Sexuality and sexual expression have generally been taboo topics for African women. With the rise of feminism, more women are realising that purity culture is deeply rooted in misogyny since it only applies to women. Consequently, more women are claiming their sexual agency and taking control of their pleasure. Sexual liberation, however, also has its own controversy. Some say sexual liberation freed women to say ‘yes’; others argue it actually freed us to say ‘no’, and then there’s the whole …
Author: A. Duchess
ABENA I want him so much, but he doesn’t seem to know that I exist. Well, he does know that I exist because he works for my Dad, but he doesn’t see me beyond being his …
“Cela m’a vraiment manqué” (I have missed this so much), Jean whispered against my lips when he broke off the kiss. “I have missed watching you come apart in my arms.” His gaze was intent as …
“Jean? What are you doing here?” “I’m sorry for coming here unannounced, but you have been extremely hard to reach. Can I speak to you, please? I promise not to take much of your time.” “How …
Yes, We’re Feminists. No, We Don’t Want To Be Men. If you’re a feminist, chances are pretty high that you’ve heard the misconception that you’re craving to be a man. I’m sure the people who say …
In the month following my last encounter with Jean, several things changed. I was different, and it affected my workflow. I took two weeks of rest without any clients to get back into the right mental …
Continues from Part 2 I woke up in Linda’s bed in the best mood I have been in a long time. Opening one eye, I realised that I was alone in bed. Memories from last night …
Follows from part one “What I want to do to you, Abby, is not just sex. I’m going to teach you how to please me. You’re going to suck my tits and my pussy and make …
Korkor folded the last of her friend’s clothes with mixed feelings and zipped the suitcase. Dzifa had been a beautiful bride, and the wedding had been so lovely and emotional, but she couldn’t help but have …
Sex is meant to be pleasurable for both partners, yet the “orgasm gap”—the disparity between the orgasm rates of men and women during sex—indicates that women often miss out on the satisfaction they deserve in heterosexual …
I settle down again in my former position, curling into the chair. “I’m Ebo,” the stranger says when he sits on his. “Nice to meet you.” “I’m Nina. Nice to meet you too,” I reply, meaning …