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Adventures From the Bedrooms of African Women

Adventures From the Bedrooms of African Women.

Author: Nana Darkoa

Video: How can single women stay safe?

Video: How can single women stay safe?

In Creative Non FictionPublish DateJuly 30, 20186 Comments Nana Darkoa
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Don’t sex the ex: Nana D’s rules for breaking up and staying apart

Don’t sex the ex: Nana D’s rules for breaking up and staying apart

In Creative Non FictionPublish DateJuly 21, 201813 Comments Nana Darkoa

Just over two months ago, my three-year-old relationship came to an end. Or more accurately, I ended the partnership I had been in. It wasn’t an easy decision to make. We had been planning a future …

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IVF journeys: the worst part is…

IVF journeys: the worst part is…

In Creative Non FictionPublish DateJune 13, 20188 Comments Nana Darkoa

The worst part of going through in vitro fertilisation (IVF) were the drugs. Setting my alarm to take the tablets on time, mixing liquids with powder and drawing the solution up into the syringe, lifting up …

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Finding pleasure: a song or poem

Finding pleasure: a song or poem

In General IssuesPublish DateMay 17, 20184 Comments Nana Darkoa

Turn the lights down low Light some candles Deep red ones Mellow white ones Fill the room with your favourite scents The smell of passionfruit Of lavender Of rose Allow your sheets to caress you Allow …

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Men: if you hate period sex, you have issues

Men: if you hate period sex, you have issues

In Creative Non FictionPublish DateMay 11, 201818 Comments Nana Darkoa

Nana, can you imagine that Auntie Rose came to town today? It’s the worst possible timing. I am flying tomorrow to Berlin to meet up with Kofi. I am desperate for some good action and now …

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Join our twitter chat with the editors of #SheCalledMeWoman

Join our twitter chat with the editors of #SheCalledMeWoman

In Creative Non FictionPublish DateApril 28, 20181 Comment Nana Darkoa

I am super excited to share that I will be facilitating a twitter chat with Azeenarh Mohammed, Chitra Nagarajan, and Rafeeat Aliyu, the editors of #SheCalledMeWoman on Friday, 4th May at 1 pm GMT via @adventurefrom #SheCalledMeWoman …

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Happy Valentine’s Day: Love and Lust wins in our books

Happy Valentine’s Day: Love and Lust wins in our books

In General IssuesPublish DateFebruary 14, 2018Leave a comment Nana Darkoa

We love you. Yes, YOU. We love you cos you read Adventures, you share your stories of sex and sexualities and you’re committed to understanding what brings you pleasure. Our special gift to you today is …

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‘Sexy African Visuals’ by Adventures from the Bedrooms of African Women & HOLAA!

‘Sexy African Visuals’ by Adventures from the Bedrooms of African Women & HOLAA!

In General IssuesPublish DateDecember 13, 20179 Comments Nana Darkoa

Over the past few months, Malaka, I and our friends at HOLAA! have been working with a talented artist (spoiler: my partner) to create an amazing set of illustrations depicting African women’s diverse sexualities. We are …

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The sexy bits in ‘When we speak of nothing’ by Olumide Popoola

The sexy bits in ‘When we speak of nothing’ by Olumide Popoola

In General IssuesPublish DateNovember 26, 20173 Comments Nana Darkoa

One of my pet peeves is when authors skim over details in describing sex. When the act of two or more people fucking, making love, being intimate is glossed over or merely implied. I recognise that …

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Video: Nana Darkoa reads ‘Three is definitely not a crowd’

Video: Nana Darkoa reads ‘Three is definitely not a crowd’

In EroticaPublish DateNovember 8, 2017Leave a comment Nana Darkoa

I had a lot of fun sharing, reading and being in conversation with the SOAS community about my passion and work documenting the diverse stories around African women, sex and sexualities. Some of you may be …

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Adventures From The Bedrooms Of African Women Adventures from the Bedrooms of African Women began as a popular blog for African women to speak openly about their sex lives. The podcast, hosted by Ghanaian founders Nana Darkoa Sekyiamah and Malaka Grant, carries on in this tradition, exploring African women’s experiences of sex, sexuality and pleasure.

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"Of course I'm not ashamed of you  Ohene."

After Selorm finally posts a photo of her and her partner, she's woken up by a very hurt Ohene, who cannot understand her aversion to post each other. All that's needed is an open honest discussion.

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"Of course I`m not ashamed of you Ohene."

After Selorm finally posts a photo of her and her partner, she`s woken up by a very hurt Ohene, who cannot understand her aversion to post each other. All that`s needed is an open honest discussion.

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Why do we never see fat asian women?

Obviously overweight Asian women DO exist, but Nobuhle recalls a moment that made her realise just how underrepresented they are - to the point where we as foreigners sometimes have to ask, "Do fat asian women exist?".

Check out The Fat and Horny Podcast by @becomingubu  on Spotify or wherever you get your podcasts.

Why do we never see fat asian women?

Obviously overweight Asian women DO exist, but Nobuhle recalls a moment that made her realise just how underrepresented they are - to the point where we as foreigners sometimes have to ask, "Do fat asian women exist?".

Check out The Fat and Horny Podcast by @becomingubu on Spotify or wherever you get your podcasts.
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"You know what’s funny but dangerously 
not funny?"

When you have been raised by people who know only childbearing as their calling, you can see how any slight debate may turn you into an Outlaw.

Click the links in our stories and bio to read Outlaws; a poem from Highest Kite's Rebel series!

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"You know what’s funny but dangerously
not funny?"

When you have been raised by people who know only childbearing as their calling, you can see how any slight debate may turn you into an Outlaw.

Click the links in our stories and bio to read Outlaws; a poem from Highest Kite`s Rebel series!

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"Make that baby ✨️SHINE!✨️"

You heard Guncle. Put a bow and some glitter on it, foolish boy.

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"Make that baby ✨️SHINE!✨️"

You heard Guncle. Put a bow and some glitter on it, foolish boy.

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"Once upon a time, we all had dreams."

Life changes very quickly and can make it difficult to hold onto the carefree and exciteable nature you had once entered the world with. But you can always find that love and pride once again.

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"Once upon a time, we all had dreams."

Life changes very quickly and can make it difficult to hold onto the carefree and exciteable nature you had once entered the world with. But you can always find that love and pride once again.

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"My mama taught me never to complain or talk back to a man."
When you've been taught to accept abuse since before you learned your name, will you ever reach a point where the abuse finally becomes unacceptable?

Click the link in our stories and bio to read RAMATU'S DREAM (PART 1) now!

"My mama taught me never to complain or talk back to a man."
When you`ve been taught to accept abuse since before you learned your name, will you ever reach a point where the abuse finally becomes unacceptable?

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"whatever

My face is wet

  whatever

My heart is heavy

  whatever"

"Always I Sing" is a poem from the ‘Rebel’ series Written by Highest Kite.

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"whatever

My face is wet

whatever

My heart is heavy

whatever"

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Cockypops. What more needs to be said?

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Cockypops. What more needs to be said?

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"However, as the week winds down I begin to experience a different kinda throbbing."

With nothing but exhaustion seeping into your very bones day after day, sometimes all one needs is a little solo action to relieve the stress.

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"However, as the week winds down I begin to experience a different kinda throbbing."

With nothing but exhaustion seeping into your very bones day after day, sometimes all one needs is a little solo action to relieve the stress.

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Facesitting fears as a fat woman
From Episode 5: Accepting my fatness helped improve my sex life.

Check out The Fat and Horny Podcast (by @becomingubu ) on Spotify, Apple or wherever you get your podcasts.

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Facesitting fears as a fat woman
From Episode 5: Accepting my fatness helped improve my sex life.

Check out The Fat and Horny Podcast (by @becomingubu ) on Spotify, Apple or wherever you get your podcasts.

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