We think there is a serious lack of relevant and useful information about the sexuality of African women. This blog is a space for African women to share tips, experiences and more...
Published on: 04 October 2012 by in General Issues

Ya’ll, my ovaries are dying like literally  I mean, metaphorically. I’ve started to hyperventilate and somewhat started to exhibit symptoms of a mid life crisis. My African people, no, I am not dying of ovarian cancer , neither do I have problems with my gonads. Matter of fact, they are working just fine, and for that we give glory to Baba God oo. I am highly blessed and favored with the worst crimson tide cramps ever ... 

Published on: 02 October 2012 by in General Issues

I am delighted to announce that Nnenna Marcia will be writing a regular series for Adventures from now on (or until she gets bored). This series will go up every Friday (unless I can't get to a computer or have tech challenges of some sort). In the mean time I thought it would be great to learn a bit more about Nnenna. Enjoy my short interview with her below.   N.D:  How did you discover Adventures? N.M: I'm ... 

Published on: 28 September 2012 by in General Issues

I am an ardent masturbator.  I think the right to pleasure yourself should be a human right - and I am not being flippant. Think of how much the STIs would be reduced, maybe eradicated, or how the stress of a pregnancy scare could be avoided. Think about how much more vulnerable your partner would seem if they were able to do this, the most secret act of sex in front of you. Think of how much trust there could be in ... 

Published on: 26 September 2012 by in General Issues

The first step in having a truly appreciative 'cunnilingual' experience - as in most things concerning women - is in the mind.  You have to stop. Just stop. Stop thinking about how many women your partner has been with, stop thinking about whether your period is due, stop thinking about how to fake an arch of the back so that your stomach seems flatter than it is, stop wondering if you should turn off the lights, if ... 

Published on: 21 September 2012 by in Heterosexual, Relationships

When I started fucking a Ghanaian man the first thing that drove home for me that, individual differences aside, our sex life was a little bit different than it had been with my American ex was this: A few weeks into our super-active love life I looked down at my waist beads and realized they were all still intact. I was shocked. We had been having some vigorous and involved sex and my guy’s hands were usually wrapped ... 

Published on: 15 September 2012 by in Creative Non Fiction, General Issues, Relationships

I was bbming my girlfriend Wanjiru ahead of my trip to Nairobi: Chale I’m going through a major drought. I haven’t had some in months.  Seriously? I need to hook you up when you get here.  The hook up was Tom. He was part Kenyan and part English. A year ago he moved back home to Nairobi, after having secured a job as a correspondent for the BBC. He shared a 5-bedroom house in Westlands with a Swedish ... 

Published on: 13 September 2012 by in General Issues

  Being asked to speak on this topic delighted and dismayed me. Dismay because the title of the topic could lead one to assume that the African woman is not already sexually liberated or that women all over the world are sexually liberated and somehow the African woman is trailing behind. I have a problem with this idea. When I hear of women undergoing vaginoplasty in the West it gives me the distinct impression ... 

Published on: 11 September 2012 by in Relationships

Hi Nana, I'm not sure if you recall that the last time I run into you I told you about someone who had expressed a sexual interest in me. Long and short is that we ended up sleeping together a couple of times. She expressed her love for me...I found myself developing serious feelings for her. I happen to be a journal-writer (been one for 25yrs now almost). I guess out of guilt and whatnot, I recorded our escapades, and ... 

Published on: 02 September 2012 by in Heterosexual

  Okay, so I like communication during sex. I consider talking and being talked back to in bed an important component of the whole deal. My most recent ex wasn’t Ghanaian and all the people I dated before him who were didn’t speak any local languages with me. As a result, all of the bedroom exchanges I had participated in, over the course of my sex-having life, were conducted in English. And so I guess, in my ... 

Published on: 27 August 2012 by in Creative Non Fiction, Heterosexual

  It was one of those hotel rooms where men who work in the lower ranks of Ghana’s civil service take their newly acquired girlfriends to for a ‘short time’. The walls were a strange shade of white; the bed had sheets that must have been white once upon a time, and the cleaner consistently missed the rat dropping that clung stubbornly to the wall beneath the air conditioning unit.   He had spent ... 

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