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The Blues of Dating While Cohabiting With Family

In General IssuesPublish DateJune 21, 2022Leave a comment Makgosi

My baby brother and I  I’ve been struggling to write this because he is such a private person, but he’s featured enough in my tweets and other social media to not be a stranger to anyone who follows my work.  I’m 12 years older than him, and by virtue of being the first-born girl  – and the only girl – his birth transformed my life from carefree days to a nanny, literally overnight. He arrived at a bad time in …

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I Need to Buy a New Night Dress: Part 2

I Need to Buy a New Night Dress: Part 2

In General IssuesPublish DateMay 12, 2022Leave a comment Makgosi

When I was growing up my mother used to tell me that she was saving up money so that when she gets to her retirement age, she can have herself moved into an old age home …

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I Need to Buy a New Night Dress: Part 1

I Need to Buy a New Night Dress: Part 1

In General IssuesPublish DateMay 11, 2022Leave a comment Makgosi

I need to buy a new nightdress. The one I’ve been wearing is torn all the way down the armpit and around the neck. It’s an old nightdress so it’s paid its dues, so to speak. …

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Envious Grief

Envious Grief

In General IssuesPublish DateDecember 27, 2021Leave a comment Makgosi

I drafted this while I was in bed trying to check out of the dark cloud that I was feeling stuck under during one of my episodes of self-doubt. (This needs to come with a trigger …

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My Name Is

My Name Is

In General IssuesPublish DateDecember 21, 2021Leave a comment Makgosi

My name is … I was being interviewed for a TV segment about Disability the other day and I had to introduce myself on camera (Quite a few times; things you learn in the media!) and while …

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Things I Miss

Things I Miss

In General IssuesPublish DateNovember 24, 2021Leave a comment Makgosi

I became disabled in my mid-thirties. So I lived a lifetime as an able-bodied person, and I always wonder if anybody else who starts life as a disabled person ever misses the life they had before. …

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Disabled not Desperate

Disabled not Desperate

In General IssuesPublish DateNovember 17, 2021Leave a comment Makgosi

I’m on Tinder. I’m sure it’s common knowledge. If it’s not, well you know something about me now. So, my bio says “I’m looking for a summer romance”. Pretty simple right? You would think so. However, …

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Womanhood in Disability

Womanhood in Disability

In General IssuesPublish DateNovember 10, 2021Leave a comment Makgosi

What is womanhood to you? How do you define yours? Your essence?  It’s a question I get a lot; not only about my Womanhood but my Disability. I surprise myself with how patiently I respond every …

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What Does Forever Love Look Like

What Does Forever Love Look Like

In General IssuesPublish DateOctober 20, 2021Leave a comment Makgosi

Do you dream of a forever love?  A lot of us will probably respond with an affirmative “yes”. Romantic love, with all its ups and downs, is one of the revered things in the world. People …

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How I Navigate Loneliness As A Single Person

How I Navigate Loneliness As A Single Person

In General IssuesPublish DateSeptember 29, 20212 Comments Makgosi

I forgot what it’s like to be lonely. It’s a funny statement to make considering the times we are living in, with a pandemic outside and having spent the better part of the start of the …

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Colourism, Friendship and Love

Colourism, Friendship and Love

In General IssuesPublish DateSeptember 22, 20214 Comments Makgosi

My life is now online because of the Covid pandemic and other accessibility challenges for me as a vaccinated Disabled person. Hence, I am exposed to a lot of conversations that I would not be able …

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We're louding it for those at the back! Talk about We're louding it for those at the back!
Talk about your period, in as much excruciating detail as you'd like.

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What happens when me and @ami_tamakloe are off our What happens when me and @ami_tamakloe are off our meds and CHOOSE to host an hour of pure chaos? Find out now on #BadAdvice this week!
Adventurersssss, Sexual Utopia is getting closer a Adventurersssss, Sexual Utopia is getting closer and closer with each day. Have you gotten your ticket yet? This is how we'll goan enjoy and leave you o. Look sharp and follow the link in our bio or stories to purchase your ticket now.

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We were today years old when we found out that the We were today years old when we found out that the human clitoris doesn't have 8,000 nerve endings. It's an udderly ridiculous figure based on a study done on cows. Sha we couldn't know alone so we said let's tell you too. You're welcome.

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It's bisexual awareness week! There are several m It's bisexual awareness week!

There are several misconceptions about being bisexual. It's important to challenge and dispel these myths to create a more inclusive and accepting society where people of all sexual orientations feel validated and respected.

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What do vaginal tape worms and comic conventions h What do vaginal tape worms and comic conventions have in common? Tune in to this week’s episode of #BadAdvice to find out!
This is it, people! The countdown before we get do This is it, people! The countdown before we get down is just about done. Let us tell you, this season feels like another WINNER. You’ve heard all about our incredible guests including the Open Oppelts, Yvonne Orji, THEE Mona Eltahawy and so many more. This season we’re asking each of our guests to share a sexy secret and you don’t want to miss out on the gist. 😊
Now all YOU have to do is tune in tomorrow, September 18th, on any platform where you get your podcasts. There’s nowhere you can’t find us. If you think we are there, we are there! 😂

Thank you to our magnificent team at @aqstudiospodcasts for all the hard work behind the scenes. Thank you to @freddieboswell our producer sent by the grace of the ancestors. And thank you to each of our amazing guests who shared their time, wisdom and insights this season. We love you all! #africanpodcast #aqstudio #womeninpodcasting
#SexualUtopia is BACK! Think satisfying serene day #SexualUtopia is BACK! Think satisfying serene days and hot stormy nights. Whatever your idea of a sexual utopia is, we can guarantee that the #AdventureLive festival has got it. 🥹

We’re teaming up again with the incredible ministers of pleasure and party affairs over at Kaz Entertainment, led by the incomparable @kazkarenlucas herself. 

Head over to www.adventuresfrom.com to get your tickets (on the link that conveniently says “tickets”) to score your entry before advanced tix sell out. Come and let’s be sexy in the day time.
Your straight cousin is about to marry a gaygay. H Your straight cousin is about to marry a gaygay. How do you reveal this without outing yourself? We don’t know, but tune into bad advice to get our unhelpful tips on what to do next!
Agents of chaos and disruption, we will air a litt Agents of chaos and disruption, we will air a little early this week! Take note and adjust your calendar. You know you don't want to miss it! This week's questions are especially chaotic. Stay tuned.

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We're creating a magazine, and we want YOUR storie We're creating a magazine, and we want YOUR stories.

At Adventures, we believe in the power of authentic storytelling. We believe that by sharing our personal experiences, we can inspire and empower others. Whether it's your own story or that of someone close to you, we want to hear it.

Go to our website for more details.

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"Is marriage rightly the endgame reality we’ve b "Is marriage rightly the endgame reality we’ve been sold? What does this norm look like for queer people queering the norm? Is this all entrenched in an unhealthy culture of possession and control?" 

 @audreyobuobisadarko shares herr perspective on The Ultimatum: Queer Love. Follow the link in our bio to read the full article.

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On world sexual health day, here's a quick reminde On world sexual health day, here's a quick reminder that consent is a very necessary part of relationships. 

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Your mother in law is reposting your sexual activi Your mother in law is reposting your sexual activities to your teen daughter. What do you do to get her to STOPPPP? These and other questions on tonight’s episode of Tea Baggon Ball Z!
It's a good day to have an orgasm. Or multiple org It's a good day to have an orgasm. Or multiple orgasms. or simultaneous orgasms. It's up to you, really. Happy Weekend!

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now more than ever, celebrating pleasure is the pa now more than ever,
celebrating pleasure is the part of the resistance that is effortless, self-healing & rest-giving

pleasure is ours.
pleasure power

Follow the link in our bio to read the full piece by @naba.goddess

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Today, acknowledge the beautiful person you are, r Today, acknowledge the beautiful person you are, rare in your uniqueness. Happy new week!

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It’s another night of chaos and confusion! Tonig It’s another night of chaos and confusion! Tonight we tackle diamond rings and clitoris stings. Catch the replay here!
What our guncle said. Period. #adventuresfrom #ba What our guncle said. Period.

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When the erotica writers said "heat pooled between When the erotica writers said "heat pooled between her thighs", this was their inspiration 🤭

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