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Published on: 24 October 2014 by in Relationships
Friday, October 24th, 2014

I had been somewhat submissive in bed in the last two sessions so I wanted to treat Mudiwa to a hint of surprise. After we had done the preliminaries of kissing, caressing and we stood face to face, him with his shorts only as I had stripped off his shirt. I asked him to sit at the edge of the bed and I blindfolded him. Told him not to peek. I talked to him whilst I removed ALL my clothes and returned to kiss him. I took his hands and placed him ...  [Read more]

Published on: 23 October 2014 by in Creative Non Fiction, Relationships
Thursday, October 23rd, 2014

Mudiwa and I stood face to face in our room as we started kissing each other. He kissed me slowly and grabbed the back of my neck and squeezed it as he kissed me harder this time and with more passion. I let go of his waist and took his face between my palms and kissed him deeply, I placed my tongue at the tip of his upper lip and sucked on it gently as I quickly twisted my lips to nibble at his lower lip. Yes, we were at it again. No matter ...  [Read more]

Published on: 17 October 2014 by in Lesbian
Friday, October 17th, 2014

It was night, and the fan was whirring loudly against the sound of insects outside my window. I groaned and rolled in my bed, pressing my hand between my thighs. My night dress was pushed up to my hips, and I was horny as hell. Abena was in town. That's all I could think about. She was in town, and I wasn't fucking her. Sure, her flight had just arrived an hour ago, and she would be spending the night at her mother's house. But I wanted her ...  [Read more]

Published on: 01 October 2014 by in General Issues
‘The Mouth is For Eating’ by Guest Contributor Okwevulgar
Wednesday, October 1st, 2014

Every heterosexual man should love to eat pussy, even His Excellency Yoweri Kaguta Museveni, though nobody wants that image in their head, so I apologise and promise never to bring it up again. Every heterosexual man should love to eat pussy. Not all of you do, unfortunately, perhaps because you grew up being told that girls are dirty, or in very religious household, or both (probably both). Maybe you are inexperienced and never got a chance ...  [Read more]

Published on: 30 September 2014 by in Creative Non Fiction
‘The Perfect Night’ by Guest Contributor Grace
Tuesday, September 30th, 2014

I had been toying with the idea of inviting Mudiwa on one of my many business trips but I was so scared. The fear emanated from a deep sense of knowing that I wanted him so badly but was not sure whether it would be a worthwhile risk or one of those “damn I wasted my time and it gets awkward” kind of moments. So one day as we were doing our usual back and forth chatting I asked him to come through so we could travel together - I did not ...  [Read more]

Published on: 30 September 2014 by in Fiction
‘Rated X’ by Guest Contributor Pamela
Tuesday, September 30th, 2014

Anne stood staring at the view from she and her husband's room, with a contented smile on her face. It had been a good year. Apparently married life agreed with her much more than she had thought. It wasn't boring or dull or tedious. And just last week she had caught herself at work smiling just at the thought of coming home. She was growing soft, she chuckled softly. “Why are we laughing babe?” Myron slipped his left hand around his ...  [Read more]

Published on: 07 September 2014 by in Fiction
Sunday, September 7th, 2014

Dinner was quiet and uncomfortable that night. If it weren’t for the random fits of laughter the twins erupted in. Kodjo set the last two steaks on the table and speared the thickest one and watched with amusement as his two sons squabbled over who would eat the last one. Diane sipped her sweet tea pensively while Khadijah avoided her father’s gaze. Kodjo sawed his meat into cubes and asked his question around the masticating food in his ...  [Read more]

Published on: 15 August 2014 by in Creative Non Fiction
“God Must Be a Man’ by Guest Contributor Ingrid
Friday, August 15th, 2014

She took the long way home. She knew she needed to clear her head and that once she arrived at home all semblance of privacy was out the door. She lived in a one bedroom apartment with her mother and two sisters. As she walked she pondered her predicament. She had always said that God had to be a man because why else would women have to be the ones to bear the burden of having children? Why else would women’s so called “dark deeds” show in ...  [Read more]

Published on: 03 August 2014 by in Creative Non Fiction
Sunday, August 3rd, 2014

“You are solid,” he said as he patted my thighs. I smiled and asked if this was a bad thing. I don’t recall his answer. I’ve gained 45 pounds over the past 7 years since I first visited this island in 2007. For those who knew me when I weighed 120lbs, this is a lot. I’ve crossed over from wearing 2s and 4s to 8s. I’ve heard that the only people that matter in this case are me, myself, and I. If I am happy and ok with it, then ...  [Read more]

Published on: 01 August 2014 by in General Issues
‘The Complications of Being A Shrewd Virgin’ by Guest Contributor Eleanor T.K
Friday, August 1st, 2014

Certain words flow in vein with the term virgin; naïve, unadulterated, pure, immature, wet-behind-the-ears etc. None of these words would appropriately describe me. I don’t need to be told not to drink in the company of a guy I don’t trust completely, I am not naïve. The unadulterated girl would not have watched her cousins XXL videos in the dark on her cousins’ laptop then wiped previous play history. The pure one, won’t have ...  [Read more]

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