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Published on: 10 January 2014 by in Series
Lover of Her Sole: A Ghanaian Cinderella Story

One did not walk into Butterflae Brides Boutique without possession of three things: 1) generous budget, 2) a clear idea of what kind of gown one wanted, and 3) a firm wedding date.  Madame Okoye did not have time for “interested” brides, only serious ones. This is what made Pomaa’s final visit to her soon-to-be […]

Published on: 09 January 2014 by in Lesbian, Relationships
Straight Girls, Sex and Curiosity by Guest Contributor Kagure Mugo

I had always found women intriguing. I did not necessarily see it as a sexual , more like a sense of admiration for everything they were. I was drawn in to how strong they were, how soft at the same time. They were beautiful, wise whilst still sometimes being so hopeful to the point of […]

Published on: 08 January 2014 by in Relationships

There was a robust debate out there on the Twittersphere yesterday, and it all stemmed from a simple Facebook status published by BBC’s Komla Dumor: Is it harder for a highly educated African woman to find a date? We have a story from Egypt. African men are you intimidated by an educated woman? Focus on […]

Published on: 07 January 2014 by in General Issues, Lesbian
Sorry Mr/ Ms. Bigot! Homosexuality is VERY African

PART TWO Fanny-Ann Eddy (pictured above)was a Sierra Leonean lesbian & gay rights activist who was brutally raped & murdered after bigots bayed for her blood.  Her story is similar to that of other African gay rights activists like Eric Lembembe (Cameroon) who was murdered after his feet were broken & his arms & feet […]

Published on: 07 January 2014 by in General Issues, Lesbian
Sorry Mr/ Ms. Bigot! Homosexuality is VERY African

  PART ONE [Dedicated to commentator MSA. Hope you read this & change your mind; otherwise, let’s agree to disagree 🙂 ] Yesterday, my favorite Ghanaian bigot said something that gave me comic relief for the week & I’m really grateful to him for that. Rev. Prof. Martey, the Moderator of the Presbyterian Church of […]

Published on: 01 January 2014 by in General Issues
Do Women Have Rape Fantasies?

  I am not sharing a sexual experience today because my poor self has had next to no sensual fun in the past several months. This is not a deliberate effort but an acute lack of opportunity with my type of stud. Sigh! My ‘Lolita’ is presently an angry pout. Yesterday while taking a stroll […]

Published on: 30 December 2013 by in General Issues

In a few days time Adventures will be 5 years old. Woohoo. 5 years of frank, heartwarming, emotional, distressing, erotic, challenging, difficult, fun conversations about African women and diverse sexualities. As the year ends I am reflecting on how best Adventures can serve our various readers, contributors, commenters and lurkers 🙂 So do me a […]

Published on: 28 December 2013 by in Creative Non Fiction, General Issues, Gran

Dear Adventurers, It’s with a heavy heart that I write to announce the death of my beloved granny. She passed away 4 days ago and she was 87 years old. When I hurriedly booked my flight back to Ghana a month and a half ago, I hardly knew that it was going to be the […]

Published on: 27 December 2013 by in General Issues

[This is a two part post. To read part one please click here] After a two year stint without reading romance novels, I borrowed two paperbacks from a friend. I set aside reading time and eagerly anticipated rekindling my unrequited love for romance novels. I opened the book and three chapters in – bupkiss. The […]

Published on: 25 December 2013 by in General Issues
Have a Merry Orgasmic Christmas

Who is cumming, kissing or loving today? Love, Nana Darkoa and Malaka