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Published on: 30 October 2013 by in Creative Non Fiction, Lesbian, Relationships
Almost Dead

I tried to commit suicide this year. I intentionally overdosed on pain medication and the last thing I remember before I passed out was the jarring pain in my stomach, the bitter taste in my mouth and the sensation of floating out of my body. As I stared down at my round body wearing an […]

Published on: 28 October 2013 by in Fiction
‘Dispatch from Rombesia’ by Guest Contributor Lace and Saffron

Eyes closed, swift shallow breaths, racing pulse. My body shuddered and I refused to move, allowing the pleasurable sensations to reverberate throughout my body – it felt good. He moved to withdraw from me then had a wicked change of heart and bumped his shaft against my still sensitive clitoris. I gasped and drew in […]

Published on: 25 October 2013 by in General Issues
‘Bisexual or Confused?’ by Guest Contributor Rakgadi

I am what a lot of people call bisexual, or am I?. I am eldest of three sisters and I have a big brother who is 6yrs older than me. Grew up such a loner, thought nobody understood me. I was always stuck in a corner somewhere with a book. By the time I was […]

Published on: 25 October 2013 by in Creative Non Fiction, Gran, Heterosexual, Relationships
Before the Sunset

*Thanks to everyone for your thoughts, prayers, healing vibes &  well-wishes. My grandmother has finally been  released from the hospital & her condition has been stabilized. I called her & she wept on the phone which was really hard for me because I have never seen my gran cry. She said, ‘I was so scared […]

Published on: 19 October 2013 by in General Issues, Lesbian
‘To Brazilian or not to Brazilian?’ asks Adwoa

This post was conceived during an unexpected and novel situation I found myself in yesterday. There I was, lying on my back in a public place with other people within earshot with my legs akimbo whilst an attractive female I had never met got to work servicing my vagina. No, this wasn’t my first foray […]

Published on: 18 October 2013 by in Relationships
‘Good loving over the lights of Lagos’ by Guest Contributor Vortex

You are lying over me, we are connected as you are deeply inside and you are looking not just at me but into me. The mental connection is not all together unexpected but still takes me a little by surprise, how is it I feel so comfortable with you? As we lean towards each other […]

Published on: 15 October 2013 by in General Issues

    As I mentioned in the vlog, I didn’t have my first sexually induced orgasm until two years into my marriage. It’s not because my husband is a crap lover, but rather because I had 18 years’ of experience of playing at the same role: faking the achievement of absolute pleasure. Eventually, with some […]

Published on: 13 October 2013 by in Fiction

Emeka adjusted the shower and stepped under the delicious pressure with a smile. He had every reason to smile, in a few minutes Nina would be here; he had left a key for her at the reception. Emeka felt a stirring at the thought of the fun evening promised ahead, at that moment the strains […]

Published on: 10 October 2013 by in Relationships

You know that deep longing pain one has when they miss someone they love so much? Well, it was one of those days that I just longed to be with my long time friend and lover, Pete. I called him and we set an appointment for later on in the evening so we could do […]

Published on: 07 October 2013 by in Creative Non Fiction, Gran, Heterosexual, Relationships
A dream come true

*I sneaked into Yaw Obeng’s room at sunset. I knew that no one would be expecting me home for a couple of hours because I usually spent some time by the riverside every evening just to clear my head. I also knew that there would be no one in his hut at that time of […]