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Adventures From the Bedrooms of African Women

Adventures From the Bedrooms of African Women.

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To Ancestral Pleasure

In LifestylePublish DateMarch 23, 2026Leave a comment Guest

Written By Makgosi Letimile  When my editor contacted me about writing something about pleasure, she gave me free latitude. I could write about the theme and my feelings towards it, whether big or small. I spent many weeks trying to do things to inspire pleasure so great, it just wrote about itself.  I thought I was going to make it a light column, with a bit of whimsy, because we are living in hard times and we are trying to …

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What I Wish Someone Had Told Me Before I Got Fitted for an IUD

What I Wish Someone Had Told Me Before I Got Fitted for an IUD

In LifestylePublish DateMarch 18, 2026Leave a comment Guest

Written By Nyambura What nobody warned me about was how little real, honest information is out there about the lived experience, the raw, unfiltered reality, of choosing and actually getting an IUD. All the research I …

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Father Time: Breaking Generational Cycles

Father Time: Breaking Generational Cycles

In General IssuesPublish DateMarch 4, 2026Leave a comment Guest

Written by Gbemi Trabaye Writing this is probably going to be one of the hardest things I’ve ever done. Putting pen to paper is the least of my struggles; the greatest challenge lies in accurately conveying …

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Peaceful love: A reality that I never believed could exist 

Peaceful love: A reality that I never believed could exist 

In RelationshipsPublish DateMarch 2, 2026Leave a comment Guest

Written by Gbemi Trabaye  For those who are new to this series, welcome, and for previous readers – welcome back. The first three articles I wrote unearthed feelings that I had never been brave enough to …

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Widowhood in Nigeria: Grief, Control, and the Double Standard

Widowhood in Nigeria: Grief, Control, and the Double Standard

In RelationshipsPublish DateFebruary 25, 2026Leave a comment Guest

Written By Precious Ologunwa “Even after ten years of losing my husband, I cannot publicly say I have a love life or that I want to remarry,” says Sade, 50. Her hesitation isn’t just grief—it’s fear …

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Church Girl, Bad Girl, Both: The Girl Who Tried to Pray Desire Away

Church Girl, Bad Girl, Both: The Girl Who Tried to Pray Desire Away

In SexualityPublish DateFebruary 20, 2026Leave a comment Guest

By Ifeoluwa Suleiman I spent half my life trying to negotiate with a God I was told couldn’t handle my hunger. On Sundays, I was a masterpiece of suppression. I wore long skirts that swept the …

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What would Doechii have you do this year? Girl, Get Up!

What would Doechii have you do this year? Girl, Get Up!

In LifestylePublish DateFebruary 18, 2026Leave a comment Guest

Written by Oladoyin Alana Music has the power to make you express, feel, be heard, be relieved, be charged and be entirely yourself. And when music is in the hands of some, it becomes a weapon …

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Safety In The Spaces Between

Safety In The Spaces Between

In RelationshipsPublish DateFebruary 16, 2026Leave a comment Guest

Written by Precious Nwosu Just like I do before writing any piece, I typed “safe sex” into Google’s search bar and as if in a race, widely cited definitions popped up on my screen within seconds. …

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Care as Control: When Mental Health Language Is Used to Silence Women

Care as Control: When Mental Health Language Is Used to Silence Women

In RelationshipsPublish DateJanuary 22, 2026Leave a comment Guest

Written by Precious Nwosu Growing up, many of us were taught to extend kindness and empathy to neighbours and strangers as a way of life. Think of the Good Samaritan from the Christian Holy Bible. Think …

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What Decentring Men Really Looks Like Beyond Social Media

What Decentring Men Really Looks Like Beyond Social Media

In LifestylePublish DateJanuary 20, 2026Leave a comment Guest

Written by Miracle Okah “I will not give birth to a life that will discriminate against my gender. My own flesh and blood must not become a blade turned against me.”  “If the world born from …

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The Collective Oblee Experience

The Collective Oblee Experience

In General IssuesPublish DateJanuary 15, 20261 Comment Guest

Written by Nifemi I have a lot of not-so-peculiar things to be grateful for about my human experience. One of these things is the ability to detach myself from the collective, stand at a mental corner, …

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Welcome to Adventures Reads!


Adventures From The Bedrooms Of African Women Adventures from the Bedrooms of African Women began as a popular blog for African women to speak openly about their sex lives. The podcast, hosted by Ghanaian founders Nana Darkoa Sekyiamah and Malaka Grant, carries on in this tradition, exploring African women’s experiences of sex, sexuality and pleasure.

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  • New Mom, Hot Takes: Audrey Indome's Bedroom Chronicles
    by aqstudiosafrica on July 23, 2024 at 12:35 pm
  • The Dating Olympics
    by aqstudiosafrica on November 20, 2023 at 3:16 pm

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  1. Jo on “I waited until 30 to have sex and I have some things to share…”February 28, 2026

    This is gold. And when I think of my first time and how much it ruined my 20s so far,…

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    This is a couple of months late, but thank you so much! I enjoyed writing this story and it makes…

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    This was interesting to read

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