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Abstinence

How Do I? by Guest Contributor UgandanChic

In Abstinence, Fiction, General Issues, Heterosexual, RelationshipsPublish DateJune 20, 20154 Comments Admin

“…that’s why I can’t date a girl who doesn’t blow.” I looked up from my phone, I had zoned out as soon as we had said ‘hullo’ and gotten lost on my twitter. This was the fourth official date Ben and I had been on and the second time our friends had all met in one place. I had no idea what the conversation was about but that one statement had finally caught my attention. I tried to follow and …

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The Playful ‘Cousin’ I by Guest Contributor ASQ

The Playful ‘Cousin’ I by Guest Contributor ASQ

In Abstinence, General Issues, Heterosexual, UnderagePublish DateJanuary 6, 201514 Comments Admin

When I was a kid, I was physically more developed at a younger age than most of the kids in my classroom and my year group. By age 10, I was already 5’2″ and had started …

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Church ruining your sex life?

Church ruining your sex life?

In Abstinence, Creative Non Fiction, General Issues, Heterosexual, Lesbian, RelationshipsPublish DateMarch 18, 2014Leave a comment Ekuba

  A woman being taken through an “intense” deliverance session   Hi Adventurers! I’m back with a bounce and the countdown to the launch of the ‘Sex and the Church’ blog series has began!  The series …

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‘Shall I remain a virgin?’ asks guest contributor Eleanor T.K.

‘Shall I remain a virgin?’ asks guest contributor Eleanor T.K.

In Abstinence, General IssuesPublish DateJanuary 12, 20149 Comments Guest

Till this day I can hold a book (whether novel or guide) or a movie (be it a romantic comedy or those XXX demos) as responsible for most of what I know on the topic of …

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Should kids have sex?

Should kids have sex?

In Abstinence, General Issues, Sex EducationPublish DateJuly 31, 201325 Comments Ekuba

Hi Adventurers, there’s a question that’s been niggling me all week and I wanted to ask you guys . How early is too early for kids to have sex & what age is it appropriate for people …

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Secondary Virginity

Secondary Virginity

In Abstinence, General IssuesPublish DateMay 5, 201332 Comments Ekuba

  When I woke up this morning, I knew that I was going to give celibacy another try. That’s how I make all my major decisions you know- I mull over it for weeks, months even. …

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The Reluctant Celibate

The Reluctant Celibate

In AbstinencePublish DateJune 25, 20095 Comments Nana Darkoa

I am no fan of abstinence although I completely understand the reasons why so many of my sisters (yes I am excluding the brothers) strive to abstain from sex. I have heard the arguments in favour …

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Guest Contributor Ms A on Celibacy, Temptation and Sex

Guest Contributor Ms A on Celibacy, Temptation and Sex

In AbstinencePublish DateMay 14, 20097 Comments Nana Darkoa

It’s been four months, one week and two days. I’ve been craving, having vivid dreams, praying, begging God to make the months move a little faster. God, has it only been four months, one week and …

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Abstinence in a sex obsessed world?

Abstinence in a sex obsessed world?

In AbstinencePublish DateApril 1, 200911 Comments Nana Darkoa

A post on abstinence on a blog that seeks to provide a space for African women to share tips, experiences and more… Well, why not? When I read the request to write a post on abstinence …

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There are several misconceptions about being bisexual. It's important to challenge and dispel these myths to create a more inclusive and accepting society where people of all sexual orientations feel validated and respected.

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Your straight cousin is about to marry a gaygay. H Your straight cousin is about to marry a gaygay. How do you reveal this without outing yourself? We don’t know, but tune into bad advice to get our unhelpful tips on what to do next!
Agents of chaos and disruption, we will air a litt Agents of chaos and disruption, we will air a little early this week! Take note and adjust your calendar. You know you don't want to miss it! This week's questions are especially chaotic. Stay tuned.

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"Is marriage rightly the endgame reality we’ve b "Is marriage rightly the endgame reality we’ve been sold? What does this norm look like for queer people queering the norm? Is this all entrenched in an unhealthy culture of possession and control?" 

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It’s another night of chaos and confusion! Tonig It’s another night of chaos and confusion! Tonight we tackle diamond rings and clitoris stings. Catch the replay here!
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