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Published on: 10 April 2014 by in Lover of Her Sole, Series
LOHS: Time to Launch II

These platform pumps were absolutely killing her, but they made her legs look great. Pomaa spackled fake smiles on her face to mask the wince hiding just beneath her lips. Flat shoes did not look nearly as good in photographs as heels did, and these onyx and teal Stuart Weitzman pumps supporting her legs would […]

Published on: 09 April 2014 by in Lover of Her Sole, Series

Three hundred guests. Uncle Ekow wanted three hundred guests to attend the ground breaking of the new park. “And the whole media should be there,” he prattled excitedly. “Make sure to invite all the paramount and sub-chiefs in the area as well. My name is on this project and it must be top-class.” That might […]

Published on: 08 April 2014 by in Fiction

This is a multi part story. Click here to read part 1. Here to read part 2. Here to read part 3. “Please tell me this is not the only time we are going to do this”. Nnenna and I looked at each other and started laughing. “Come on guys, this can’t be a one […]

Published on: 04 April 2014 by in Lover of Her Sole, Series

*Click* That single, hollow sound ended all discourse and completed their argument. It sobered her, centering her senses completely. Akoto had locked the door behind him and left Pomaa staring at the empty gulf that stood between them. He took three swift steps and closed it. “I don’t want to fight with you, Agyapomaa,” he […]

Published on: 03 April 2014 by in Lover of Her Sole, Series

Akoto had an unexplainable fear of heights; specifically mountainous heights. No, he couldn’t tell Pomaa what the genesis of this fear was. He just knew he lived in constant fear that he would be hurled off the side of a mountain or that one day his demise would be the result of some ill-timed step […]

Published on: 31 March 2014 by in Fiction, Lover of Her Sole, Series

“Sss! Ssssss! Taxi! Hei! Taxi!!!” “Frema, what are you doing? We need to run!” Frema cursed as the taxi driver shot them a skeptical glance and drove off, honking his horn in hopes of attracting less suspicious passengers. A torrent of salty sweat rushed down Pomaa’s face and as grabbed Frema’s hand and urged her […]

Published on: 31 March 2014 by in General Issues, Heterosexual
Do Adult Romantic Relationships Survive without Sex? By Guest Contributor VV

Hmmmmm. My people. My people. My peeeeee-puhl. Matta don come oh. Matta don come. I, VV, lascivious lustful lecher, conscientious coticulturist celebrator of all things (con)sensual and lurid purveyor of all chopping-related ns3mbone have recently come to not be a fan of sex.   Who? How? What? Where? Sake of why? Chale. Because it turns […]

Published on: 30 March 2014 by in General Issues
‘Body Rocking’ by Guest Contributor Nubian Beauty

I wait for you Patiently, silently Willing the currents in my body To reach out and drown you Bring you to the depth of my warm slick core Wash over you with gentle loving Saying It’s time   I never wait too long For if you do not, cannot, come to me I must do […]

Published on: 30 March 2014 by in Lover of Her Sole, Series
LOHS: A Treasured Sole

“Sit there, and don’t move until I tell you to.” Furious. There was no other word for the way Pomaa was feeling. She stepped into the shower and waited for a flood of other emotions to engulf her. She didn’t have to wait long. Soon to follow were “pissed off”, “stabbed in the back” and […]

Published on: 29 March 2014 by in General Issues

Did you miss this month’s Hang Out live on air? Don’t worry! We are here for you. Go ahead and press “play” to see the hilarious, serious and unscripted moments with Mac Jordan, Esosa E and Malaka’s Afro. The final question I asked each of our guests is: “If you have to choose between your […]