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Published on: 19 July 2013 by in General Issues
‘MakeItTsunami: My Pussy is the Revolution’ says Guest Contributor Miss Ruby Woo

The morning after: I am laying in bed, still (on a) high, listening to Crown Royal, thinking about the epicness that was last night. Oh last night? Last night was fierce. It was powerful. Sensual. Healing. So fucking erotic. Last nightwas a reminder of how enriching it is to let yourself get lost in pleasure […]

Published on: 18 July 2013 by in Fiction, LSD, Series
LSD: A Kraken on the Loose

The phone rang at ten o’clock that morning just as it had for the last two days. Khalid was calling again; and he would call again at four that afternoon and finally at nine at night. In between there would be an occasional text requesting Lerato to call him back, asking if everything was okay, […]

Published on: 17 July 2013 by in General Issues
Reader Query: ‘I’m attracted to older women’ says Kojo

Ages ago I received the email below in my Adventures inbox: Nana, I just wanna give u a very GRAND big-ups for all that u doing & also put my problem before u. Nana my problem is I have a very high attraction for older women, I always get a hard on when I see […]

Published on: 15 July 2013 by in Relationships
When is a relationship a RELATIONSHIP?

I’m not in a relationship Adebayo you are in a relationship I am telling you that I’m single You’re not single Nana am I married? I’m single Ah, how can you say you’re single? You’ve been with your girlfriend for 5 years. You’re in a relationship. That was the conversation between my friend and I […]

Published on: 14 July 2013 by in General Issues

Emeka adjusted the shower and stepped under the delicious pressure with a smile. He had every reason to smile, in a few minutes Nina would be here; he had left a key for her at the reception. Emeka felt a stirring at the thought of the fun evening promised ahead, at that moment the strains […]

Published on: 13 July 2013 by in General Issues
‘Rape: A near miss’ by Guest Contributor Sasha

Before this week, I thought rape was some far-off concept, an event that only happened to the blonde girls in movies or women who walked alone at night. Never would I have guessed that it could happen to me and by someone I knew and trusted for years. The back-story: I am an American woman […]

Published on: 12 July 2013 by in Creative Non Fiction

Waking up in my cousin’s bed was not how I planned to start my day but sh*t happens yo. *Benny and I first met some 6 years ago when his father decided to match make us and made us call each other while he was away and I was in school in Ghana. You see, […]

Published on: 10 July 2013 by in General Issues
Nairobi: #MakeItTsunami, an invite only pole dancing party

Many years ago I thought of signing up for pole dancing classes. I thought it would be fun. Plus pole dancers always have the most amazing bodies. And then I thought, “Maybe it’ll make my sex life even better?”. But somehow my pole dancing lessons never happened… And today I hear of #MakeItTsunami, an invite […]

Published on: 09 July 2013 by in Series, Sexy Times with Nnenna Marcia
Sexy Times with Nnenna Marcia: Rain

  For AM and SA_girl. I added one line just for you. See if you can spot it! **   “Ow! I will kill you, you fucker!” I struggled with Greg, while he delivered three more smacks. I bit his thigh almost breaking a tooth on what felt like denim-clad steel pipes. “Argh!” he shouted, […]

Published on: 08 July 2013 by in Fiction, Series, Sexy Times with Nnenna Marcia
Sexy Times with Nnenna Marcia: Rumbling thunder and flashes of lightning

I am not sure how I hadn’t looked around the first time I arrived; maybe I was too excited at seeing Greg again, but I remembered making an offhand remark about being introduced to his roommate. Now I really looked and I really saw. The drive from the gate to the front door lined with […]