[ I’m excited to post my first audio blog for Adventures. Hoping to introduce more innovation to the site. Enjoy the audio. And for those who like text, you still have that as an option. Please click link below to listen to the audio blog]
I’ve had a few people ask me, ‘So how does one use a vibrator’? And that’s a question that has always stopped me in my tracks because it makes me think ‘So how did I learn to use a vibrator’?
I bought my first vibrator at an Ann Summers party (Ann Summers is a chain of sex shops in the UK), and the Ann Summers sales rep had a variety of vibrators for sale including ‘The Rabbit’. I can’t quite remember clearly but I think she did demonstrations…buzzing the ears of the Rabbit against her hand for e.g. but I was sold. I went home with my very own Rabbit and since then I’ve always had a toy or three in my life.
So how does one use a vibrator? You can use a vibe in numerous ways. On your own, with a partner… or virtually any sexual permutation you find yourself in. When I’m on my own for e.g. I like to get into the mood before bringing out my chosen toy. Reading good erotica often gets me in the mood, especially lesbian erotica. When I’m good and ready the toy can come out to play.
Other times I use my toy to get my partner excited. A lot of men (and women) are turned on by watching a woman play with herself…so playing with yourself whilst using a toy can be even more exciting. And of course you get excited in the process too so that’s a win win for all.
My final vibe tip (which I’ve definitely shared before) is to use your vibe whilst in the doggy style position. If you can time it perfectly you may even be able to succeed in the holy grail of the multiple orgasm.
Have fun practising
26 comments On So how does one use a vibrator? (An audio and text blog)
Well saddle me up and call me Indiana Jones! I’m all about that “holy grail!”
Nana! I died…u said lesbian erotica….Africans are not ready for this ooooooooo!!!!
che che che!!!!! There’s a sex toy shop around my hood….the lady that runs it looks like the devil himself, reincarnated from hell onto earth….I’ve never been back. she scuurrrry.wat to do?
@African Mami – Ready or not….#LesbianErotica rocks 🙂 Hahahaahah re scary lady. Shop online…
@ African Mami…LMAO. You’re always cracking me up.
I don’t care if a woman is single or in a relationship. A vibrator (bullet, dildo, eggs, the clamps) of any sort is a MUST. I introduced myself to these toys 2 years ago. I think female have to be educated and empowered. If, I knew about these things (self-stimulation) prior to having sex in my late teens, I would still be a virgin. There is no right or wrong way to use a vibrator. 1. Be confident 2. Be empower 3. Experiment 4. Know your body 5. Know what stimulates and brings pleasure. +++++++You’re always in CONTROL.
@ Nana…thanks so much for posting this entry. I’ve been going crazy all week checking this website for new ATSs. Malakaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa….Please, I need my HIGH. You have me cold sweating, twitching, itching……I really need a dose of ATS.
@RedD – Preach!!! And you’re welcome
Why stop at audio only, Nana D? 🙂 😉
By the way, this is pretty hot; I recommend that couples listen to this together while trying out the vibe, triple delight….
@Kofi Ametewee – Thank you 🙂 I will try vlogging one of these days but it won’t be risque
Maaaaallllllaaaaakkkkaaaa,why are u being sooo mean?whyyy?
How could u deliberately starve me of ATS for almost a week?that’s sooo not nice of u,totally unforgivable.U have no idea how many times I have come in a day hoping to find a new post on ATS. As for this one die3,u must compensate with like four(4)new installment @ a go!Pls take note.
Now to the matter of the rabbit,I’m a soon to be new entrant &i believe this post wld help a lot!*wink*
since i started visiting this site, i have dreamt and talked about the rabbit so much, some of my friends are convinced i have 1. i should get me 1 soon!! thanks for the sextoy-ed. lol
@Ozohu – You’re welcome 🙂
MALAKA!!! you’re alive and well(i hope)!!!!!!! Thank God! Now feed us ASAP pleeeeeeeeeeeeeeeease!!!!!
unfortunately, i’ve never used a vibe, i usually go manual, anyway, is de a sex shop in Ghana?
I agree with everyone else on ATS, Malaka please!
@Pink……yes oo….there r sex shops in Gh……in accra, there’s one on the spintex rd, one on the oxford st, airport residential area (I think nana did post on that one..) and a couple of online shops. Happy hunting……
@Ranv – Unfortunately the one in Airport closed down, and from what I hear so did the ones in Osu and Spintex
I bought my 1st rabbit a few years back when i lived in the uk. unfortunately i felt kind of guilty anytime i tried to use it. I eventually gave up and gave it away. After visiting this blog a few times, i felt enpowered and ordered another a couple of months ago thru a website posted on this blog and lets just say me and the ‘big’ rubber thing are getting pretty well acquinted… 😉
All I have to say is that the rabbit is the best money I ever spent. A rabbit isnt just for easter girls!!!!
Nana D, I enjoyed this post a lot. Any pointers on sex shop locations in Ghana? Ranv could u be a bit more specific? Like shop names and exact locations. I would love to check out what they have. Malaka I have been wondering if the silence is due to ur getting published? I KNEW this would happen *wailing with hands on head*
@ Ine, try http://www.mycatalogueshop.net , that’s where i got mine 😉
@ Maxine – *Ahem* I think my catalogue shop needs to pay for an advert on Adventures. They’ve gotten way too much publicity via the comments field 🙂
Ok, so for years, I had worn my imaginary round horn-rimmed glasses, believing I was well versed in “the art “… I see this post on TheVibes and think “yeah, yeah”… But then it strikes me hard, that I really didn’t know who BugsBunny, I mean, TheRabbit was… So google comes to my aid… Seeing an image, I smile, finking, “oh, en dat??? beh I know am???” But then I decide to read on it and alas!!! I realise that the “little extension” is meant for the Bud, and not the BehindDispenser!!! Yes, I am still shamefaced (a smiley might have done me justice)… Now I see why you PetLovers are so into ’em… Pet In Peace… Oh, and any hope for Cat or Dog lovers???
@Ebenezer – Oh my goodness. I have laughed so hard at your comment. I KNOW you’re pulling my leg 🙂
Nana, pulling ur legs, u say??? With what??? (Whispering) my hands are busy…*winking in spanish*…
why did you do such a boring audio with this? should have actually put it into action, don’t you think?
Hahaha. Maybe I will next time 🙂
I laughed so hard at Lolita’s comment: Rabbits aren’t just for Easter! Gaggagagaaa!!
At Ozohu & co: I am working on the installments as fast as I can ooo. I’m sure your spidey senses are telling you that we are drawing to a close very soon. If they haven’t, let me warn you – ATS is drawing to a close very soon! Hopefully by that time, my self appointed publicist will get our work in print, eh African Mami? 😉