[The following is a fictional BBM conversation between two friends]
Ato: What are you up to?
Hawwa: Not much. You?
Ato: I’m bored, hungry and horny
Hawwa: Wow! That exact combo? Lol
Ato: Yep!
Hawwa: Talking of horny…
Ato: Yes?
Hawwa: My friend and I have been thinking about having a threesome…
Ato: Are you serious?
Hawwa: Yep!
Ato: Another woman or a guy?
Hawwa: Another woman…and I want you to be the guy
Ato: I’m so in! Pun totally intended J
Hawwa: Lol!
Ato: So who is the other chick? Is she hot? Have you done her before?
Hawwa: Yeah she’s totally hot
Ato: And…
Hawwa: Yes I’ve hooked up with her before
Ato: I didn’t know you were into girls
Hawwa: I didn’t know I was into girls until recently
Ato: Wow! So when are we doing this? Tomorrow?
Hawwa: Nah, the other chick is out of the country, she’ll be back in a few weeks. So are you totally down with this?
Ato: Are you kidding? This is every man’s fantasy! I have been waiting my whole life to have a threesome. I’ll love you forever if you make this happen
Hawwa: Hahahaha. You’re crazy but that’s why you’re my friend. Me nah I’m not 100% sure but I’m very curious…
What do you think of threesomes? Have you ever participated in one? Are you curious? Is it a total no no? Can a couple in a loving relationship participate in a threesome and still maintain a loving relationship? Have you ever fantasized about threesomes?
Your thoughts?
26 comments On Threesomes: 2 girls and a guy
im very down for 3somes… i’ve done it a couple of times… i sugested it to my girl of over a yr and at first it was a noooooo from her den after a while she says shes gonna give me a 3some as my birthday present but she has to bring the girl…. my reply?…. hell yea u can do all the logistics
yea i tried it wiv an ex n it was totally mind blowing… I was soo into the girl n totally curious aba the lesbian side of me n i think the real me was born. However i think u must be really confident in ur r/ship to allow another person in(male or female) the girl n i havent hooked up since… My current guy is a bit traditional so its a no no but someday i hope to turn him around. And maybe even try out the converse 2 guys n me!!!
Freaky..
I don’t think you can have a healthy relationship with your lover or whoever after a threesome. But the idea of it….
@ginet: good luck with the 2 guys move. Dave Chappelle says guys have a “one penis per fantasy” rule…I believe him!
Never had one. Definitely a fantasy, don’t know how it would play out in reality
When you are in a serious relationship it is always adviceable to only introduce stuff that you have tried before.
If you haven’t tried a threesome then as always try it out in a no strings attached causal sex relationship. The problem with men as Chris Rock said, is that we never downgrade the sex we have. So if you introduce your man to a threesome you better be ready to give it to him for the rest of your life till you get him to like something else.
It’s like introducing a man to anal sex…..you know he is going to enjoy it, so don’t offer till you have tried it out and know you enjoy it too.
My personal experience…my sexmate offered me a threesome a couple of years ago. We now only hook up for threesomes and always with someone she picks as she is bi.
@Jay – So is your birthday past? Did the threesome happen?
@Ginet – Interesting. What did you mean when you said you think the real you was born?
@Nana Yaw – Why not?
@Ebony – Hahahaha
@Che – I’m with you there
@ No Balls – Hahahah, your comment made me laugh so much. But surely you should be able to try out new things within a committed relationship. i think in conventional committed relationships people may not be very adventurous but i’m sure there are successful exceptions
Nope not yet… My birthday. Is feb 13 …I’ll keep u*all posted…. Keepin my fingers crossed
🙂 @ Jay – Wow! That’s a long time for a build up…will be hoping for a Valentine’s day update 🙂
…..if he still has his cock intact, that is.
I’ve never done it but always wanted to, to satisfy the porn-star in me … And even while we were dating and in the first few months of marriage my husband and I half-heartedly discussed it. But, after only 2 yrs of marriage, I want it less now. Sex is more intimate with the hubby and I think there are more mind-blowing and adventurous things we can do together without introducing another player in the mix.
But I’ve not ruled it out; but I doubt it would ever be done in Ghana. Most likely on a particularly diirrttyy weekend in Amsterdam with the ‘help’ paid for.
Had a threesome twice and one time both women were into it and it was great- took turns fuckibg them after the other girl made her cum-
– the other time my cock scared one girl- she was only use to eating pussy and ate the other woman while I blew a big load into the other wonan’s mouth- she sucked my cock like never before while the other one ate her pussy so good. Now that I am married, not going to happen- women are too jealous!!!
Clyde, you dey lie!!!! 🙂
Eish. Clyde.
Eisish.
If only Clyde were lying oooo. It sounds all too true! LOL!!
@roots4life – hehehe
@Dede – If it does happen let us know okay…you could write a guest contribution 🙂
@ Clyde – Have you ever discussed this with your wife? i’m curious…
@Dede – Hahahaha, it does sound like something straight out of a porn movie but you never know right?
@Abena – Ei! how would you know huh?
@Lili Anne – Sorry I couldn’t approve your comment detailing a phone number to call if you’re a hot girl wanting to have a threesome with your cousin. I don’t particularly want my website to be used for solicitation
@Charles – Thanks for emailing me about the threesome but no thanks
Still carrying that fantasy around in my pocket
i do love your blog,,,kudos NANA DARKOA..
I’ve had quite a number of threesomes. One boy two girls, two boys and me and my best yet, me with two other girls.
Threesomes are awesome but they can be quite messy and tedious when you don’t know exactly what you’re doing. Also, two people could forget about one in the heat of ‘moments’.
There was this one time, I was eating out a girl and we were enjoying it so much that we forgot about the guy in the room. He wasn’t pleased to say the least.
@Naa – Wow, that’s quite some experience. Can you guest blog on threesomes for us? Pretty please? Send it to adventuresfrom[at]gmail.com
I’ll make time to do that. 🙂
ND, next time Naa is looking for volunteers….
I did a foursome if there is anything like that. Myself, a friend and two girls friends. We went paired ourselves for the first and we switched. I just wanted to have that experience and add it to my records. I think i wouldn’t mind if it is just an experience but for me it is a big NO if has to do with someone i love or my serious girlfriend.
I’m pretty sure anytime you have 4 order people engaged in a sex act in the same space and time it’s fair to classify it as an “orgy”.
Copy that. Thanx
3sum is cul..tried it thrice…mernnnnnnnnnnnnnn…last time was an hour before a flight to mozambique…will never 4get…waiting for the next time, now tht i am married..e go happen one day