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Posts Tagged ‘Sex’

Published on: 08 April 2014 by in Fiction
Tuesday, April 8th, 2014

This is a multi part story. Click here to read part 1. Here to read part 2. Here to read part 3. “Please tell me this is not the only time we are going to do this”. Nnenna and I looked at each other and started laughing. “Come on guys, this can’t be a one off ” Kunle insisted. “You just need to focus on enjoying the moment” I responded whilst still laughing. I was amazed how comfortable I felt entangled in a hotel’s bed sheets ...  [Read more]

Published on: 31 March 2014 by in General Issues, Heterosexual
Do Adult Romantic Relationships Survive without Sex? By Guest Contributor VV
Monday, March 31st, 2014

Hmmmmm. My people. My people. My peeeeee-puhl. Matta don come oh. Matta don come. I, VV, lascivious lustful lecher, conscientious coticulturist celebrator of all things (con)sensual and lurid purveyor of all chopping-related ns3mbone have recently come to not be a fan of sex.   Who? How? What? Where? Sake of why? Chale. Because it turns out the female body is a landmine of issues and it was my turn to step on one of those ...  [Read more]

Published on: 26 March 2014 by in General Issues
‘The God of Sex’ by Guest Contributor Voluptuous Voltarian
Wednesday, March 26th, 2014

  The comedian, Katt Williams, has this silly joke in one of his stand-up specials where he says that he doesn't understand people who don't believe in God because he doesn't know who they call when they cum, and, after all, if fucking cannot include a few exclamations of “Oh my God!” or “Oh Lord Jesus, that feels soooo good,” then what use is it?   The joke makes me laugh. Cos he is sooo wrong, chale.  There might be ...  [Read more]

Published on: 04 March 2014 by in Relationships
‘Three doesn’t have to be a crowd’ by Guest Contributor Nubian Beauty
Tuesday, March 4th, 2014

If I take a little bit of this May I have a little bit of that?   If she touches me here Surely I can touch you there?   And if you kiss her so Why would she tell me no?   If your moans are anything to go by Then I can’t help but sigh   And tremble And quiver And shake And love you And love her And watch her love you   Sweat drops ...  [Read more]

Published on: 30 January 2014 by in Relationships
Blurred boundaries: Threesomes and friendships by Guest Contributor Kuuks
Thursday, January 30th, 2014

#1 I oil up, switching between the non-scented and scented. Don't quite know what to do with myself So I write while you shower I lie here not sure if I can imagine you in there or not What do friends do when they’ve been playing around for a while Toying with the idea of a three-some I wonder what boundaries exist between friends who want to still stay friends After it’s all over   You return from the ...  [Read more]

Published on: 21 January 2014 by in Fiction
Three is definitely not a crowd (Part 3)
Tuesday, January 21st, 2014

Nnenna’s head was lying sideways on the pillow such that she faced me whilst her butt was high up in the air. Kunle rolled on a condom and applied a generous proportion of Astroglide. He was at least 8 inches erect and had a good solid width on him. I inched closer and rubbed Nnenna’s left asscheek. I let my right palm rise up and land back on her bottom with a thud. “Harder” she said. I tried again. “Yes, that’s it”. At that ...  [Read more]

Published on: 17 January 2014 by in General Issues
Friday, January 17th, 2014

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Published on: 15 January 2014 by in General Issues
Wednesday, January 15th, 2014

Save the date people. Our very first Google hangout will take place this Friday, 17th January at 17:00 GMT. The topic for discussion will be 'Reconciling sex with our faith' and yes, that also includes 'no faith', all traditional religions...the conversation will be open and informal. I will facilitate the conversation with our resource people being Malaka, Ekuba and Ekene who is new to the Adventures family and so I am particularly looking ...  [Read more]

Published on: 15 January 2014 by in Fiction, Relationships
Three is definitely not a crowd (Part 2)
Wednesday, January 15th, 2014

At 6:55pm I walked into the expansive lounge of the Movenpick and turned right towards the ladies toilet. I had always loved those loos. I especially loved the spacious powder room, which were well fitted with stools and huge mirrors. I looked at myself in the mirror. Dark brown eyes stared back at me. I was so glad I had been to my favourite hair salon just a few days earlier. My two strand twists were looking good. I had used my fingers to ...  [Read more]

Published on: 12 January 2014 by in Abstinence, General Issues
‘Shall I remain a virgin?’ asks guest contributor Eleanor T.K.
Sunday, January 12th, 2014

Till this day I can hold a book (whether novel or guide) or a movie (be it a romantic comedy or those XXX demos) as responsible for most of what I know on the topic of sex.  Over the years I may have gleaned more from my friends experiences but most of them just went to confirm either this or that which I had read in one of my varied books. I am the Go-to Girl amongst my friends, boys and girls alike. The one they come to with their ...  [Read more]

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