You’re too nice and that’s why men and people in general normally mostly have the nerve to say the things they say to you. Too nice. Play nice. Be nice. The word monster in me wanted …
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I love, lurve, looooveeee podcasts. Also I love sex. And so podcasts that discuss sex, sexualities, desire and relationships are an absolute fav (and yes, an Adventures podcast is in the works but that is not …
Recently someone close to me made a joke along the lines of “Yawa. Nyi kondele ka timo nade sani gi curfew ni?” which roughly translated to how were female sex workers known to mostly operate in …
If Desire was a picture, what picture comes to your mind? A shimmery amorphous mass of fairy dust floating in the starry sky of a black universe leaving an incense of powerful orgasms? A primal erotic …
This year #AdventuresLive is going BIG! From the 15th of July through November 2020, join The Odyssey of Desire: a series of online conversations and explorations that will lead us on a journey through the depth …
I met the man who would eventually become my husband when I was 24 and when I had a strict “no more than 5 years older” policy when it came to dating. I turn 40 this …
Whew chile! We are in some strange and unpredictable times. 2020 has been one hell of a hot mess and we’re only halfway through. No one knows what to expect next, except maybe the CIA. I …
It’s the 7th of April, 2020, 5:30 pm. It’s Tuesday and I’m home, lying on my sofa trying to write this piece. I should be at work, but I’ve been on a two-week compulsory leave for …
A few months into isolation, I swiped right on a software engineer who drew me in with an array of eclectic pictures. First, a group photo with friends in a home setting which conveyed he had …
See what I did with the title? Eh? Oh whatever. You know it’s cool 🙂 May the 4th be with you! Where my Blerds at? Today is Our Day! For anyone else who is confused, today …