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Published on: 15 August 2014 by in Creative Non Fiction
“God Must Be a Man’ by Guest Contributor Ingrid
Friday, August 15th, 2014

She took the long way home. She knew she needed to clear her head and that once she arrived at home all semblance of privacy was out the door. She lived in a one bedroom apartment with her mother and two sisters. As she walked she pondered her predicament. She had always said that God had to be a man because why else would women have to be the ones to bear the burden of having children? Why else would women’s so called “dark deeds” show in ...  [Read more]

Published on: 03 August 2014 by in Creative Non Fiction
Sunday, August 3rd, 2014

“You are solid,” he said as he patted my thighs. I smiled and asked if this was a bad thing. I don’t recall his answer. I’ve gained 45 pounds over the past 7 years since I first visited this island in 2007. For those who knew me when I weighed 120lbs, this is a lot. I’ve crossed over from wearing 2s and 4s to 8s. I’ve heard that the only people that matter in this case are me, myself, and I. If I am happy and ok with it, then ...  [Read more]

Published on: 01 August 2014 by in General Issues
‘The Complications of Being A Shrewd Virgin’ by Guest Contributor Eleanor T.K
Friday, August 1st, 2014

Certain words flow in vein with the term virgin; naïve, unadulterated, pure, immature, wet-behind-the-ears etc. None of these words would appropriately describe me. I don’t need to be told not to drink in the company of a guy I don’t trust completely, I am not naïve. The unadulterated girl would not have watched her cousins XXL videos in the dark on her cousins’ laptop then wiped previous play history. The pure one, won’t have ...  [Read more]

Published on: 04 July 2014 by in Lesbian, Relationships
Friday, July 4th, 2014

I am horny. Again. I could take care of it myself, or wait for my husband to get home. Increasingly however, I find that it's not dick I think about on some of those days when my husband is away on business and I have to make like a physician and 'heal myself'. It's not what I want. On those days I crave the taste of a warm, slimy pussy and no man,  not even a buck naked Michael Ealy could convince me to stick to dick - and you know he fine ...  [Read more]

Published on: 29 June 2014 by in Fiction
‘Mwenda: A Short Story’ by Guest Contributor Kalya
Sunday, June 29th, 2014

Mwenda was straddled on top of Qata, topless; plaits tousled, white cotton sheets on the rustic bed, crinkled. Her dainty hands were wrapped around his strong neck. He was looking up at her with a bemused look on his face, a mischievous smirk. “Or I just kill you right now,” she declared exasperatedly. *** Qata had been Mwenda’s childhood crush, those years ago. He was then in his mid-twenties, she, a young teen. He used to visit her ...  [Read more]

Published on: 20 June 2014 by in Relationships
‘I crave you now’ by Guest Contributor by Sistaseeker
Friday, June 20th, 2014

Flat. On. My. Back. That’s how I crave you now. I summon your scent into my room, my childhood bed where I nursed my first period cramp and my first unrequited love. There’s a comfort in my bed and the memories it holds. My bed knows all my folds. Knows how I lie when I am happy or hurting. My bed holds me, the way I imagine my mother’s womb held me and allowed me to grow, allowed me to live. Like right now-my bed knows I want you in it. I ...  [Read more]

Published on: 16 June 2014 by in General Issues
Let’s talk about sex! For adults only
Monday, June 16th, 2014

  Update: Watch via the recording via this link Apologies. The echo was terrible ************************************************************************************************************** This Thursday 19th June from 6pm-7pm GMT our Adventures Google hangout goes to the very core of why this site even exists. S.E.X. Yes, we shall be talking about sex in all its diversities, and the importance of sex education for adults. ...  [Read more]

Published on: 14 June 2014 by in General Issues
Vagina R&B: Queen of Vagina
Saturday, June 14th, 2014

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Published on: 09 June 2014 by in Fiction
‘Sex in the Club’ by Guest Contributor Pam
Monday, June 9th, 2014

When you own the club you do not really enjoy the night. So he watched. Motivation had just come on and he saw her, standing or really just dancing by herself, moving to Kelly Rowland's motivation fluidly, swaying her ample hips to the rhythm. By herself. He moved to her slowly and asked 'may i dance with you? She looked him over, once, twice because she was checking him out, then nodded assent. He slipped behind her as she stood there ...  [Read more]

Published on: 05 June 2014 by in General Issues
Thursday, June 5th, 2014

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