The light in the room is dim, that kind of almost candle-light glow coming from a small lamp. We are being reckless, laughing through the corridor where our friends can hear us, running into the bedroom and closing the door with a loud bang. I am already melting, pure sweetness between my thighs. She takes me towards the bed, pulls me close and I can feel the strap-on in her jeans and her breasts pressed against mine. She runs her velvet lips down my neck before kissing me, pulling me even closer to her body.
We begin to dance, her body so close it is almost becoming me. I unbutton her shirt, run my hand over …

So by popular request here is the concluding part of the BBM convo that I was sent a while ago. Part 1 can be accessed here and part 2, here
 
GG: I have my head buried in your neck sucking on your neck
TG: Where ur fingers? In me?
TG: How many fingers?
GG: Oh I am holding your arms over your head with one hand while I’m licking your belly and finger fucking you
GG: You’ve got 3 in you and you are so wet I am getting ready to add a fourth
GG: My thumb is playing with your tight cute anus
GG: Sending shivers through your body
TG: Fist me…cmon try it
TG: Almost there not quite
TG: I am out in …

So by popular request I went back to GG and TG to ask if they had continued their explosive BB conversations, and they had. They sent me a long update which I have divided into 2 parts. If you haven’t read part 1 click here and if you just want to continue to part 2, well here you go:
GG: Missed you
TG: Missed you too. Are you asleep?
GG: No I am out and about. You?
TG: I’m out too. Tomorrow is a public holiday
TG: Ps: did you read Nanas Blog? =))
GG: I will tomorrow
GG: I want a kiss
TG: How would you like me to kiss you?
GG: Soft and slowly
GG: Nibble my lip and gently lick them
TG: Can …

Yesterday I was privileged to be at the first meet-up for Queer Ladies of African Descent (QLAD), which took place in a Seneglase restaurant in uptown New York. I ate grilled tilapia, couscous and kelewele in the company of some of the nicest ladies I have met in a long while.
C and I were ‘doing’ kokonsa (gossiping) during the meeting about a party of 4 women and 1 man that were sitting to the right of our table. ‘Are they all his wives?’ C asked me…a little while later I nudged her, “Look, look she’s arguing with the other women. I heard her say, “He’s my husband”.
T & C have been in a relationship for …

Ok d first girl i ever did was my ex boyfriends cousin….. She used to come to his house a lot to keep me company wenever I was at his place….. So there was dis period he installed a Jacuzzi, So after d guyz who brought it left, d both of us started strugglin for who’ll use it first, this girl is hot, very slim, tiny waist, big boobs n hips that r just right, I wasn’t really into her, matter of fact I wasn’t even into girls….. So in the end we ended up in d jacuzzi together. somhow we started talkin bout sex, then she asked if I’d ever been with a girl …

Last night I went to a strip club for gay guys. Of course this fact, in and of itself, would be unremarkable until you consider that I went alone, in an unfamiliar city, and that I’m a girl who likes (mostly) girls. WTF you ask? That’s more like it.
Admittedly, I started out the evening armed with googlemaps directions to a lesbian bar within walking distance, but true to clueless form, I got lost. Turns out it didn’t matter anyway because after asking the poster child for butch lesbians (tattooed, clad in a black leather jacket, jeans and worn boots), I was informed that the place is closed on Mondays; her eyes said “oh, you poor …

Don’t kid yourself, I can steal your wife if I wanted.
It amazes and amuses me how flippant most married men are of lesbian relationships. A bisexual friend of mine’s hubby actually asked her rather incredulously “what are u really gonna leave me for a girl?” my answer if I were in her shoes would have been hell yea!
See good brothers you need to know that only a woman knows how to love another woman best. You can try and some men do try but you can’t know my body better than I know it. Another woman has the same body as your wife does & if she wants to please your wife its likely she’s …

Vagina is for lovers
Yes, I said it! So what? You were thinking it…were you not? I guess this must be one of those topics where I think everybody is on board.
Here’s what I think. I’m a lesbian for a reason. Contrary to popular heterosexist belief, I was not molested by my father, brother or any other dominant male in my life. I am a lesbian because I love the softness of a woman, I crave a gentle touch and I can appreciate her with all her sexy curves.I prefer breast to chest and when I embrace the person I love, I prefer the feeling of a cushion rather than a steel wall. You feel me?
Vagina …

A friend informed me that today is ‘National Coming Out Day’, and i jokingly said to her, ‘Great, lets come out on the blog today’.
A few minutes later I check my twitter account and www.feministing.com have a link to a post on ‘Happy Coming Out Day’…I liked the following quote from their site:
“It’s well documented that the more people someone knows who are LGBTQ, the more accepting they are of queer folks.
So find someway to celebrate today, even as an ally who supports everyone regardless of sexual orientation or gender expression”
Personally I think its important for ‘straight’ people to speak up on issues of gay rights. A couple of weeks ago one of my boyfriends …

The producer of one of the drive time programmes on a leading radio station in Ghana contacted me a few weeks ago to ask if I knew a gay person who would be willing to come on her show to talk about being gay in Ghana. My immediate answer was No. Its quite sad but I do not know a single gay person in Ghana who would happily go on a radio programme to talk about what life is like in Ghana for a gay person. The other thing I realized is I do not know any people who are exclusively gay, the few people who I know are not heterosexual are bi-sexual and none …