We think there is a serious lack of relevant and useful information about the sexuality of African women. This blog is a space for African women to share tips, experiences and more...
Published on: 29 June 2014 by in Fiction
‘Mwenda: A Short Story’ by Guest Contributor Kalya

Mwenda was straddled on top of Qata, topless; plaits tousled, white cotton sheets on the rustic bed, crinkled. Her dainty hands were wrapped around his strong neck. He was looking up at her with a bemused look on his face, a mischievous smirk. “Or I just kill you right now,” she declared exasperatedly. *** Qata […]

Published on: 20 June 2014 by in Relationships
‘I crave you now’ by Guest Contributor by Sistaseeker

Flat. On. My. Back. That’s how I crave you now. I summon your scent into my room, my childhood bed where I nursed my first period cramp and my first unrequited love. There’s a comfort in my bed and the memories it holds. My bed knows all my folds. Knows how I lie when I […]

Published on: 20 June 2014 by in Sex education

One of the reasons we all connect so well on this space is because as African women, we have shared or similar experiences with our bodies. Of course there are those lucky anomalies out there who grew up with “non-traditional” African parents who created their own value system, but for the REST of us sex […]

Awkward! At least that’s how this situation felt. Dude was a total hunk and I was hot for him even before first date. I might not have spoken to him enough to get into his head. That’s the only way to explain my suddenly flat libido when the condom was in my hand and I […]

Published on: 16 June 2014 by in General Issues
Let’s talk about sex! For adults only

  Update: Watch via the recording via this link Apologies. The echo was terrible ************************************************************************************************************** This Thursday 19th June from 6pm-7pm GMT our Adventures Google hangout goes to the very core of why this site even exists. S.E.X. Yes, we shall be talking about sex in all its diversities, and the importance of sex education […]

Published on: 09 June 2014 by in Fiction
‘Sex in the Club’ by Guest Contributor Pam

When you own the club you do not really enjoy the night. So he watched. Motivation had just come on and he saw her, standing or really just dancing by herself, moving to Kelly Rowland’s motivation fluidly, swaying her ample hips to the rhythm. By herself. He moved to her slowly and asked ‘may i […]

Published on: 29 May 2014 by in General Issues
Listen to Nana Darkoa’s interview on BBC Focus on Africa

Akwasi Sarpong interviewed me for BBC Focus on Africa. If you missed the live broadcast earlier today you can listen again by clicking here  

Published on: 28 May 2014 by in VLOGS
Watch a recording of Malaka and Nana Darkoa talking about Maya Angelou, Sex and African Women

I’m editing this post so that those who missed the livestream of yesterday’s google hangout know to watch the recording via this link Malaka and I talked about everything from Maya Angelou and what she taught us about sex and writing to our respective relationships, and answered questions that were sent in during the stream. […]