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Published on: 20 February 2013 by in Creative Non Fiction, Heterosexual, Relationships

The first time So as you know, it all started with Paa Kwesi saying Ibrahim was dying to see me. I had treated HIM to lunch at the Mall and he called his cousin. He insisted that we meet up soon, and so we did on Friday night, I think it was. Maybe it was Saturday. I can’t remember. Anyway we went to dinner at the Mall, grabbed a quick bite to eat and then saw The Hobbit. He complimented me the ENTIRE time. He seemed ... 

Published on: 15 February 2013 by in Fiction, Series, Sexy Times with Nnenna Marcia

The light coming from the gap between the curtains was like a hot four-inch nail shoved into my eye socket. I inhaled sharply and jerked away from it, rolling too enthusiastically and ending up on the floor. “Ow.” If not for the pain reverberating throughout my body – and the fact that I could breathe, I could have sworn that someone had shoved me in water. My head swam. I could feel acid working its way up my throat ... 

Published on: 14 February 2013 by in General Issues
Guest Contributor Koliko: God does not accept wounds—story of an abused child

I am shocked that even up till now I can’t still write about abuse; mine. I live in a country where everything is given to God. Whereas this may not be an entirely bad thing, I’ve found God doesn’t accept the wounds of victims. We can leave perpetuators of abuse and violence in the hands of God, but those who suffer abuse need our hands too. The effect of abuse on a person is not something that goes away on its own. It ... 

Published on: 14 February 2013 by in General Issues
One Billion Rising: Rise in Love

The V-Day organization has asked 1 billion people to rise “to show the world our collective strength, our numbers, our solidarity across borders” and renew efforts to end violence against women. I would like to suggest that we replace violence with love, and that we start with the love of the self. How do you show love to yourself? How do you show love when the world tells you that you are unworthy of love? When it ... 

Published on: 12 February 2013 by in General Issues
One Billion Rising

I like the idea of an alternative valentine's day...like many of you I believe we should show love every day, and not on one day that has become overly commercialised. At the same time I think its helpful to have a day where we are reminded to show love, and love can be shown in a variety of ways. On previous valentine's days I have done a variety of things...had a romantic dinner at home with my (now ex) hubby, gone for ... 

Published on: 08 February 2013 by in Fiction, Series, Sexy Times with Nnenna Marcia

Wednesday “What is it about Christmas that makes everyone so crazy?” I asked watching the tippers dumping more sand on the floor. The driver released his load too quickly blowing a cloud of dust over everything. It was as if everyone was on fast forward on site and yet things were also not getting done quickly enough. There were delays everywhere. I could feel the patch of skin on my forehead hurting and I knew ... 

Published on: 04 February 2013 by in Fiction, Series, Sexy Times with Nnenna Marcia

Walking down the aisle in church the next day I couldn't help feeling self-conscious. It was Offering Time and it seemed the new vicar had rung in some changes. For one thing, there was a gospel band instead of the usual traditional instruments like the gong and drums to accompany our grateful steps all the way to the altar. The gospel band felt forced to me, trying to wrest joyful dancing from my reluctant steps, ... 

Published on: 31 January 2013 by in Fiction, Lesbian

Silly cow. Silly, sexy cow. I didn't even go to her college, but it seemed being friends with some of her friends on Facebook was enough to convince her that I did. She wrote something in reply which I can't even remember now and added me. I was in. From the moment she walked into the bar I knew, as I am sure she did. What kind of woman wants to meet up with a fan who has a crush on them? Heck, I'd run a mile. But ... 

Published on: 29 January 2013 by in Heterosexual, Lesbian, Relationships

I lie face down, ass in air, trying to drown out the grunts coming from behind me. My coochie is on fire and all my attention is focused on praying that this time I won’t have a slit when he is done. Balls slap my clit intermittently. I can’t concentrate enough to produce the pattern needed to induce my external orgasm. Earlier as we attempted foreplay, he said I looked indifferent. I had smiled apologetically at him, ... 

Published on: 28 January 2013 by in Creative Non Fiction, General Issues, Heterosexual, Relationships

Yesterday, I confessed to my friends that till I met my boyfriend, all the guys I dated had some kind of forceful sexual intercourse with me. Ladies, you know what I’m talking about- the kind of sex where you don’t want to do it but he wants to and so he pounds away and you come out with bruises and tears. I thought I was alone but surprisingly, all my friends shared similar experiences. And that got me incensed. I’m ... 

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