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Adventures From the Bedrooms of African Women

Adventures From the Bedrooms of African Women.

Author: Kgothatso Motshele

Non-monogamy: The Beginning of the journey

Non-monogamy: The Beginning of the journey

In General Issues, Polyamory, RelationshipsPublish DateSeptember 28, 2022Leave a comment Kgothatso Motshele

Non-monogamy has been a hot topic in the last few years as we see more and more people claim this part of their identity and share their lived experiences with the world. Like with so many …

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Five Myths About Ethical Non-Monogamy

Five Myths About Ethical Non-Monogamy

In General Issues, RelationshipsPublish DateSeptember 21, 2022Leave a comment Kgothatso Motshele

Ethical non-monogamy can be defined as participating in more than one relationship in an ethical way. “Ethical” implies that everyone involved is consenting and aware they are in a relationship where non-monogamy features, they have discussed …

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Queering Sexual Health – a non pathological approach to sexual health advocacy

Queering Sexual Health – a non pathological approach to sexual health advocacy

In General Issues, Sex EducationPublish DateSeptember 7, 20221 Comment Kgothatso Motshele

In September 2020, I attended a Sexual Attitudes Reassessment (SAR) course hosted by Sex Coach University, the institution through which I was completing my sex coaching qualification. As a baby in the industry, I was overwhelmed …

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Daddy Issues (Part 2): The Oedipus Complex

Daddy Issues (Part 2): The Oedipus Complex

In General IssuesPublish DateAugust 24, 2022Leave a comment Kgothatso Motshele

I am almost running to my place when I get off the train, hoping my housemates are home to help me unpack the dilemma I am in. I am not naïve enough to think Prof had …

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Daddy Issues (I)

Daddy Issues (I)

In General IssuesPublish DateAugust 17, 2022Leave a comment Kgothatso Motshele

“I hate this bureaucratic shit.” The woman in the booth next to me turns her face towards me in reaction. Embarrassed, I turned my body inwards and away from her, wondering how long I’d been talking …

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Spiritually Sexual

Spiritually Sexual

In General Issues, SexualityPublish DateJuly 27, 2022Leave a comment Kgothatso Motshele

I grew up in the church. That probably tells you a lot about how I’ve been conditioned to think about sex and pleasure, especially as it relates to me as a spiritual being. I hadn’t always …

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I Was Never Taught to Love Her

I Was Never Taught to Love Her

In General IssuesPublish DateJuly 20, 2022Leave a comment Kgothatso Motshele

Dear mother, When I sit and introspect, and question all things that I really know, There are so few that I could bet my life on. For it seems that much of the knowledge I think …

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Sex Toys: A Journey To Self-Pleasure, Intimacy and Sex

Sex Toys: A Journey To Self-Pleasure, Intimacy and Sex

In General Issues, Sex Education, SexualityPublish DateJune 15, 2022Leave a comment Kgothatso Motshele

I was in my first year of university when I owned my first toy. I was always that girl everyone knew to be sex-positive, open and free about sexual health and pleasure. So when a classmate …

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Cumming Into Myself (II)

Cumming Into Myself (II)

In General Issues, Orgasms, SexualityPublish DateJune 9, 2022Leave a comment Kgothatso Motshele

At home, I treat myself to a glass of pinotage, a springbok carpaccio and avo salad. I giggle at the subconscious choice to have a light meal, something I would usually do if I had reason …

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Cumming Into Myself (I)

Cumming Into Myself (I)

In General Issues, OrgasmsPublish DateJune 1, 2022Leave a comment Kgothatso Motshele

For the last few weeks, I have been feeling much better than I have in a long time. I am finally waking up and showering and feeding myself. A few days ago, I found myself leaving …

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Welcome to Adventures Reads!


Adventures From The Bedrooms Of African Women Adventures from the Bedrooms of African Women began as a popular blog for African women to speak openly about their sex lives. The podcast, hosted by Ghanaian founders Nana Darkoa Sekyiamah and Malaka Grant, carries on in this tradition, exploring African women’s experiences of sex, sexuality and pleasure.

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