues, Polyamory, RelationshipsPublish DateDecember 6, 2022Leave a comment Kgothatso Motshele

“But how do you deal with jealousy?” This is the commonest question I’ve had in all my years living as an out non-monogamous person, and in my work as an intimacy and sex coach. I hear …

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Maintaining Safety in non-monogamous relationships

Maintaining Safety in non-monogamous relationships

In General Issues, Polyamory, RelationshipsPublish DateOctober 5, 2022Leave a comment Kgothatso Motshele

  Like with any relationship, monogamous or not, safety is a big thing that needs careful attention and thought. The responsibility to maintain safety increases when you are intimately involved with more than one person; simply …

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Non-monogamy: The Beginning of the journey

Non-monogamy: The Beginning of the journey

In General Issues, Polyamory, RelationshipsPublish DateSeptember 28, 2022Leave a comment Kgothatso Motshele

Non-monogamy has been a hot topic in the last few years as we see more and more people claim this part of their identity and share their lived experiences with the world. Like with so many …

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Almost Lovers

Almost Lovers

In Polyamory, RelationshipsPublish DateMay 24, 20217 Comments Naba the F*cking Goddess

Even the misses make for a good story! Background: I’m a queer, pansexual, polyamorous human. A very sexual being. At the turn of the new world (just before COVID), I consciously decided to do sex and …

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‘Threesome Tetris’ by Voluptuous Voltarian

‘Threesome Tetris’ by Voluptuous Voltarian

In General Issues, Heterosexual, Lesbian, Polyamory, RelationshipsPublish DateMay 13, 201722 Comments Voluptuous Voltarian

So I’ve been thinking a lot about threesomes lately. Some of my closest friends swear by them. Another friend was so insulted when one of her besties asked her to join a threesome with her and …

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‘Poly-amory’ by Guest Contributor The cunning linguist

‘Poly-amory’ by Guest Contributor The cunning linguist

In PolyamoryPublish DateFebruary 17, 20161 Comment Guest

The rain began it’s pitter pattered against my living room windowsill. At that exact moment, she crept up behind me. I already knew she was there. Her scent was unmistakable. Dressed in a button up shirt …

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