Recently someone close to me made a joke along the lines of “Yawa. Nyi kondele ka timo nade sani gi curfew ni?” which roughly translated to how were female sex workers known to mostly operate in …
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If Desire was a picture, what picture comes to your mind? A shimmery amorphous mass of fairy dust floating in the starry sky of a black universe leaving an incense of powerful orgasms? A primal erotic …
This year #AdventuresLive is going BIG! From the 15th of July through November 2020, join The Odyssey of Desire: a series of online conversations and explorations that will lead us on a journey through the depth …
I met the man who would eventually become my husband when I was 24 and when I had a strict “no more than 5 years older” policy when it came to dating. I turn 40 this …
Whew chile! We are in some strange and unpredictable times. 2020 has been one hell of a hot mess and we’re only halfway through. No one knows what to expect next, except maybe the CIA. I …
It’s the 7th of April, 2020, 5:30 pm. It’s Tuesday and I’m home, lying on my sofa trying to write this piece. I should be at work, but I’ve been on a two-week compulsory leave for …
A few months into isolation, I swiped right on a software engineer who drew me in with an array of eclectic pictures. First, a group photo with friends in a home setting which conveyed he had …
See what I did with the title? Eh? Oh whatever. You know it’s cool 🙂 May the 4th be with you! Where my Blerds at? Today is Our Day! For anyone else who is confused, today …
Question: Do y’all still make love/have sex/do the nasty/smash with music on? It might seem like a strange question, but #Lockdown has me pondering issues of little consequence but high emotional impact if left unresolved. Depending …
Hey Adventurers! How is everyone holding up in these Quarantine Streets and COVID Times? As well as we all can, I expect. I live in South Africa where our 21-Day nationwide lockdown, which began on March …