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Adventures From the Bedrooms of African Women

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How To Stay Single 

In General IssuesPublish DateJune 16, 20223 Comments Guest

By Muthoni Njoki I have been single all the twenty-something years I’ve been living on this rock. This isn’t to mean that I haven’t dated people. After all, I am a parent to an amazing eight-year-old. But if you ask me, I have been single, I am single, and I will forever be single. I identified and still identify as single.  The running joke among my friends is that they can’t name one person I have been in a relationship …

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“I wish Nana was my wife”: Notes from a conversation with my watchman

“I wish Nana was my wife”: Notes from a conversation with my watchman

In Creative Non FictionPublish DateAugust 27, 201813 Comments Nana Darkoa

I recently sacked my watchman. Although I clearly told him why I was terminating our contract, he still called me at 10:45 pm a few nights ago because he wanted to pick up some belongings he …

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3 reasons why relationship are not all that

3 reasons why relationship are not all that

In General IssuesPublish DateNovember 5, 20172 Comments Nana Darkoa

Yesterday I had the pleasure of being in conversation with my sister-activist-friend Dr Njoki Wamai at an event hosted by the Queens College Feminist Society and FLY- Women of Colour Forum. One woman shared that she …

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Why modern African women choose to be single

Why modern African women choose to be single

In General IssuesPublish DateJanuary 30, 2014Leave a comment Nana Darkoa

I had a bit of a Eureka moment a few days ago after reading a post written by Afua over at Rambling Roommates. I’ve said to her (and numerous other sisters who’ve sought my advise about …

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Book Review of ‘Single, Spiritual AND Sexual’ by Ms A

Book Review of ‘Single, Spiritual AND Sexual’ by Ms A

In General IssuesPublish DateAugust 9, 20137 Comments Nana Darkoa

When Nana at ‘Adventures’ contacted me and asked if I’d review a self-help book written in a novel way about sex before marriage and spirituality, I instantly agreed. As an avid fan of self-help books and …

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When is a relationship a RELATIONSHIP?

When is a relationship a RELATIONSHIP?

In RelationshipsPublish DateJuly 15, 20139 Comments Nana Darkoa

I’m not in a relationship Adebayo you are in a relationship I am telling you that I’m single You’re not single Nana am I married? I’m single Ah, how can you say you’re single? You’ve been …

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Alternative Valentine’s Day for Singletons

Alternative Valentine’s Day for Singletons

In RelationshipsPublish DateJanuary 12, 20122 Comments Nana Darkoa

Now I know some of you will have mentally groaned ‘cos I’ve mentioned the V word, valentine – Sorry. But I found myself thinking about Valentine’s Day in the early hours of this morning. The last …

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The Happy Singleton…

The Happy Singleton…

In RelationshipsPublish DateJuly 28, 201121 Comments Nana Darkoa

The happy singleton, now that almost sounds like any oxymoron doesn’t it? A few days ago I was listening to one of Ghana’s most popular commercial stations, and heard an advert which more or less said, …

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Adventures From The Bedrooms Of African Women Adventures from the Bedrooms of African Women began as a popular blog for African women to speak openly about their sex lives. The podcast, hosted by Ghanaian founders Nana Darkoa Sekyiamah and Malaka Grant, carries on in this tradition, exploring African women’s experiences of sex, sexuality and pleasure.

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  • The Dating Olympics
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  1. R.R. on “I waited until 30 to have sex and I have some things to share…”July 4, 2025

    What I remember of my first time was that it shouldn’t have been him. It was one of the worst…

  2. Anon on My Unsolicited Soliloquy on Self-Discovery As A Feminist African WomanJune 25, 2025

    Highly highly relatable. Im in my 40s and still trying to recover.

  3. Amakason on You will remain single foreverJune 24, 2025

    This was such an honest and beautiful read. I can relate to you story. Men ehhh. God abeg

  4. Sheila on My Unsolicited Soliloquy on Self-Discovery As A Feminist African WomanJune 24, 2025

    I love this. Daughters are forced into responsibility and I'm not for it. I don't like cooking and I want…

  5. Miracle on The Hidden Sexual Experiences of Women in Their 50sJune 10, 2025

    Thank you so much Mercy!

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