Polygamy is the devil. If you thought that the devil’s zipcode was hell, I am here to tell you that he has been residing and bedding our African society, for ages. It is time that we, ‘rikitaad the madimoni’, -cast the polygamy demon-out of our household.  No, I am not a full blooded feminist, but I do subscribe to the ideology of gender equity and equality. Matters pertaining to the continual disenfranchisement of the African woman, in this day and age, where supposedly women are running the world a la Beyonce, are close to my heart. Ponder on what I just said, by asking yourself the Afropolitan Experience, 5 in 5 staple question, “What does …

It was the Easter break and I had decided to stay on campus till the Easter Saturday evening before going home. I live just across town, no need rushing home, for just a week’s break. Home is boring anyway. My roommate Baaba had already gone home and will be returning in a week’s time. My other room mate Erica had gone out on a date with her boyfriend, living me alone in the room that Thursday evening. I heard a knock on the door and wondered who it was? I wasn’t expecting any company. Perhaps someone looking for Baaba?
Baaba and I were freshers (first year students) and single, while Erica was a final year student …

Adventures from the bedrooms of African women is a space for African women to share knowledge on sex and our diverse sexualities. There is insufficient information by African women on the diverse sexualities of African women. This blog aims to provide a safe space for women to learn from each other about issues of sex and diverse sexualities.
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