We think there is a serious lack of relevant and useful information about the sexuality of African women. This blog is a space for African women to share tips, experiences and more...
Published on: 14 May 2014 by in General Issues, Relationships
Guest Contributor Adwoa: ‘Do you have unprotected sex?’

I have a friend (no, that’s not a euphemism for me, I’m actually talking about a friend) with whom I seem to keep having a reoccurring conversation.  Let me tell you about it.  My friend is an intelligent, articulate, assertive, ballsy woman who is knowledgeable about all things that pertain to sex and sexual health.  The conversation […]

Published on: 09 May 2014 by in Fiction, Heterosexual
Chuma’s dilemma

Chuma lay in the dark and tried to stop his dick from rising. He tried – and failed – to stop his ears hearing his girlfriend Amanda disrobe.  First the tud tud of her cloth-covered buttons as they slid roughly out of the button holes. He could hear it slide over her shoulders, her arms and drop […]

Published on: 09 May 2014 by in Lesbian, Relationships

Hi Adventurers, this is a short query from a reader. I’m hoping you can help her and offer some tips and advice. Over to you: “I’m 25 years and a lesbian. and i was wondering if u had any idea why it so hard finding a decent date in accra” Thoughts? Suggestions? What should she […]

Published on: 02 May 2014 by in General Issues
‘My mini skirt and I’ by Guest Contributor Saffron and Lace

“If you arrive at the airport wearing a short skirt, you will not be allowed into the country.” Words uttered by a colleague referring to Malawi. In 2013, a bill was tabled before Parliament with the intent of banning the mini-skirt – location, Uganda. In 2012, women marched, protesting against attacks on women wearing short […]

Published on: 30 April 2014 by in Fiction
‘Deep Trouble’ by Guest Contributor ‘KoffeeKupid’

Her heart beat matched each tick of her wristwatch which in her books was a far cry from steady. Beads of sweat from anticipation lined the bridge of her upper lip. It was time to see him. They had met many times since his confession and all had run smoothly. Each meeting had drawn them […]

Published on: 25 April 2014 by in General Issues, Relationships

Fellow Adventurers, Adzo would like to hear your thoughts on a current dilemma she has ….   “So I met this hunk a couple of months back. It wasn’t love at first sight, but in a matter of a week I fell in love with my type…smart, good looking and decent out of the bedroom […]

Published on: 23 April 2014 by in Creative Non Fiction, Relationships, Series
MichelAngelo III

“Will you be with me? ” “What?” “If I walk out, do I have your word of honour? Your devotion?” I couldn’t believe he was asking me to tell him to break his engagement “I am not that much of a witch you know? You are a grown man, make your own decisions! And if […]

MichelAngelo II

Recap of first installment I smiled to myself. How long will Kwame and I skirt each other’s emotions? Then I remembered, he is after all engaged. Was I going to let that stop me? Do you know how my body roars whenever I encounter this man in anyway? But this feeling of jumping into his […]

Published on: 19 April 2014 by in General Issues
Gender, Sexuality and the Internet: #ImagineAFeministInternet

Last week I was lucky enough to be one of 50 participants from all around the world who were invited to take part in a meeting on ‘Gender, Sexuality and the Internet’ organised by the Association of Progressive Communications. . You can imagine that this topic was just right up my stream. What piqued my […]

Extreme Fetishes?

I was sitting at the airport,jittery. Trying to reach customer care on my phone; bunch of c#%zies wouldn’t pick. My book wasn’t helping keep me busy. Then these two young men next to me, an American and a Nigerian (from their accents). They had been speaking a while but it got more argumentative. Nigerian: “hold […]